Not peoples' personal failings, things they struggle with, but behavioural things people do, and they could change if they wanted to.
Recognizing and acknowledging some of the poor behaviour of our own gender, and that they are creating issues that do negatively affect others, is important for others to hear.
We cannot categorically support one gender and condemn another. Wrong is wrong, no matter what sex they are.
Try to think of things one gender does more, not something that is done by both genders equally.
Examples:Model Cara DelevingneActor Victor Strand, 'Walking Dead'Model Jason MorganWhat a douche. I want to smack that smirk right off his face.In the end, the beginning is only a small part of a relationship and looks only get a person so far. They cannot carry a relationship. What makes guys stay? When they find something they're attracted to + personality + compatibility. That's what we all want. Yes, some men are motivated by sex and that is the main thing they want from the opposite sex, but lumping all guys into the 'dogs' category only exacerbates the problems. Many guys do want more, they want a relationship with a nice person who appreciates them and treats them well. (Hint: Girls are always approached more than guys. If all guys suddenly stopped approaching, dating would probably grind to a halt.) Girls who believe that they are more valuable, more sought after, because they are the ones being approached. This is faulty logic.
Girls who turn on the waterworks (cry) deliberately to seem more upset than they actually are, to try and gain sympathy and get what they want. This is diabolical.
This is a trait that will doom any relationship to fail. Excessive finger-pointing at men and blaming them for the majority of relationship problems. Girls not willing to acknowledge fault.
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I''m very happy with the replies here. Great job, everyone.
I definitely agree with the manipulative crocodile tears to get their way. Reminds me of a little kid crying when they don't get a toy at the store, then they're all of a sudden completely fine once their parents cave in, lol. I know of a woman in her late 20's who is like this. Typical spoiled brat behavior in a grown adult.
I also don't like the women who marry for money/stability and expect a man to provide for them so they can have an easy life with little to no responsibilities. To me, that is just using someone and essentially being a bum. The thing I really don't get about this is that if a man lays on his ass and plays video games all day while the wife slaves her ass off to provide for him, he's considered a lazy bum, and rightfully so. Yet, if it's a woman laying on her ass watching dramas on TV all day, shopping with money that isn't hers, or gossiping with friends all day and her husband slaves his ass off to provide for her, that's considered "normal" and the woman is even seen as a victim who "just needs a good man to take care of her". I don't see how anyone could feel proud of themselves for needing to be cared and provided for like a little kid and not (or barely) contributing. I feel sorry for the men who get used by these women (but at the same time, they need to not enable this crap, either, and expect more from their girlfriends and wives) and hate the double standards. For the record, I'm not talking about stay-at-home moms or housewives that are taking care of the kids and house all day long, I'm talking about women who have little to no responsibilities at all and believe they shouldn't have to have any. I have the misfortune of knowing a few like this, and they're spoiled, entitled brats in adult bodies. I just find it pathetic to need someone else to take care of you if you're fully functioning and able to do it yourself, but just don't feel like it or aren't responsible enough (which absolutely can be changed, but most people don't want to try to be better). The reason this bothers me so much is because I've seen several good guys get used by women like this, though it is true that they allowed it. I just think anyone who feels fine using someone like that and essentially taking their money has very questionable morals.
I mean, there's no excuse to not be able to take care of yourself if you're a fully functioning adult. I'm a grown woman who works hard and is fully responsible for myself without relying on anyone else or feeling entitled to their money, and it's not even that hard. I've never understood how being responsible is so hard for some people, but I guess I've been blessed to grow up in a family that taught personal responsibility and held me accountable.
This one young woman came into my line when I was a cashier at a grocery store. She said "you don't have these items nodding her head with arms crosses?" Then after I just said "huh" she said never mind after she saw I didn't cave in. She quickly realized I wasn't her dad or mom or something like that.
@ClearSea If it's consensual, that's their business, but I still think relying on another person when you're a grown, fully functioning adult who is more than capable of taking care of yourself is questionable at best. I know I would feel absolutely worthless if everything I had was because a guy handed it to me and I'd never accomplished anything on my own in my life.
@blondfrog Sounds about right, lol. The manipulative person I know just lets out the crocodile tears (complete with shaking as if she's having a nervous breakdown 🙄) and all of a sudden once whoever it is who she's trying to manipulate leaves the room, she's fine and there's not a single tear on her face.
I just found it funny how it took her a couple of seconds that I wasn't her beck'n call and that I was a cashier to her only lol. It's like you must be really self entitled to have that mind set.
@blondfrog Yes, some are raised to believe they're more special than others and that everyone in the world will cater to them in the same way their parents did growing up!
Thanks for this post. I've met so many women who only care about what I can provide and not about me personally or they simply expect me to do everything and complain when I ask for them to do one simple thing every once in a while. Between what you describe, the current wave of feminism and #metoo it is too dangerous for men like me (who wants a true, stable, loving relationship and family) to risk dating because of the odds of finding someone this crazy and having our lives ruined. It is nice to see some women who see it our way.
