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It literally makes my skin crawl when I see the picture comment from men that say "yummy". I really really really can't stand it.
Its fucking embarrassing how many men dont wash their hands after using a public bathroom
Lol, my circle of friends in high school had a guy like this, and I'd always hear them say "Go wash your hands!" and point to the bathroom as they were just leaving it, and he'd say "Okay, okay, I'll wash my hands!" and go back in to wash them! 😂
Sounds like y'all rolled with a dirt devil...
Males who think Sex is the top priority of a relationship pisses me off
about showing Women real Love
Acting like kids just to make her do the household and at the same time urge her to please them sexually makes the whole situation kinda paedophile in my opinion.
Indecisiveness and failure to commit. I think a lot of guys will say "cheating" because that's what girls want to hear, but I have a whole different take on that ! LOL
I'd have to say domestic violence and dead beat dads
Dismissing or mocking their suffering in menstruation and childbirth
being someone other than themselves to get women to sleep with them. What a waste of everyone's time.
Swearing, making lewd comments, being just blokey really, it's fine imho within ourselves, and within male company, but not with ladies present,,,
Men acting like being in touch with their "feminine side" was attractive to women.
If women wanted to date someone feminine, they'd just date another woman. No. Boys, women love masculine men. Be proud of your masculinity and stay in touch with your manly side. Its better to be macho, than to be a "nice guy" who "listens" and is "honest with his emotions" who in reality is just a whiny little bitch that thinks being whiny entitles him to sex.
That's not true at all that's like saying men don't have emotions or a feminine side when you do lol it's just about the right balance and well... just being yourself and being secure enough in yourself to show your feelings, men who cry and complain all the time thinking that's correct are doing it wrong, it's just accepting we all have both a sensitive side and then a more carefree tougher side and not being afraid to show how we feel THAT is what women mean by men who show their "feminine" side. I certainly don't want a man who is too egoistic and closed off to not show his more cute and emotional side i like people who aren't afraid of who they are and not afraid to be more emotionally open with others.
Men like Jensen Ackles, Jared Padalecki and Misha Collins who are actors in Supernatural, even when they came from Texas where the social expectation is that "boys should be boys" no emotions, act macho and do sports while "girls should be girls" act submissive, be housewives and be a pretty trophy on some guys arm... they are really nice and open (as much as they can be as well known actors), and just not afraid to show they have emotions, feelings and a fluffy side like everyone else. :).
Ahh, it seems i've offended someone who watched too many romcoms and has absolutely no idea what it actually feels like to be a man.
Boyfriend was sensitive and listened to me when others didn't. It's whys he's my boyfriend. I don't see why masculinity is such a big thing for you. I mean you do you, but why do you have this perception that all guys should be like that?
It sounds like you brought into toxic masculinity, which can be a hoard mentality. I suggest looking outside your confort zone and look to different culture for a better understanding of what masculinity is
No I love a good man who listens and communicates well. Who isn’t afraid of his emotions. These don’t negate a man’s masculinity and strong men know that.
Yeah, you say that. But the reality of how women act completely contradicts your statements.
If women appreciated sensitivity in men, all the "nice guys" would be drowning in pussy. And yet, they get the least of any man.
Also, when you use the term "toxic masculinity" you prove you're just a moron that hates men and isn't worth arguing with.
My husband is a good man. He’s nice and sensitive, and he gets everything he wants when he’s earned it.
The only thing macho men get are little girls who are young, dumb, and easy.
Ah, so you hate young women too. Is there any group of people you don't hate?
There a difference between "nice guys" and sensitive guys. Not all girls like sensitivity. Not all guys are sensitive. But don't say that sensitive guys are just acting to "drown in pussy" (very mature btw). If a guy is ticks a girls boxes, they'll be perused, same the other way round. My boyfriend is aa good guy, with a good heart. Even with his more much guy mates he's the one they talk to when they need to someone. And damm they are there for him too.
Toxic masculinity is a consequence of horrid stigma around men being pushed to having no outward emotion. We are lucky that in this time this issue is being recognised. So everyone is able to get the love and support they need (we still have a way to go). Masculinity is not a trophy, it's a social construct. Just as Feminity is.
God i love offending manhaters and then not reading their illogical textwall rants.
You work pretty hard at it.
Gotta love guys who can't read😂
Men who read and listen are sexy af
But clearly you are correct Torari. Your infallible reasoning has truly bestest us in this argument. You perception of social structures and malicious bias have been displayed in a truly unique way and it's totally why you have gained respect and a loving partner who supports you during your mid-life crisis
MzAsh oh hell yes, especially since you can have grown up conversations with them. Who wants someone with a mental and social age of a toddler (no disrespect meant to toddlers)
That and men who aren’t afraid to go against the grain of traditional masculinity and everything it tells men they should be. A man who truly is his own man and not some carbon copy of whatever macho archetype men think is cool at the time wins with me every time.
