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Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time
Why do guys who approach me and continuously pursued me back off as soon as I show interest? Was coming off too strong a mistake?
This handsome and kind guy classmate ftom my campus started to chat me around 20 days ago and we only have to chat for a day until he asked me to hang out together. I immediately agreed because I like him too. We hang 2...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys even fall in love?
I know this sounds like a dumb question and I’m not man hating or anything but it’s not that I don’t think men ever fall in love. It just seems so uncommon with guys my age (high school- college.) I feel like whenever I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why am I always targeted by creeps?
I've had an account here twice. One last year, one this year. I deleted the first account after some man texted me on the website weird things and wanted me to be his girlfriend. he was more than 10 years older than me,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do I respond to him?
Hi everyone - I (25f) have been talking with this guy (25m) for a couple weeks now. We have know each other for over 10 years & have talked several times through those years but never dated. This most recent time we life...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need help with this. Can someone give me good advice?
I like this person. I am older than him 5 years. I’m going to tell you why I am so confused. I have a feeling this person has a little crush on me. We go out in a group of friends that are his friends and mine. Everytime...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he really the one for me?
I have a guy we have recently reconnected through a mutual friend. He's the friend of my best friend and we recently reconnected and he opens up to me that he loves me and he does this things that he wants to prove that...
Anonymous
(18-24) My crush seems to still be in love with her "past" boyfriend, or am I overthinking?
Hi everyone, I really love this girl. I told her that 2 years ago and got rejected. She at that time told me she broke up with her boyfriend (bf1) then dated another guy (bf2) but at that moment she was single. She also...
GuyInNeed
Xper 3 Age: 28 What happened, did I come too strong?
I (20M) went on three dates with her (F18) about 2 months ago. On the first date, I met her family. She asked me my political opinions. Our values align perfectly I ask her on a second date. She said yes. Second date...
iamwhatyoumademe
Xper 2 Age: 24 If he doesn’t text me first it’s because he’s not interested right?
I know this guy he’s 5 years younger than me. He stares at me and smiles a lot is nice to me jokes around with me like teasing. We even went to the movies together and he held my hand and me his. I text him playing around...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Is he not interested?
I matched with a guy on Tinder. He asked me out, I said yes but got Covid and had to postpone so for 3.5 wks which he was fine about. We were in touch every few days. He knew my age, job, education, have kids etc. So...
Prettyblonde
Xper 2 Age: 48 Guys, Is he just not interested?
I matched with a guy on Tinder. He asked me out, I said yes but got Covid and had to postpone so for 3.5 wks which he was fine about. We were in touch every few days. He knew my age, job, education, have kids etc. So...
Prettyblonde
Xper 2 Age: 48 Can I get the spark back?
Myself and a friend began texting and sexting over a year ago. We became very close and feelings quickly formed and so we started dating. She was hesitant at first but agreed and we started getting on really well until...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he like me?
About a week ago, I met a guy at college through mutual friends. At first, he was very outgoing with me and during the first two days he would talk non-stop with me. However, during the last few days I noticed a change in...
Melinara
Xper 4 Age: 21 Why is being so hot/cold with me? How do I approach this? Should I?
So I’ve [22F] been dating this guy [22M] for some time now. He’s expressed how much he “likes” me several times, and I thought he did too. So much so to the point where a few weeks ago he told me that wants to marry me in...
osnapitzstef
Xper 5 Age: 26 Why is my ex avoiding me at the gym. Do you think he thinks I’m a stalker?
We only went on like three dates but we texted all day everyday and has seen each other in passing before that as we used to go to the time at the same time so I say ex very lightly There’s just not enough space in the...
anonbrunette99
Yoda Age: 27 He broke up with me why is he still texting?
I have been with this guy 11 months. We have had ups and downs. Mainly because I have bipolar and I have really been struggling with my treatment for the good half of our relationship. He broke up with me yesterday saying...
Anonymous
(30-35) AITA because my friend's crush hit on me?
I was with a friend at a local spot when the guy she has a crush on texted her. He was in the area, so she told him to stop by. I know they have been spending time together, and she likes him a lot. He already met some...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can it be more or am I wasting my time?
This guy and I have been seeing eachother for 4 months on and off with a month break in between because he said he realized that I wasn't able to do the friends with benefits thing which is true, and he didn't want...
Lizabee5
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why "Playing Hard to Get" or sending "Mixed Signals" doesn't really work.
Definition of "Playing Hard to Get" : to pretend that one is not interested in having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone in order to make that person more attracted to them. Definition of "Sending Mixed...
Guys, Why does my ex hate me now and talk to me tomorrow?
We broke up 3wks ago. I am a medical student. I get a bit too busy with my studies and I wasn't able to give him enough time. We broke up. He blocked me. Now he unblocked me and were talking. I wanna get back with him and...
Anonymous
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