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Sometimes I get “tough love” when it comes to questions, opinions or posts I put up.

Now I can tell the difference between someone who just gets off on being condescending or controlling vs. giving me tough yet selfless advice.

The former will usually immediately throw in insults, labels and almost never offers constructive logic on how to improve or why I might be mistaken. I will never listen to that nor take the seriously. Even if they might be right I will never be won over with insults (who would?)

That latter will take time to read my all the details of my question and will often ask more details before judging. When they criticize they don’t get any enjoyment out of it. Rather they use logic to cogently express how I could be wrong and use facts to back it up. I might not like what they are saying (and can be harsh) but it might give me pause if they bring up good points to support their argument

Anyway I hate to be sexist but I find that women struggle with ego more often then men when it comes to getting criticism on what they want to hear vs. NEED to hear. This is especially true in scenarios that involve cheating.

I also find that women have a harder time taking criticism when a political issue involves logic vs. emotion.

The issue is most people want change... but won't take the disciplined steps to make the change. Having an accountability partner/coach is a way to address that.

I won't mention the price, the price is based upon the support provided and duration. Lets assume it's a nominal fee for most groups.

The group would meet under guidance of coach, possibly one on one at times, for support, direction, encouragement. Work is required by you, minimal time.

Conceptually this is no different than a gym personal trainer, a dating coach, bike riding club, etc.. but it's online.

Some example categories for groups:

* Improving men's dating skills (Dating coach)

* Getting exercising

* Improving your aching back

* Improving your relationship

* Journaling

* Song writing and publishing

* Book publishing.

* Trauma recovery

* Making $ online

... other...

*** Note some of these types of groups have liability risk, possible licensing requirements in different areas, making them more complex to operate and costly.