@jgokgotit Thank you! Yes, I agree, and it is very unfortunate that some women take advantage and then turn around and make accusations that are untrue as well. I've unfortunately known of a few cases like this as well.
Probably being a drama queen, and sometimes, at the same time, not even being straight up about what's bothering them. You see the bewildered guy on the other end of it like " what the fuck is going on? " Our ability to make something out of nothing is astounding sometimes.
Another thing is women who stop fathers from being their kids. I know parental alienation can come from either gender, but it's heartbreaking either way.
Works on the flipside as well. I had a friend who had an exwife that was a guys nightmare after their divorce she continued to make his life hard. Here's where most guys would say all kinds of bad things about her but he doesn't and one day i asked him why he neber said anything bad about her and he said "That's still their mother, and your mother is your first example of womanhood. I don't want my sons growing up and having a negative view or hating all women because of my mistake. You have to remember your kids are always watching".
For guys? Manwhoring/white knighting. They tell women to slut it up, their is nothing wrong with it, no judging etc. etc. etc. except they say this because they want women to be easier to have sex with without them having to invest anything (if things go bad for sex, its women who are left screwed over from it whether that be STD's, pregnancy or just the reputation (the fact is a guy is not going to want to wife up a woman who has slept with a lot of guys and men know this but act like its not a thing because they just want her for sex).
White knighting because the fact is you dont' get better and become a better person by being told everything you want to hear, by being told your perfect just the way you are. You get better by having some one tell you the cold hard truth that your screwing up, that your doing something wrong, that your behavior is driving others away then you come in with the means of fixing this and letting them know they don't have to keep going down that path. Their is a reason why depression has increased along side this culture of self love, casual sex, and being focused on ones self. We need purpose and for most of humanity we gain happiness by knowing we have done something good, that we have helped others or created something.
White knighting is no different then helicopter parenting/overparenting, you just do everything in your power to prevent the person, in this case women, from growing and becoming a better and happier person. Sure you don't want unwarranted attacks, absolutely true. Of course you don't want needlessly aggressive criticism, understandable. But to sit and act as if women are perfect, you have told her that this is it, what ever stage of development she is at, what ever stage of life, what ever she is feeling right now is the best she will ever have and it will never improve so why bother trying? If your not happy now then their is nothing you can do, you are resigned to your fate and that is not a benefit to her or anyone for that matter. What makes it worse is that most use this to get validation from women so unsurprisingly its for their benefit not women's. The people who tell you what you want to hear are rarely interested in your well being, those who tell you what you NEED to hear, usually are.
Any man who must endure the hypocrisy of a woman like Nelly83 who incessantly whines and labels other girls sexist as soon as any criticism is aimed at women and pretends it's all this site does, that's a good example. There's loads of pro-women content here, there are even submissive men who wants to be slaves to women for goodness sake. Maybe it seems like a lot of that circulates because faults among women is so exceedingly rarely acknowledged and spoken of. And self-righteous attitudes like Nellys only proves that.
Any woman who must endure a man full of himself in alpha male mentalities who treat her poorly just to feed his own ego. Men who look upon any woman and see nothing but a vagina, ass and breasts. Abusers, deadbeats.
When women think they have a right to tell a man if he has a right to see his own children if they break up. What makes you think you have more parental rights that you get to make that decision. A man has just as much right/say to his children! Children should NEVER EVER be used as a tool to hurt your ex. And you don't just hurt your ex that way, you hurt your child/children as well. And that makes you the worse parent in my opinion. And women are far guiltier of this then men. And I hate to see women do that to men and children.
Thank you. And you see a female downvoted me But that's not just because of this answer. Someone on here is purposely going through all my opinions and downvoting them. But I'm not on here for votes do they're wasting their time if they think that bothers me 🤣
Another thing is talking bad about your ex spouse or ex partner to your kids. It slowly makes your kids hate the other parent. My mom did this to me and my siblings growing up. Its probably the reason why i have a rocky relationship with my dad and how i have a hard time bonding with him. I want to be cool with him but we end up fighting more than normal and it sucks.
I think controlling woman are disgusting and I have no idea why men put up with it - if a guy was disrespecting me like that - I would divorce him in 2 minutes and these men stay married for decades and centuries to woman like that
I've had a person in my family who was with a very not nice, bad tempered, controlling woman. None of us liked her. Me and his brother and his friends couldn't understand it and talked to him that he didn't need to put up with that, he should leave her. It's was quite volatile. Honestly, we thought she had no redeeming qualities and I don't say that often about people.
