What are some things that are considered worse when the opposite gender does them?

[MCheetah]

What are some things that are worse, or go from acceptable to unacceptable, whenever the opposite gender does them?

EXAMPLES:

Women: Acts bigoted or discriminatory (considering women complain about "sexism" and bigotry far more than men do).

Women: Doesn't bathe or shave/has poor hygiene and smells.

Men: Takes a strong interest in children or working with very young children; under the age of 8 (as unfair as the implication is).

Men: Acts cowardly or fearful, or cries.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Men: Discussing being abused, body positivity (Being content with their bodies in general, I've seen men being body-shamed more than women), being a househusband or even just being the one who makes less in the relationship, male sexuality in general is usually viewed negatively (Having standards and/or preferences), committing literally any crime, being a neglectful parent

Women: Wanting to be a housewife (usually viewed negatively by other women) or a career woman (usually viewed negatively by men), The lack of a nurturing personality, having tattoos, being domineering, sleeping around (especially if the relationship is polyandrous)

[MCheetah]

The tattoos one is news to me.

[TryMeBee]

Men: losing their temper, yelling or violence

Men: refusing a challenge or not being competitive

Women: complaining or being in pain when they're sick/hurt.

Women: not wanting or liking kids and pets

[MCheetah]

I've never heard anyone treat women negatively when complaining or being in pain (hell, everyone knows women complain WAY more than men do).

[TryMeBee]

Maybe it happens in medical settings more than everyday life. Often women get treated like they're lying, being dramatic or even just crazy when they say they're in really bad pain or have bad symptoms. I'm sure this doesn't exclusively happen to women, but from what I've seen and heard over the years it seems like the vast majority of incidents where patients were just gaslit or insulted by medical people when they said they were in pain or similar, have been women.

And of course there are several procedures that only women need that are very painful—and shouldn't have to be—but often again they're just gaslight or berated if they complain.

And then pregnancy or period pain, where still so often men and women who don't have them as badly will treat women who do complain about the pain just as bad, from calling them liars to actively mocking them for it. And you have the women who say a woman is selfish and a bad mother if she gets an epidural for childbirth for the pain. Similar to resting instead of caring for her husband or family when she is also sick.

There are also propogations of this type of thing with jokes in media like "man flu" where men are even expected to complain or be babied (especially by women) when sick or hurt, and women are offered little or no help (often by men) in the same situation. Personally though I think this last part comes down to more of a thing put on men than women; if men take on a "caring" role for a woman they can be seen as submissive or weak, which shouldn't happen. So they won't offer help to a woman in that way. That's my theory anyway, so I should add "caring for a woman" to the list of things seen as worse if men do it. Sure they can help her carry a box or change her tire and that's manly, but cleaning her puke or getting her a cup of water is seen as womanly. It's all stupid frankly.

[TryMeBee]

I'm sorry that was entirely too long

[Berethor]

I agree for the most part, and I would add being slutty to that list. :)

[standardguy]

just search a guy for sex or be with hin because he has a good body

[exitseven]

I hate it when girls curse all the time.

[Fuentes]

Trying to be a man lol

[JesseJayNeak]

Men: asking for help in general

[msc545]

cheating