Isn’t it interesting how selfish modern women are? Men can’t have preferences but women can? And women don’t have to do anything on dates? Thoughts?

[WhiteBoyChill]

We should just love women as they are guys and accept them for whoever they are. We should simp and value them just because they are a female and happen to have a p*ssy. All jokes aside.

I can’t understand why white girls are still so shocked at why more and more guys are going for Asian girls.

It’s the simple matter of guys wanting to go for the girls who actually give a shit about them. Who actually contribute something to the table. Who actually are thoughtful of other people.

Anyway, I don’t have a super strong preference in Asian girls personally but it is precisely because of the mentality of the modern woman in western countries that men are drawn away from them.

Passport bros are a thing and they’re only getting more common.

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[quaranta]

First of these videos are deceiving, saying "feminists" but in fact none of them is actually starting any discourse regarding women's oppression around the world, domestic violence, inequality at work etc, and the original video says "college girls" (so that already takes off credibility from the source because it's clear where it wants to go and how biased it is).

Secondly, these are answers from 4 young random girls and they in no way can represent a reliable sample about what most women think as an average, it would need a way bigger pool with women coming from any context and any age.
So please stop fueling this completely hysterical alarm about "women doing X" because that harms you men first of all.
(And third: I can't see this phenomena of women being "shocked" about some men preferring Asian girls, I literally never read that even once so I assume it's not such a big thing going on, for sure some do but I highly doubt it's any mass thinking).

The reality is: single women DO NOT set the rules of anything, they have the same power as you have, so that is made in 2. Because they want to get in a relationship as well, so if they don't want to stay single they will have to compromise about something and to be "enough" for the men they want to get. And to my experience most women, and most men, get into a relationship at some point.

So if 1 girl complains about men's preference and the man goes hysterically victimistic all of a sudden with "now men can't have preferences", well he is basically giving her a huge power if she can really define the entire ethics for the male gender, which is just not realistic in any shape. If he had some minimum individual strength he would just... Keep his preferences. What it means is: he wouldn't get that specific 1 girl as a dating material. And what is the problem? There is none, he is free to do selection on women accordingly with his own preferences, and this is quite healthy. If he is too selective then he will stay single for longer but that is definitely up to him and what he is available to compromise, which is exactly the same for girls (and you can see that on this website as well, women getting ghosted after a date, a hookup, or crushing on someone they can't get).

To support this, a friend of mine is in his 30s and is dating women from at least 3 years and still rejected them all because they didn't stand up to his standards (not aesthetical, but cultural, intellectual, maturity etc). Since he is ok in staying single, he can afford being hyperselective. If he wasn't ok in staying single, he would compromise a little more. Why is this in any way wrong? Why would you promote a mentality where men are totally commanded by women like babies? That is bullshit and that just digs your own grave.

The solution is not to tell women:"Boo stop having standards!" but to be selective you too, allowing yourself to have standards. Select women, and get to know them through the proper channels, which might be not dating apps if you don't feel too competitive, but maybe areas where a bond would develop naturally due to interests in common, jobplace and whatnot. You might bypass the traditional dating process completely, in this way (I did, at least, since I hate the dating process).
And if you'll end up going for an Asian girl, well, nobody is gonna tell you anything against that, that is your own very personal choice.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Feminism isn't about women's oppression, it's about women opressing men wih misandry based double standards, their responses IS feminism.

Their reaction is typical among most women, and it's not alarmism or "hysterical victimism" to say its a problem. The only bs thing in his post is the racial comment.

The videos are not suggesting women have no standards, its suggesting it's insane for women to expect men to earn a partner, while women have handed to them on a silver platter. If all a woman has to do is just be herself, then thats all she should expect from men, et mst women treat men like tools, banks, slaves, and fathers.

[TheSpaceGnome]

yet most*

[KrakenAttackin]

@quaranta. Bullshit. Women want all of the privilege of "equality" but zero responsibility and accountability. To say that modern women are delusional is like saying cyanide is "potentially hazardous".

You are wrong to discount college women as this is where much if the poisonous delusion begins and intensifies.

For modern women, "equality" means being able to sell their T&A online, have large numbers of sexual partners, destroy men in the "family courts", and basically running amok; while men pay the bills (both literal and figuratively).

