A little background: We’ve been together for 7 years (I’m 22, he’s 23), I trust him 100%, I know where he’s going, he always updates me.
He & his friends just go over to one of the guy’s houses to chill, but until 6am every single time? This just became a more recent thing, but I just find it ridiculous that he’s coming home literally when sunrise begins. We don’t live together by the way, we have always been seeing each other every Saturday our whole relationship since I’m still in college. On the other hand, he has more freetime than I do. Maybe I just find it ridiculous for someone to be staying out that late especially when they’re literally just chilling at their friends house?
Also I wish he can speak up for himself since he’s the driver or he’s getting a ride from his friends. He tells me he didn’t want to be out for that late, but maybe he should tell his friends he would like to go home? I don't know lmao he puts what other people want first before what he wants for himself.
What Girls Said
That is absolutely not normal.
I can understand if he would go once a month to "chill" to his friends, whatever is understood under the term "chill".
In the country where I live, a week has 7 days, 5 of which are working days. Now, if he is out partying 4 out of those 7 days, when does he study or work? Or could he be unemployed and you pay for everything?
Not only is it not normal to leave your girlfriend the entire night for 4 out of 7 days but that is totally inconsiderate. Even if you trust him, that is not a normal behavior. It looks as if his friends have a priority over you and that you are only necessary when he needs you.
You should have a serious conversation with him and tell him that you will no longer tolerate that kind of inconsiderate behavior. If he does not learn where his priorities lie now, he will never learn.
he'd be staying out 7x a week and not be let back in 🤷♀️
That is far too excessive. I wouldn't be happy if that was happening to me.