There are a number of reasons I think this situation occurred: He was lonely single and he felt it was better than being alone, not having a girlfriend. He tends to have mood swings himself and is not such an even-keeled person who requires total peacefulness. She was an elementary school teacher and had a 'teachery' way about her. I think she got used to talking down to people, putting them in their place, and even being condescending to him and his friends which were really all her peers, but she didn't see it that way I guess. She thought they were immature and I might agree with that somewhat, but at least they were nice guys. His mother was a tough strong woman. Very present, in charge, energetic, and she ran her house with a lot of... vigor. (I don't think she was as far as a controlling bitch, but maybe that is open to interpretation. I know that now, as adults, his brother is quite different - he likes things 'just so' and is very neat and organized and capable, and has a relationship with both his parents, but the guy I'm talking about has less of a relationship with anyone. Many years later, he's now with a nice woman and they live very separately, geographically, from the rest of the family. He isolated and chose not to interact with them anymore.
Because if she's controlling and abbusing, there's no telling what shit she can think of when really pissed. You see when you say someone abbused you, you are believed, us man not so much, and if its woman accusing us, she is beliewed on spot. All she needs is to cut herself and guy won't see daylight for long long time. There isn't much choice for man. And not everyone is capable just to start there lifes over at other place, and even if they do they have to deal and prowe a lot in corts, and even then they can get screewed. I dont blame mgtow in this sense, you could almost put me in one boat with them, except im not but hurt, i just dont trust people a lot. Some how not dating leads to more peacfull life.
I saw my girlfriends phone and i know thats wrong. I allowed her to keep in contact with her but it became too explicit for me to take such like missing having sex with him. I confronted her and she cried badly and said she didn't know. I did forgive but now we have not had any sexual relations for a year now because she refuses it. What path are we going? What am i doing? I love her and she says she love me too. But all these is still going on. I dont know if she's still talking to him.. But i gave up caring. What should i do.. I always ask myself.
Quite a few things, actually, which I fortunately don't possess myself: 1. What I call the 'princess mentality' - where some women think they are perfect angels and deserve nothing but the best and to be waited on hand and foot all the time. Entitled and not willing to compromise or give the love their guy needs. Forgetting that men also need attention, like being reminded how attractive and wonderful they are, being supportive. Instead, they just make everything about them and essentially use the relationship for their own gains, or dump a guy for simply not putting up with her crap. 2. The over-clingy type. I see this in both genders but a lot more so in women. It makes me cringe how some women just can't leave their men alone. We all need space and I don't know how anyone would put with someone needing your constant attention every second of the day. I am talking about the women who literally need to be talking to their boyfriends all day, and even when apart, texting and calling all damn day. Give the guy a break - he'll be a lot happier to see you if you take a step back. 3. The double-standard girl - the type of woman who condemns any flirtatious/cheating from men, but feels free to flirt her way into free drinks or grind up to a guy in bar who isn't her boyfriend, or even cheat and think its OK because she's a woman and 'has needs'. No, if you're in a relationship, whatever gender, you damn well have some respect for your partner and the fact you're with them and no one else. 4. The ones who falsely lead guys on - obviously you can, at any point, stop your interactions with someone if you no longer feel comfortable. But, purposely leading on a guy you know you will never date is just hurtful. I've known girls who talk to, flirt, give numbers to guys who they actually have no intention of dating. They act interested then just turn around one day and say 'you're a nice guy, but I am not looking for a relationship right now'. I am not talking about dating someone and realizing they're not for you or simply changing your mind about someone, but women who know full well they don't have any attraction to these guys. I have heard some even admit that they only flirted because they were bored. But it just isn't right. That guy thought you were into him at least, and wasted his time and energy even getting excited about you. I am sure he would have rather just been turned down nicely from the start.
I don’t like how a lot of women around my age will literally play with men’s emotions. I’ve seen it happen many times and I always call the women out on their BS. These women would be stringing along a really good guy who truly believes they’re dating but the women will literally sleep with some random guys they meet in a dating app probably 30 mins after having the really good guy cook a meal for her or the really good guy would’ve just spent a lot of time with them.
It’s women like that who make it hard for me to date because every guy I meet has been screwed over by those types of women. Then they treat me like shit because they had their heart broken in the past.
I understand some people believe in seeing multiple people but they need to be upfront and honest with the other party if that’s their intention. Don’t tell someone they’re the only person you’re seeing and that you are in a serious relationship when you’re gonna fuck someone else not even an hour after they leave.
I think it goes both ways, as there are planty guys who play with girls to. And then they talk about not wanting damadged goods for better lack of term. At the end whos right and whos wrong? Im quite shure you have terrible expereance to, no one can escape from it. I was cheated on while engadged, then pulled along for some time, in my foolishnes to try and fix it. Used because somehow at start im something new and exsaiting (motorcycle racing, dancing, sailing, hiking and so on). Few of such "relationships" and at the end you dont want them anymore, you start to watch people with same mindset, not caring for there emotions, because you yourself have been burying yours so long that you barely feel them any more. So who is right and who is wrong? Its way simpler to just try and avoid it as much you can.