@MzAsh going against the grain in the modern world IS embracing masculinity. The vast majority of men, especially young men, have bought this "oh you gotta be in touch with your feminine side" bullcrap. Which is why so many young men are constantly complaining about womens not liking 6 them and choosing "Chad's" instead, leaving them in the friendzone.
If a man is complaining about the friend zone, there’s a lot more to the story and probably more improvement ahead of him.
No man worth the time is going to utter that term.
@MyAsh the only men stuck in the friend zone are the ones who are "in touch with their feminine side, so sensitive, unlike the other guys". Thanks for literally proving my point.
Except I married mine. No chads or dustys ever.
@MzAsh let me guess, you married him in your late 20's/early 30's to "settle down" after you spent your late teens and early 20's dating the top 20% of manly studs exclusively, just like the vast majority of women do statistically.
No, early 20s.
@MzAsh and marriage is no guarantee of relational happiness. 50% of marriages end in divorce and 70% of the time, the wife is the one who initiated. You're statistically very likely to wind up regretting and dumping the provider you settled for because "it was the responsible thing to do" in your late 30's/early 40's
He’s not my provider. I am.
@MzAsh congrats, the statistical likelihood of you divorcing him when you near menopause just jumped up to 80%. Hope your kids are grown up by then.
Sources? And we don’t have kids yet. Something else for your male ego to chew on.
Enough with your vagina envy.
Fine, at the other end of the scale, what do masculine men provide?
No emotional support
Providing? 😂 Women can do that for themselves
A penis? Nah just use a dildo
A child? Not every woman wants/can have kids
So at the end of the day a "Chad" won't provide anything long term, and since there's no truly sensitive men out there, there's no happiness for anyone.
Guys pushing themselves on young women. The word NO. , as if it's a foreign language...
Acting like sex is fun and not emotionally charged. Hook up will leave you feeling used and alone.
How gamer boys treat gamer girls. I can't hardly stand it.
I'm not a gamer neither part of the "community" yet would like to know. What have you seen is a "negative" treatment seen?
@lifelearner011 Well for one thing they like to say stuff like, "Oh wow is that a gamergirl? Hey why don't you go make me a sandwich and get in the kitchen where you belong?"
Or, "why are you not washing dishes huh?"
That is the kind of stuff I hear when I'm playing games with some gamer girls that I play with.
I hate it when boys act like that.
It makes me feel bad for the girl.
Thanks for the explaining. That sounds awful, very disrespectful.
Girls that sell their bodies and sexuality (and dignity) for money.
This is disgusting.
thank you... for mentioning this @BlackCatBone...
Stringing along... but I know the same can be said of both sexes.
Whine, complain, and gossip. Like, seriously, shut the hell up.
Well aside from the bad bunch of men. Hygiene, Hygiene, Hygiene
Too many men are extremely self-righteous, demanding all and giving nothing.
Why does it seem like everyone on this website tries so hard to demonize women? Literally I’ve been on here for the past year and I’ve never seen anyone on here that wasn’t anti women. Do you have any positive things to say about women? I’m sure there are both positive and negative qualities about both genders
"Literally I’ve been on here for the past year and I’ve never seen anyone on here that wasn’t anti women." This is an absolutely ridiculous statement.
Ok, hold on now. Let's really analyze this logically.
You take this one specific question of mine, where I happen to list a small handful of criticisms of women, and you use it to illustrate an overarching negativity towards women and that I have nothing positive to say about them? I have written probably thousands of comments and questions, about all sorts of topics and interests, and I am most often supportive, of both genders and all people. But no one is without flaws and no gender is blameless. Sometimes it is necessary to air things out. I'm sure you've seen dozens upon dozens of questions about complimenting and criticizing the opposite sex, but I deliberately made this about recognizing one's own gender's flaws, what the other half has to deal with on a regular basis. This is not about women bashing. This question is for everyone, and is to be constructive for each gender to show that they do in fact recognize some of the negative traits and behaviour of their peers. Do you know how much lack of accountability affects people and society in general? It's incredibly destructive.
