One thing that gets me is dick pics. Come on, no one, and I mean NO ONE wants to see that.
Another is blaming women for not being what women want. Again come on, there's lot's about you that is desirable, regardless of who you are. But to focus on the negative things is just to assume fault on the others part.
This idea that guys deserve sex... No you don't. Any more then gay guys deserve sex with you. If you are that desperate there are legal brothels in Nevada, Canada and Mexico. Pull out your credit card and get what you need.
Also the world owes you nothing, you owe the world. Stop talking about your rights, and look at your responsibilities. The results of your actions matter, what you do matters as much or more than what happens to you.
First of all i read what you didn't like about other girls and that is spot on i thought most women wouldn't don't notice it or just stick with each other🤦🏻♂️.. In any case what i hate the most about guys is when they acting all nice and start kissing a girl's ass with that smile on their face like something great is happening then when he goes away he still has that smile thinking that he pulled something off like she likes him or something.. Then some other dude comes in attracts her takes her away and he'll start talking about how women are attention whores that say they want nice guys but only like jerks.. That's literally the worst like just be real bro don't be nice just because she's hot af
Probably this: "Omg babe we will travel the world together... "You wanna meet up at that Chinese restaurant? No it's five whole minute away from my home mom won't let me go." Just admit that not only do you have strict parents but also you've become a homebody yourself and you're too scared to leave the house for a date even now.
They always act like they are down for any hangout anywhere anytime, but when an actual plan comes up they cancel it. Dude why?
I knew someone like that once. Turned me off immediately. 24, but acted like she was 12. I got out of there fast. I wanna have kids, but not with a woman who still acts like one!
Some guys seem to relish in taking advantage of naïve, emotionally vulnerable women for selfish reasons. Even strong-willed women can be taken in by these manipulations.
Now if we wanted to talk about manipulative WOMEN, then the symptoms of their behavior would be quite different. But for men who are like this, the patterns seem to be pretty constant over time, they just re-use the same few tactics that work for them again and again. Manipulative women perhaps have more... "imagination" in that regard.
I see guys virtue signaling to women CONSTANTLY. It's shitty to do because so much of it is them calling attention to themselves and giving women a false impression of who they are. These assholes are straight up "yes" men just to get laid.
They're either pandering to women and idolizing them in general, or worse; agreeing with everything the woman says, even if she's wrong. How's the woman supposed to know what the guy thinks if he's just agreeing with her and letting her throw temper tantrums all the time?
"I'm mad at you because of what you did in my dream" "If I become bald and gain 10kg would you still love me?" Dumb questions asked on the daily, girls who get mad if he doesn't want to pay for everything when they go on a date SHE initiated and the manipulative women.
I know so many men that will do almost anything just to get laid. They can be very charming, charismatic, caring, understanding, etc., to a woman just to get sex.
When I was in college men offered weed to a woman just to get laid. Many women believed these men sincerely cared about her - until he got tired of her and moved on for fresh meat.
Double standards when it comes to body shaming. Girls get offended when guys want to know their weight but make fun of stuff guys can't control like height and dick size. 🤷
Acting really very perverted (in comments or up to sending dickpics) to women in general, but also underage girls. It's truly disgusting. Ugh.
Obviously, I'm sure that there are plenty of women who do it too (which is also just as vile). However, among the population of people who do that, it seems that the proportion of guys is several magnitudes greater than women. At least, from my perception
When there’s a disagreement between a couple& the guy is calm and trying to be understanding while the woman is yelling, degrading, wants to control the situation outcome and never leaves victim mentality , even to solve a problem.
I just want somebody who I can love. Yes some people aren’t perfect and make mistakes or have a mental illness, but that doesn’t mean they should be rejected. If you love somebody you don’t give up on them so easily, you try to help them through their darkest moments.
I mean I think having controll in a sexual way is hot and that can translate into everyday life sometimes. It's fine if a guy kinda sets the tone but there's a line where it just becomes weird. Especially when it's little things that are not worth fighting over or things where you shouldn't tell another person what to do because it's their own business.
Guys who are overly aggressive and abusive. No guys, you have no right to hit her or bruise her just because you are angry. Don’t yell at her. Be better, go exercise if you are pissed off. Learn to identify your emotions and stop being violent. I don’t like how much women fear men.
Dick pics without a question, normally the guys who lack in that department are the ones who tend to do it aswell which I find very bizarre. Never ever heard of a woman sending a pic of her flange to attract a man so I'm pretty sure this is one way behavior, not gonna include tits because men can get their tits out and not be branded as perverts, so I feel this should apply to women too, not that I would ever ask of course..
I hate men who flirt sexually with girls they’ve just met as if they’re animals, when their outfits during a date are less formal than the girl’s (I just feel sorry for a girl in a dress who’s out with a boyfriend in t-shirts & jeans or worse), men who intentionally hump-and-dump
Men who have a good Woman and treat her like shit , whenever and wherever he pleases... Men who dont believe in or dont use Chivalry . Men and their Obsession with Breasts. Men who think it's okay for them to have 2 or more women on their string ( sides).
But if to highlight some. Men who are abusive/violent against women. I just can't find any reason to justify that. Defending your self or others is one thing but should never attack specially against women.
Women who expect men to carry them through life no matter how it manifests. Yes its traditional for men to provide and I'm one who is more than willing to offer any aid I can. But its best both ways when its not expected of me. Then both will be happier.
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One thing that gets me is dick pics. Come on, no one, and I mean NO ONE wants to see that.
Another is blaming women for not being what women want. Again come on, there's lot's about you that is desirable, regardless of who you are. But to focus on the negative things is just to assume fault on the others part.
This idea that guys deserve sex... No you don't. Any more then gay guys deserve sex with you. If you are that desperate there are legal brothels in Nevada, Canada and Mexico. Pull out your credit card and get what you need.