This is terrible and sad. What are people doing to each other. This needs to stop.
But I'm glad you shared. I think people really need to hear this, that actions have a ripple effect in society. It leaves scars. It's so selfish. Both women and men are doing this. Thank you for acknowledging this to the guys.
@serenity2014... you spittin str8 fire, girl... i see that as part of the hoookup culture... they're damaging people who are serious and that's not ok... thankyou for trying to do what you can
The other day at work my coworkers were talking about how attractive the girls at work were and I wouldn’t have noticed it if one of the other coworkers wasn’t a girl. She’s quiet mostly and comes off as shy. When she did restrooms they started talking about a newer employee. Some of the guys think she was good looking and the others were saying stuff like “she’s “ok” but she’s not bad.”
What they said kind of made feel a bit irritated but it made me feel more irritated that one of the girls were there. They didn’t say much when she was close. Like if she went to restroom they talked. Voices travel you know?
Anyway, what bothered me the most is if she overheard them and wondered something like “why aren’t they mentioning my name?” It’s one thing to say something about a girl and she hears you. But I feel like there are the other girls who guys overlook and hear the guys talk about girls who aren’t them,
It bothers me how guys don’t stop to think how what they say or don’t say might affect girls collectively. I don’t know her well. But I do worry about what if she goes home feeling invisible and goes to extremes to be noticed by guys. Right now she’s quiet and comes off as sweet. They’re all teenagers. That age where you either start becoming your worst or best self.
What I hate the most is that guys sometimes unknowingly influence genuinely decent girls to turn away from themselves and become what they think will get them noticed. I doubt guys have these talks consciously knowing how it might affect a girl. They think “oh she’s not here so it’s fine” but it affects all girls.
Anyway, I should’ve said something. Next time I will. That’s my promise.
I'm a jack-of-all trades. I used to be a photographer for models and I also handled social media accounts for a few lingerie brands and female fitness brands. That being said, when I was doing social media marketing and my goal was "attract a FEMALE audience," I found that incredibly hard to do, because men would follow the social media accounts when I posted an image of a woman in some lingerie or fitness gear, they would comment and share it with their male friends and males would end up following the accounts as opposed to women -- Even though these were WOMEN BRANDS.
As far as behavior is concerned, I think men on social media are despicable and it embarasses me to be a man. I don't understand why men follow and comment on everything that have to do with female brands on social media. I don't understand why men spend $30/month on onlyfans, when they can just get access to free porn or go to strip clubs or go out and talk to women.
To all those men that go to a random woman's Instagram page and comment shit like, "Damn, you're sexy babe!" What do you get out of it? It's stupid and a waste of time and you know the girl won't even see it or reply. For each comment you leave on their page, that's time you can spend improving yourself or time you could spend going out there and meeting ACTUAL women.
What does this have to do with the question I can hear you asking me? Well, while *some* of us men are so bothered by the parasitic gold diggers, who offer nothing but their youth and beautiful body, there are equally as many men out there, who want to take away women's basic rights and send them straight back into the 1950s, where they couldn't drive, couldn't get any academic degrees and couldn't even work and were literally dependent on men's money and basically lived only in the kitchen and bedroom. I don't get this fetish of giving a leeching gold digger your money but maybe that's because I grew up dirt poor.
And that is what bothers me. Taking away women's basic rights irks me and makes me feel bad for the women. Women aren't slaves nor is their "ultimate purpose" to be incubators. (Did he really think just because he was married, is pseudo-alpha dominant, prohibited her from earning her own money, puts her under some sort of fear and controls the money, then he can control her like a videogame character? This sounds like a recipe for a disaster).
Or how "emasculating" it is when a woman earns more money than he does or when she's the driver. Or both! Like WTF, did he lose his balls or something?
I think you get the general idea by now, Mrs. Amanda.
Hard to name just one. I guess it would be taking the white knight thing way too far. It's one thing to want to protect women. It's another to go out of your way to personally destroy someone else simply for showing a hint of interest in a woman- especially if she's not even yours!
It's to the point that I'm scared to even add a gal on Facebook, for fear I'll be treated like Harvey Weinstein over it.
It's revolting how some men will paint innocent yet socially awkward potential rivals like sex predators, and go to lengths to convince women said men are, just to eliminate competition. Leads to rumor mills, and to men who didn't do a damned thing being played up like serial killers. So you can't even say hi, without being treated like you're a rapist.
I had to deal with that BS for years, especially in college. It's why I fear to confess to gals how I feel even now, convinced some goon is gonna pop out of the floorboards and harass me if I dare admit interest to a gal.
This happens to women too. I had a female friend tell me all the times she tried talking to guys and having other girls cockblock her and other girls being outrageously rude to her even when they aren't even dating the guy, they are just friends with him.