Yes, there are a lot of hateful comments towards women on here. But there are also a lot of bitter comments and criticisms of men. I think there are far more angry men than angry women, but notice the women comment and engage much less, in far fewer numbers, always, than the men. So more silence from the women doesn't tell us whether they feel better about the men, or whether they just avoid conflict, and I believe it's more the latter. I see the men comment and interact more, in general, and if sometimes they're angry, so be it. We have to find ways to deal with peoples' frustrations and how they are feeling, instead of just shoving it under the proverbial rug.
As much negativity as there is towards women, there are also many guys on here (and in life) who are very kind and supportive and curious about them. There are hundreds if not thousands of examples of that every day. A lot of girls get a lot of support and attention. I think it's unfair not to acknowledge this. If all the men commented in equal numbers to the women, most women's questions would have a fraction of the responses they do.
I noticed you only follow 1 person and your account is private, and I don't know you so I don't know how you spend your time on here, but I think you're looking at all this from a distorted view. One can easily find evidence of both negative and positive. I think lack of accountability, in general, from both sexes, is more detrimental than just about so many other things. We can't blow sunshine up each other's ass all the time, but of course that is certainly not happening, not even close. I think we all have to earn respect, and not take things for granted or have a sense of entitlement or superiority. I know there are many men who have been very abusive and aggressive on here, and at 24 you are much more likely to be sexually harassed, but there's no reason you can't also interact and be honest yet constructive. If you think women are being demonized, you need to live a day in a guy's shoes and get some perspective. No one's got it easy right now.
You are in such a dream land. This is at least the third question on here implying that women are the only problems in society. The other question on here that was titled “ WOMEN MUST WORK ON THEMSELVES” . now there’s this question , AGAIN.
If you must criticize women, you must do the same for men too. I don’t believe it’s only women that have negative qualities. Both genders have their negatives and positives. It’s tone to change the culture on this website
If you do not believe me, I can easily compile a never ending list of screenshots for you regarding hate against women on here. I’m an absolutely sick of all this bending over women must do for men
You want to argue you better get your facts straight.
"The other question on here that was titled “ WOMEN MUST WORK ON THEMSELVES” I never wrote anything with that title.
"implying that women are the only problems in society." Only? If I wanted to hear exclusively men complain about women I could easily have phrased this question and all my questions differently. I want to hear what BOTH sides have to say about their gender and how difficult they can sometimes be for the other gender dating them. I want to know what everyone thinks about life, for that matter.
But it doesn't matter what question I ask, men are always more interactive. They always have, right from the beginning. And before you go ahead and retort that that is because I'm female and everyone just comments more on the opposite gender - no they do not.
I started out months ago asking lots and lots of gender-neutral questions and was equally curious about all responses, but eventually I saw a pattern that the pinks contribute to the site answering, commenting, upvoting in far fewer numbers, almost all the time, yet I know for a fact that they are 56% of all users. Do I think women point the finger at men and blame them for the majority of relationship problems? Yes I do. Do I think too many men chase women only for the one goal of sex, and then they don't commit and leave them to go and try and score again? Yes I do.
I think these are the two greatest/worst foundational problems of relationships. But that is beside the point. I write to everyone, but since the girls don't want to read and respond nearly as much (about any topic - fashion, movies, animals, cooking, creative writing, politics... EVERY TOPIC, it doesn't matter what it is, don't blame me for enjoying my interactions with the guys, and writing more and more topics that are more geared towards them. They have actual conversations and comment on a wide variety of topics and ideas. And they handle conflict better. And they get over rifts better.
When I first started on gag I was horrified at some of the things I read and the anger and fighting. I blocked and blocked and blocked, to try and clean up my experience, so that I would hopefully be left with a peaceful and pleasant and fun experience. But I soon decided that was the wrong approach. Censorship and isolating is not the answer. And without writing about it all over again, I changed my ways. I changed what I thought I knew was right, was best, and I started over, clean slate. And I engaged with everyone. Everyone. And I found out that some of these hostile and furious guys had a few good points. And guess what, they weren't actually pissed at me and most of them weren't treating me badly, so why should I eliminate them from my world?
So don't you dare pretend to understand everything about me and my experience here. I've done more soul searching and changing than I ever imagined would be necessary but I did, because that's who I am and what I do, and I fucking earned these guys' respect. I don't flash my tits or sell my soul and nobody's being forced to follow me or interact with me. I'm sick of you and your type too. You think you are flawless, sitting up on your throne, on your private account. I am transparent. I am open to criticism and yes I get it, but I deal with it. I like men and I like women but all my favourite female gaggewrs have left and the men have not and they sure as hell act like they enjoy interacting with me so why should I not enjoy 50% of the population. There are dozens of men who are angry at girls on here but they are not angry at me because I am reasonable and logical and I take accountability. I tell it like it is. I have not been pandering to them. I have been acknowledging the flaws of everyone, including myself. I have made apologies, I have righted some wrongs, and I have met some damn fine people on here, and consider them my friends. This is my topic question and my account and I'll talk about whatever I want to.