Also the world owes you nothing, you owe the world. Stop talking about your rights, and look at your responsibilities. The results of your actions matter, what you do matters as much or more than what happens to you.
First of all i read what you didn't like about other girls and that is spot on i thought most women wouldn't don't notice it or just stick with each other🤦🏻♂️.. In any case what i hate the most about guys is when they acting all nice and start kissing a girl's ass with that smile on their face like something great is happening then when he goes away he still has that smile thinking that he pulled something off like she likes him or something.. Then some other dude comes in attracts her takes her away and he'll start talking about how women are attention whores that say they want nice guys but only like jerks.. That's literally the worst like just be real bro don't be nice just because she's hot af
Probably this:
"Omg babe we will travel the world together... "You wanna meet up at that Chinese restaurant? No it's five whole minute away from my home mom won't let me go." Just admit that not only do you have strict parents but also you've become a homebody yourself and you're too scared to leave the house for a date even now.
They always act like they are down for any hangout anywhere anytime, but when an actual plan comes up they cancel it. Dude why?
I knew someone like that once. Turned me off immediately. 24, but acted like she was 12. I got out of there fast. I wanna have kids, but not with a woman who still acts like one!
Some guys seem to relish in taking advantage of naïve, emotionally vulnerable women for selfish reasons. Even strong-willed women can be taken in by these manipulations.
Now if we wanted to talk about manipulative WOMEN, then the symptoms of their behavior would be quite different. But for men who are like this, the patterns seem to be pretty constant over time, they just re-use the same few tactics that work for them again and again. Manipulative women perhaps have more... "imagination" in that regard.
I see guys virtue signaling to women CONSTANTLY. It's shitty to do because so much of it is them calling attention to themselves and giving women a false impression of who they are. These assholes are straight up "yes" men just to get laid.
They're either pandering to women and idolizing them in general, or worse; agreeing with everything the woman says, even if she's wrong. How's the woman supposed to know what the guy thinks if he's just agreeing with her and letting her throw temper tantrums all the time?
"I'm mad at you because of what you did in my dream"
"If I become bald and gain 10kg would you still love me?"
Dumb questions asked on the daily, girls who get mad if he doesn't want to pay for everything when they go on a date SHE initiated and the manipulative women.
You go lady 😀👍
I know so many men that will do almost anything just to get laid. They can be very charming, charismatic, caring, understanding, etc., to a woman just to get sex.
When I was in college men offered weed to a woman just to get laid. Many women believed these men sincerely cared about her - until he got tired of her and moved on for fresh meat.
I feel sorry for women.
Double standards when it comes to body shaming. Girls get offended when guys want to know their weight but make fun of stuff guys can't control like height and dick size. 🤷
Thank you.
Acting really very perverted (in comments or up to sending dickpics) to women in general, but also underage girls. It's truly disgusting. Ugh.
Obviously, I'm sure that there are plenty of women who do it too (which is also just as vile). However, among the population of people who do that, it seems that the proportion of guys is several magnitudes greater than women. At least, from my perception
Oh definitely.
These kinds of comments and pics keep the good women away too.
Playing games when they are dating.
yup been on the receiving end of that once or twice... It's never fun and now as soon as she has "second thoughts" I walk.
@Silver158 well done
When there’s a disagreement between a couple& the guy is calm and trying to be understanding while the woman is yelling, degrading, wants to control the situation outcome and never leaves victim mentality , even to solve a problem.
I just want somebody who I can love. Yes some people aren’t perfect and make mistakes or have a mental illness, but that doesn’t mean they should be rejected. If you love somebody you don’t give up on them so easily, you try to help them through their darkest moments.
Wow you totally did not answer the question, but this is so, so nice.
Oh sorry. I only read the title..
One thing is over the top controlling behaviour.
I mean I think having controll in a sexual way is hot and that can translate into everyday life sometimes. It's fine if a guy kinda sets the tone but there's a line where it just becomes weird. Especially when it's little things that are not worth fighting over or things where you shouldn't tell another person what to do because it's their own business.
Guys aren’t mind readers, so playing games doesn’t help them. Just be upfront and honest unless it isn’t safe to do so
Guys who are overly aggressive and abusive. No guys, you have no right to hit her or bruise her just because you are angry. Don’t yell at her. Be better, go exercise if you are pissed off. Learn to identify your emotions and stop being violent. I don’t like how much women fear men.
Dick pics without a question, normally the guys who lack in that department are the ones who tend to do it aswell which I find very bizarre. Never ever heard of a woman sending a pic of her flange to attract a man so I'm pretty sure this is one way behavior, not gonna include tits because men can get their tits out and not be branded as perverts, so I feel this should apply to women too, not that I would ever ask of course..
I hate men who flirt sexually with girls they’ve just met as if they’re animals, when their outfits during a date are less formal than the girl’s (I just feel sorry for a girl in a dress who’s out with a boyfriend in t-shirts & jeans or worse), men who intentionally hump-and-dump
Their brattiness, or playing the victim, or the princess entitlement. Like ffs, if you want something get it yourself.
Men who have a good Woman and treat her like shit , whenever and wherever he pleases...
Men who dont believe in or dont use Chivalry .
Men and their Obsession with Breasts.
Men who think it's okay for them to have 2 or more women on their string
( sides).
I feel pretty much everything is going both ways.
But if to highlight some.
Men who are abusive/violent against women. I just can't find any reason to justify that. Defending your self or others is one thing but should never attack specially against women.
Women who expect men to carry them through life no matter how it manifests. Yes its traditional for men to provide and I'm one who is more than willing to offer any aid I can. But its best both ways when its not expected of me. Then both will be happier.