Recognizing and acknowledging some of the poor behaviour of our own gender, and that they are creating issues that do negatively affect others, is important for others to hear.
We cannot categorically support one gender and condemn another. Wrong is wrong, no matter what sex they are.
Try to think of things one gender does more, not something that is done by both genders equally.
Examples:In the end, the beginning is only a small part of a relationship and looks only get a person so far. They cannot carry a relationship. What makes guys stay? When they find something they're attracted to + personality + compatibility. That's what we all want.
Yes, some men are motivated by sex and that is the main thing they want from the opposite sex, but lumping all guys into the 'dogs' category only exacerbates the problems. Many guys do want more, they want a relationship with a nice person who appreciates them and treats them well.
(Hint: Girls are always approached more than guys. If all guys suddenly stopped approaching, dating would probably grind to a halt.)
Girls who believe that they are more valuable, more sought after, because they are the ones being approached. This is faulty logic.
Girls who turn on the waterworks (cry) deliberately to seem more upset than they actually are, to try and gain sympathy and get what they want. This is diabolical.
This is a trait that will doom any relationship to fail.
Excessive finger-pointing at men and blaming them for the majority of relationship problems.
Girls not willing to acknowledge fault.
I'd like to help out my friend here, and promote his q. This is also helpful and positive:
Have you ever read responses from the opposite gender that restores your faith in them? ↗
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