@LeoElias : What I dealt with went beyond cockblocking. I wound up arguing with police about things that never even happened. They'd lie to cops, just to make sure I remained as socially isolated (let alone sexually isolated) as possible.
I'll try to address some things I witness from people of my gender. First, I have to say that guys I know in person are stable. But when I look at certain other cultures or at the history of western culture, one thing that stands out for me is men's arrogance. They see themselves as superior to women. They view women as sex objects, baby machines and household possessions, but lacking common sense and intellect. Women have to managed; treated like children.
I've been shocked to see a surprising number of guys on GAG express contempt for women. They see them all as opportunists who just want men's money. Normal, sexually active women are considered to be filthy sluts.
I don't know anyone who thinks like that, but there are apparently a lot of guys who do. I find it baffling.
Such negativity pointed at women. But what's ironic is that such an attitude makes those guys' lives miserable. And it seems that they are determined to remain so. It's pathological. No one can help them but themselves. They will never know the contentment, joy and happiness of a wonderful relationship or even amazing sex.
Women who are nagging and call their boyfriends/husbands all the time. There are times we're at meetings, trainings, having activities that need heavy concentration. Some women are so jealous they don't think that it's inapproppriate to intervene in important events. I work with guys and I know busy is busy.
As well as ones who only care for money and mislead men to think that they're interested in them. Ones who pretend they are innocent, good girls, when atcually are not. Ones who are dishonest to their partners and lie, playing victims. And of course women who don't know their places, knowingly the man they like are not available (married or not), yet keep seeking for attention openly. That's horrible.
I hate guys that take advantage of women. It breaks my heart, but what breaks it worse is this assumption of the male gender being the cause of all girls suffering is toxic. It's the male genders fault but now guys that are doing the right thing or at least are trying to are not looked at as the ones that are taking advantage of women. Self fullfilling prophesy type stuff... It's sad to hear. Clearly women not feeling safe or comfortable in society is terrible in and of it's self. I'm not sure there's a way to fix it now and guys taking advantage of girls has now left all guys with a bad name
Assumptions are bad because it's like rumors spreading in high school. Clearly girls being taken advantage of is worse but assumptions/rumors is bad too because it makes social contact with genders that much more difficult and again, us men have done this to ourselves
Personally, I hate when some men are so insisting and annoying when it comes to flirting. I don't know why but I find it so annoying and it must be even more annoying when you're on the receiving end.
I also hate when some men abuse women, particularly when they abuse of their physical strength to punish a woman, to get what they want, to rape or anything like that. it's just beyond cowardly.
I also hate players because they hurt and scar some women who then turn suspicious or bitter towards normal or good men. They ruin these women and potentially their future relationships just to empty their balls.
Perverted comments and actions like trying to send pictures of their private parts, generally acting like a bunch of sex crazed animals. (Not all of us are that way, but the ones who are not only seem very common, but give the rest of us a bad reputation!)
Saying that women hit the wall at 25, I want to punch his face in when I hear a guy say stuff like that, I've seen very attractive women going all the way up to their 50s.
Treating women like slaves, the ones who force women to do things they don't want to.
Saying women are "unfeminine" and that "no guy will want them" just because she isn't a stereotypical disney princess type, not all guys want ones like that!
As are the women that you don't terrorize and make it a point to let them know that they are not alone and we despise those types of men just as much as they do.
Despite what some men try to pawn off as equal rights for not defending a woman, i was raised by a real man an old school father who grew up with absolutely nothing. Who's family lived in one room of a more successful family's house. He came from nothing and made it in life and taught us that standing up for and defending women was the right thing to do. He put it on the same level as not stealing or murdering or if you're capable, serving your nation's military and providing for your family.
The boys that dont believe in that stuff make me fucking sick to my stomach that they can experience a freedom without fear and still try to justify that fucking putrid idealism.
Someone reported my dead body question when i was ready to walk the plank and now im being investigated. Fucking great. I will no longer be a part of this community other than to make sure my friend @secret6620 is doing well
@Heyyyyyyboyysss. No, u really dont. Im an awkward, pathetic fucking loser. With only one good quality that i can't even bring up cuz apparently big dicks offend women just as much it pleases them. So what the fuck ever.
Women that have unrealistic expectations in relationships. By that, I mean women who expect their boyfriend to sacrifice everything to prove his love - this includes ditching his friends, having credit card wiped out etc etc. I think most girls have been watching too many romance movies, they need to realize that just because their boyfriend doesn't send them cute good morning texts doesn't mean that he doesn't care about her. I know guys can be inconsiderate and selfish - but pressuring your boyfriend to buy you a new Gucci purse which he can't afford makes you just as bad.
If that was the other way around, it wouldn't go down too well.
