So I met this super cool woman, 42, who moved to Dallas a couple months ago for a man who ended up treating her like shit and she left him. When we first met, she said she's into younger men (I'm 34). Her and I hit it off right away, interesting, when we were in a group setting, she had mentioned that while my friend asked her out, she was too broke from her ex to date ATM, but she had no hesitation to give me her number when I left. Funny thing is she's not into basketball, I'm a designer with a club and she's following their account that I work for and liking all my work. We text every few days and when we do, the convos flow and she's always getting right back to me. Today, she mentioned she went to go to a wedding and said "Too bad I don't want to get married 😂". So I don't know if she was joking or serious about that. I been playing it cool and going slow, asked when things settle for us if we can hang out, she said "ok, sounds fun". So my question is, she said she "doesn't want to get married", I'm not looking to do that ATM either, but looking to see if I can date her, is it worth my time or if I hang out with her, could she end up changing her mind of what she wants?
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It is difficult to say for certain whether or not this woman will change her mind about wanting a relationship in the future, as everyone's feelings and desires can be subject to change depending on their circumstances and experiences. However, it is important to take her words at face value and respect her boundaries and preferences.
If she has explicitly stated that she does not want to get married, it is important to respect that and not pressure her into changing her mind or pursuing a relationship that conflicts with her stated desires. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your own intentions and goals in the relationship, and to ensure that you are both on the same page about what you want and what you are looking for.
Ultimately, it is important to approach any potential relationship with empathy, understanding, and open communication, and to prioritize your own well-being and values in any decision-making process. If you feel uncertain or unsure about the potential for a relationship with this woman, it may be helpful to seek guidance from trusted friends, family members, or a professional counselor to help navigate these complex decisions.
I already read enough flags in the beginning to not read the rest, you can do better man.
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