I take this part back and now realize that you were not saying that I wrote this
""The other question on here that was titled “ WOMEN MUST WORK ON THEMSELVES”
I am not responsible for all negativity towards women and yes I acknowledge that there are negative questions about women. But there are thousands of negative questions towards and about guys too. I just answered a guy's mytake today, 'Why Men Are the Prize'. Wtf? Did I support him? No I did not.
I’m not going to even argue with you because the only reason why this website is anti woman hating trash is because we have anti women assholes like you as “ influencers “. Unless there is a whole revamping of the administrative team , this website will stay trash
I cannot change the minds of sexists because this is the way they’ve been raised.
She's a lost cause. Too bad for All that good effort.
How about instead looking who are blaming woman loot at yourself and see how much blame is put on man? Its easy to see grain of sand in others eye, when you dont see mountain in your own.
@_inkRat no I don’t think it’s fair to only hate on women,
@nelly83 i tend to be warry of woman, but i dont hate them. If you want to be my friend or just passer by i dont have problems with it, if you ask for help i will help as much i can. But feelings and relationships, i dont want them.
But its hard to stand and see how man are blamed for almost everything, while woman dont want to take there share of blame.
This question was "what behavior... of your gender..." this was a question posed to both guys and girls, to get introspection. Not just women it also asked guys to call out their own problems as well. That seems gender neutral, not biased to me.
Less than 5 minute sex (at least, until he finishes). I still have difficulty believing that's real, but, yeah, that.
How some guys act so differently in front of girls than with guys. Like be yourself man
My sister, told me about men lying, using her, threatening her,
All these types that use women
Another girl told me about her experience with guys made me ashamed to be 1
We're not all like that,
Yeah I guess I feel bad for young chicks having to deal with old creepy dudes who just want to touch them I wish creepy old dudes didn't exist If I was a girl and it happened to me id Bury him out my back yard no hesitation
Just sexist behavior in general
Perverted messages
I posed as a chick on this site before, and I was amazed at the amount of perverted messages I was receiving
Than when I saw their other questions, they didn't seem like perverts at all
I feel bad for you guys
It's so disrespectful!
Can't men have a normal conversation with women anymore? ?
Wow interesting. I'm not in favour of people lying but I'm hoping you did it for a research mission only.
Did you use a photo and what was it like?
Did you write sexually explicit comments, or not really at all?
You and I should chat in pm about this. I'm very interested in your experience.
Yeah, I'll tell you in PM
I would have answered but i noticed few pink users answered so do they think their sex is flawless?
Oh you noticed that, huh? I could write a whole paper on why that is.
Please just ignore that fact (at least try a little bit.) On all questions they are answering at a ratio of usually 1:3 or even much less, 1:6, compared to males. Getting them to contribute the way guys do on here is like luring a deer out of the forest.
Yes, it looks bad, I see your point, but they don't even answer fashion poll questions in as large numbers as guys do. So please keep that in mind as well.
There is a LOOOOOT that I see males doing that makes me weep for the species
There is also a lot that women are doing that has me feeling the same way these days.
Being utter creeps towards woman and sometimes men.
''You wanna go on a date with me?''
''No...''
''WHY NOT? WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME? AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?''
Men sending dick pics
discussing the assets of any and every girl guys know. yes. every. girl.
None. People are individuals and I judge them accordingly.
Caving in to societal pressure to abandon their masculinity.
I try to focus on specific people and situations rather than making sweeping generalizations.
Put yourself in the situation and think. Your choices may differ.
Probably passive aggressiveness.
Simps and the whole Alfa male thing
The way my brother treats women makes me sick.
Did he say why he does that?
@hsshannah96 no, but he treats them poorly.
Ask him why
I want to know his excuses 😂
@hsshannah96 I can tell you. He thinks women are dispensable, that he can jump from one to the other because it’s all just a game to him.
Oh what a shitbag
Anything connected to modern feminism.
lawwwwd have mercy
Guys assume girls think only of shopping
No this is supposed to be (in your case) what GIRLS do that you witness that you feel bad witnessing guys have to deal with.
I don't understand that complicated
Maybe if you read the other comments by users you will see the pattern.
You should be writing about poor female behaviour you've seen, while the men are writing about poor male behaviour.
Awesome man
Amen sister!!
Thanks
Marked.
Lazy!
Nothing
Nagging in public
Cheating