Ladies what to do if you think your man likes a woman at work?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend of 7yrs hates his job well least that’s what he always told me and would always fight with me if I even ask what he did today or how his day was. He’d literally yell at me and argue. Told me he’s not fucking staying there etc. well recently a girl started working there and now he seems all content with his job and all smiles and doesn’t care to look for another job. And I don't know I just feel like he’s into her or something. Am I crazy? Or overreacting? His job has only been dudes til she came. He works for a bottle manufacturer.

[laurieluvsit]

"A relationship without trust is of no value" ... sorry :(

[noturmother999]

I wouldn't be able to say that he's cheating for sure. However, my advice is that you need to communicate your worries. You need to be able to tell him what you are thinking and ask for reassurance. If he gets defensive... well then you got your answer-- he is cheating.
If you feel like communicating your worries will cause problems, then it simply means you are with the wrong guy altogether.

[spartan55]

You don't even know if he hangs around her at work...

[Anonymous]

Don't assume anything unless you have some proof.

[Asker]

Well if it was your girlfriend what would you do? And hard to get proof if I don’t work there lol and my cars broke down right now and he knows it. I’m just nervous cause he’s a very narcissistic and mentally and emotionally abusive guy. He’ll make me believe things on purpose to mess with me he’s done it before so I don't know what to believe

[Opinion Owner]

Id do nothing and stop overreacting.

[Asker]

I hope you’re right he’s told me he’s cheat on me before but guess we’ll see

[Asker]

He’d*

[spartan55]

@asker
Yeah your boyfriend sounds like a really great guy...🙄