-women who make false rape claims -women who get pregnant with another mans baby and has their spouse raised it -Women who cheat because their "bored" -women who take a man for everything in a divorce -women who belittle women, then turns around spouting how we should look out for one another -women who instead of confronting a person they have been issues with, tries to instead destorybtheir social life and their character -women who have sex with children -women who beat their kids and or spouses -women who cheat on their partner while they are deployed or in general And that's all I'm willing to write right now
The only one I've seen a lot of is destroying the person's social life and character. Women will trash each other and guys' reputations over the smallest things.
@winterfox10 Its a form of aggression. I forget the correct term. Like, men will resort more physically, whereas girls, will come through it socially. Why? Brcause for girls, social life is more important to them. As for little things, I agree. It can be as simple as dating the boy they like, or accidentally stepping on their foot.
For me it's the lying. It scares the hell out of me. I've actually gotten to the point with women (especially women that I've just started talking to), that I have started documenting our communications and interactions. It's actually saved me more than a few times, because people will confront me about things the woman told them, and I can point directly to my records to show the person what was said.
@winterfox10 It's good for you to do so, because girls will keep document of the same things you do. That's why, you NEVER release personal thoughts and such to coworkers, male or female. I've personally had males do the same thing to me, not women. So it's important to trust nobody.
But, you know the saying, that women keep track of EVERYTHING. That's not a joke. We do. It's how I get women trying to actually fuck men over to stop. Women are VERY social beings. We get hurt easily if a member disrupts the pack and we will retaliate be it physical or socially. When we like each other, it's a powerful thing. There are friendly women out there and when we find members willing to fight for each another. I kid you not, you should be afraid. However, just like men, their arw those that will be be malicious.
@Aaron_Stone It's just a written a record, usually. I keep track of the date, the time, the content, and the medium it was sent through.
And yes, women are quite savage in fights. But that's why I keep those records. I saved my friendships with my ex's girlfriends because I showed them my records, and showed them that I had reasons for behaving the way that I had. A lot of them ended up distancing themselves from her as a result. Unfortunately, my ex destroyed a lot of my male friendships.
@winterfox10 Yup, shit happens. That's why, I refuse to date anyone I wasn't friends prior for about 2 years. Not worth bringing in a stranger to screw me over. That's also why I remained a virgin. If he really wanted me, he'd wait for me to be ready. Plus, why waste my virginity on an asshole? But, back to the question at hand.
Yes, it can save you. Brcause they can twist your words. I've had women try to do so. A girl actually got my phone number and tried to text me being someone else. Luckily I had a friend on the inside who told me it was her and I dealt with it. Never did anything agian. And you know what? I literally didn't do anything to this girl. She literally had a problem with me, because she thought I was pretty. I'm not joking. All she talked about was my ass (I workout and have a pretty big shapely butt) and she would say how I probably stuffed my pants and shit. I swear she wanted me lol As a fellow girl, i can see why girls might seem scary, but this is why it's good to listen to your female friendsbir sisters, when they tell you something is off. Girls are known to read ques better then men we know how a lot of women are. Also it's best to look for signs.
That actually happened with my ex's little sister. She didn't tell me that something was off, but she tried to get me to give up before I tried. I didn't see it this way at the time because our relationship was antagonistic and rocky, but looking back on; she was honestly doing me a solid.
I see men kiss the ass of women they like and give them everything they want. I feel bad for women because this shows women they can be entitled brats and whine and complain to get their way. For example, if a woman wants to argue with me in public, I drive off and leave her ass hanging. If my woman is being an ass towards me or disrespecting me, I stop spoiling her and tell her exactly what I'm doing. Men, grow a backbone. Women are awesome, but they are not entitled to treating us like servants, not are we entitled to treat them like servants.
Very good one! One man actually said "treating a woman on a girlfriend level is a privilege. Don't grant these privileges to these, who do not appreciate you".
I cry all the fucking time over everything, and I feel so bad for my boyfriend. I do know how to cry on command, bu I usually only do that to breeze my way through school, I don’t really do it to my boyfriend. I’m just actually a giant cry baby. He raises his voice at me. I cry. He buys me a nice gift. I cry tears of joy. We have a teeny tiny argument. I’m bawling my fucking eyes out. It’s not that I want to get extra sympathy or make him feel guilty. I think I just really value his opinion of me, and I feel really upset when he’s even slightly upset with me. It’s not on purpose, but I know it must be annoying.
My player friend annoyed me sometimes with his hypocrisy. He used me to attract women (I'm 10 years younger then him) who didn't allow him to approach them and our friendship was a superficial farce, but his behavior toward women was much far more terrible. He has been infatuated in a girl a short time, it was real. Then suddenly he sought for some weird excuses to dump or cheat on her and he did it regularly. Of course those women are partially responsible for his pathological behavior, but motivation of those girls is comprehensible. They wanted a presentable man as boyfriend ( he is handsome ). I suppose guys like him who exploit brutally girl's need for a partner are responsible for the hatred of some women toward men. I'm partially responsible because I played a role in his game, but I was too less experienced to notice that.
Is this a trick question? Kidding. I see a lot. The gentleman code was one thing we still should hold. It is not that I gentleman, or " men" think you can not do things for yourself bit realize what you have to already deal with naturally and we are doing our part to balance. Let's face it everyone period and pregnancy requires a lot of counter balance. It is not a power thing or shouldn't be. It is a peace of mind thing.
One thing that gets me is dick pics. Come on, no one, and I mean NO ONE wants to see that.
Another is blaming women for not being what women want. Again come on, there's lot's about you that is desirable, regardless of who you are. But to focus on the negative things is just to assume fault on the others part.
This idea that guys deserve sex... No you don't. Any more then gay guys deserve sex with you. If you are that desperate there are legal brothels in Nevada, Canada and Mexico. Pull out your credit card and get what you need.
Also the world owes you nothing, you owe the world. Stop talking about your rights, and look at your responsibilities. The results of your actions matter, what you do matters as much or more than what happens to you.
First of all i read what you didn't like about other girls and that is spot on i thought most women wouldn't don't notice it or just stick with each other🤦🏻♂️.. In any case what i hate the most about guys is when they acting all nice and start kissing a girl's ass with that smile on their face like something great is happening then when he goes away he still has that smile thinking that he pulled something off like she likes him or something.. Then some other dude comes in attracts her takes her away and he'll start talking about how women are attention whores that say they want nice guys but only like jerks.. That's literally the worst like just be real bro don't be nice just because she's hot af
Probably this: "Omg babe we will travel the world together... "You wanna meet up at that Chinese restaurant? No it's five whole minute away from my home mom won't let me go." Just admit that not only do you have strict parents but also you've become a homebody yourself and you're too scared to leave the house for a date even now.
They always act like they are down for any hangout anywhere anytime, but when an actual plan comes up they cancel it. Dude why?
I knew someone like that once. Turned me off immediately. 24, but acted like she was 12. I got out of there fast. I wanna have kids, but not with a woman who still acts like one!
Some guys seem to relish in taking advantage of naïve, emotionally vulnerable women for selfish reasons. Even strong-willed women can be taken in by these manipulations.
Now if we wanted to talk about manipulative WOMEN, then the symptoms of their behavior would be quite different. But for men who are like this, the patterns seem to be pretty constant over time, they just re-use the same few tactics that work for them again and again. Manipulative women perhaps have more... "imagination" in that regard.
I see guys virtue signaling to women CONSTANTLY. It's shitty to do because so much of it is them calling attention to themselves and giving women a false impression of who they are. These assholes are straight up "yes" men just to get laid.
They're either pandering to women and idolizing them in general, or worse; agreeing with everything the woman says, even if she's wrong. How's the woman supposed to know what the guy thinks if he's just agreeing with her and letting her throw temper tantrums all the time?
"I'm mad at you because of what you did in my dream" "If I become bald and gain 10kg would you still love me?" Dumb questions asked on the daily, girls who get mad if he doesn't want to pay for everything when they go on a date SHE initiated and the manipulative women.
I know so many men that will do almost anything just to get laid. They can be very charming, charismatic, caring, understanding, etc., to a woman just to get sex.
When I was in college men offered weed to a woman just to get laid. Many women believed these men sincerely cared about her - until he got tired of her and moved on for fresh meat.
Double standards when it comes to body shaming. Girls get offended when guys want to know their weight but make fun of stuff guys can't control like height and dick size. 🤷
Acting really very perverted (in comments or up to sending dickpics) to women in general, but also underage girls. It's truly disgusting. Ugh.
Obviously, I'm sure that there are plenty of women who do it too (which is also just as vile). However, among the population of people who do that, it seems that the proportion of guys is several magnitudes greater than women. At least, from my perception
When there’s a disagreement between a couple& the guy is calm and trying to be understanding while the woman is yelling, degrading, wants to control the situation outcome and never leaves victim mentality , even to solve a problem.
I just want somebody who I can love. Yes some people aren’t perfect and make mistakes or have a mental illness, but that doesn’t mean they should be rejected. If you love somebody you don’t give up on them so easily, you try to help them through their darkest moments.
I hate men who flirt sexually with girls they’ve just met as if they’re animals, when their outfits during a date are less formal than the girl’s (I just feel sorry for a girl in a dress who’s out with a boyfriend in t-shirts & jeans or worse), men who intentionally hump-and-dump
I mean I think having controll in a sexual way is hot and that can translate into everyday life sometimes. It's fine if a guy kinda sets the tone but there's a line where it just becomes weird. Especially when it's little things that are not worth fighting over or things where you shouldn't tell another person what to do because it's their own business.
Guys who are overly aggressive and abusive. No guys, you have no right to hit her or bruise her just because you are angry. Don’t yell at her. Be better, go exercise if you are pissed off. Learn to identify your emotions and stop being violent. I don’t like how much women fear men.
Dick pics without a question, normally the guys who lack in that department are the ones who tend to do it aswell which I find very bizarre. Never ever heard of a woman sending a pic of her flange to attract a man so I'm pretty sure this is one way behavior, not gonna include tits because men can get their tits out and not be branded as perverts, so I feel this should apply to women too, not that I would ever ask of course..
Men who have a good Woman and treat her like shit , whenever and wherever he pleases... Men who dont believe in or dont use Chivalry . Men and their Obsession with Breasts. Men who think it's okay for them to have 2 or more women on their string ( sides).
But if to highlight some. Men who are abusive/violent against women. I just can't find any reason to justify that. Defending your self or others is one thing but should never attack specially against women.
Women who expect men to carry them through life no matter how it manifests. Yes its traditional for men to provide and I'm one who is more than willing to offer any aid I can. But its best both ways when its not expected of me. Then both will be happier.
Too many of us, especially in early 20's, can be ruthless sexual predators, who will say or do anything to score quickly and then move onto the next one just as quickly.
putting their boobs/body parts right in guys faces and then saying “he’s coming onto me, show some respect!!” makes me feel bad for guys because in that situation it’s totally unfair
Not being able to do the basic things as an adult. I know I'm not an expert on a lot of things, but I know enough that I don't need to call someone for anything really basic. I mean easy household repairs, laundry, cooking, cleaning, get to work on time, etc. Things everybody should already be experienced at doing.
Jealousy to the point where your partner can't have friends and you ruin their friendships. And even ruin the relationship they have with their family. I hate any gender who does something like that. Especially when they make you choose between them and your family or/and friends. How insecure can someone be to trap their partner in a cage like that? Pisses me off
guys that insult womens in their DMs for not replying... friggin DISGRACEFUL... guys that go after multiple womens at a time... guys that expect sects on the first date or very early in relationships... the entire hook up culture...
That’s happened to me a few times on here and that’s why I’m very careful about who I allow to DM me. I’ve been called some messed up things just because I don’t want to partake in their advances. I understand there’s flirting but then there’s creepy. If I just sent a DM saying “thanks for the follow”, don’t immediately reply asking fo pictures of me.
@Serenity2014 yeah... that's kinda weird... i'd wanna talk to you for awhile... unless the subject of your looks came up in discussion... XD i still remember that post you forgot to ANONYMIZE
Well i want to say catcalls, sexually suggestive comments. Basically harassment by guys. But a lot of times women allow guys to talk to them like that so while i feel bad for her she doesn't. Go on any dating website and you'll basically hear 80% of the women complain about it. But they just sit there and take it. Anyone with common sense would leave. Which suggests that, any attention is good attention? I think i was born in the wrong era.
Well if i was a woman and a guy said something like that to me he'd get a mouthful of knuckles. And at the very least i'd give him an earful. As far as online i would block them. And if it was as prevalent as most women claim i wouldn't even stay on tbe site. If over 50% are degenerates why expose yourself to that? I thought i was pretty clear, sorry.
Guys who harass women online with comments they wouldn’t say in public, sending unsolicited pictures, asking for nude pictures, and swiping right so to speak on every woman on every app.
I just wish we didn't have a war against each other. Why can't we let men and women do and how ever they want? Instead we judge each other. If men want fuck every girl then who are we to judge and vise versa? I think we should just accept that we are complex human being and shouldn't give each other ego boost while hurting others.
Well now a days the whole feminism thing is bad i think and its making a gap between guys n girls coz guys are getting too careful and try not to be friendly with you n stay formal n that really sucks
@PoppyRain nops i am not against what gives us or anybody freedom to do to be what they are n to be equal above all But i hope you won't be troubled accepting that this whole feminism thing seems to have been hijacked n i think this way it will damage more instead of getting us any benifits
Men being formal and scared to be friendly? Prostitution is a business transaction that’s less intimidating to men than socializing with a woman in the grocery store.
Communal bathrooms in raves etc. When a guy blasts the seat with piss before you go in, and there's a woman in queue behind me, I do not appreciate the catch 22 of (a) cleaning up your piss - something that should have never happened or (b) leaving it for the next person unlucky enough to burst through the door and potentially get blamed for it
Seeeriously. I don't know how women don't call each other out on that more often. When guys do stuff like that to each other, their friends will usually call them out
Girls who go out of their way to hate on short guys. I'm 6'2 and three of my exs (and my current boyfriend) are shorter than me. I see no problem in this but seeing so many girls calling 5'6 guys and under useless is really disgusting. Girls, why?
I hate my fellow men who think of women as objects, those who think girls should serve them just because they are girls and, above all, men who act like the current presidents of every American country below Canada
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