Women are amazing at bullshit. Having a nice body and a cute face can help a lot in bull shitting your way through life , truly. There are so many made up jobs for women (almost all HR jobs, corporate communication's, et al.). These are fine for women bullshiting, but the reality is that the nuts and bolts of society can't and doesn't run on bullshit. Don't believe me? Try bullshitting building a sky scraper, bridge, tunnel, electrical grid, water treatment, petroleum pipelines, aircraft, automobile, etc.

The reality is that MEN do almost everything worthwhile that has to do with keeping society safe, fed, moving, with the lights on.

Women lost their way when they turned away from being good wives and mothers, which I would argue is THE most important job in society. When women left their families, cashed in their virtue and youth, you completely surrendered any moral high ground you had.

[WhiteBoyChill]

LOL this is completely laughable. Its precisely because I have standards that I won’t date women. What is it that they can offer me? The chick couldn’t even answer the question

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin You know, if I’m ever in Atlanta, you and I should definitely grab a beer and have a cigar sometime

[KrakenAttackin]

👍👍👍👍

[quaranta]

Well, you all can keep crying then, I repeat you are free to have standards and requirement, and in my opinion you should. Meanwhile other men have standards and select women they are satisfied of. Good luck!

[Alwayreckles93]

This woman are trash. And they're home wreckers! Oh please you and I we look better and more Beautiful then this trash of younger woman.

[SpanishRose]

Maybe your just going after women like this? I'm white and none of that applies to me or basically every friend I have. Relationships are 50/50, must compromise and communicate. I don't know if this ideology is coming from these social media videos but that's not *real world* at all.
People need to take what they see on these apps with a grain of salt. People only post what will fire up the audience it's how they get paid. I'm sure they don't show the 100 of girls who aren't like that but only show the 2 that are.

I don't agree with this post at all I'm sorry.

[WhiteBoyChill]

The reason it doesn’t apply to you or your friends is because people tend to surround themselves with like minded people. Just because it isn’t true for your own inner circle, doesn’t mean it isn’t true for a vast majority of other women.

That’s like if I said a majority of guys are virtuous virgin Christian men just because that’s what my friend group happens to be.

You live in your own small world and you just aren’t seeing the bigger picture

[SpanishRose]

I actually know a lot of people sir from all kinds of circles. I just don't think you should group all western women as such because it isn't true. I'm sure some are like that sure which is sad. But to say all is asinine.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ok fine. Most are that way

[BeMuse]

If you have some basic self-esteem then you set your own standards, not let women set them for you. Just sleep around with women, but don’t give them a relationship until the rise to the occasion. It’s pretty fucking simple really. They are the ones that want titles like girlfriend. They have a clock ticking on child birth and every day that time table gets shorter. If they get pregnant they need a man to help them. They dream of getting married with all the pageantry and everyone watching since they are little girls. If they don’t step up and meet your preferences and expectations then they get no closer to their goals. Cut them loose. The power in negotiation is the willingness to walk away from a deal. If you’re not willing to say no, then people will walk all over you. You can always sweet talk a girl into bed. She may keep sleeping with you, she might get scared and act weird, and she might play games and try to pressure you into commitment to her to keep sleeping with here. That doesn’t mean you have to stick around if they are shitty people just because you’re getting laid. If they aren’t doing what they need to do to earn a relationship with you then walk away and on to the next one.

[BeMuse]

*her

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m a Christian man though. I can’t just hook up with girls and neither do I find myself wanting that either

[BeMuse]

When I was growing up and going out drinking at keg parties and clubbing I had a couple of Brazilian friends who went to a church youth group sort of thing every Friday night. They had Christian dances with food and music. It was a regular social gathering to meet like minded people that were into looking for partners for marriage while steering clear of drinking. Maybe something like that is what you need to look into. Then you will both have standards and common religious cultural values. Everyone shows up to those sort of gatherings with the expectation that both guys and girls are looking for that sort of thing.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man its just my congregation doesn’t really do that sort of thing

[BeMuse]

Well maybe talk to your religious leadership and ask if it's possible to organize something like that at the church as a church outreach event. It could bring the young people from the current congregation together on a regular basis with some decent ground rules (i. e. no alcohol, dress code, etc.) and possiblly create a way to grow the congregation by targeting a younger audience within the community by offering wholesome community activities. Really what it comes down to is just providing a meeting space one night a week (i. e. Christian school gymnasium) and maybe some audio equipment for use. Then people that want to attend can treat it like a potluck and everyone brings something that they can afford for the attendees to snack on all on a charity basis. Everyone dose what you can… Then seniors in high school (18-19 year old) and college aged students (19+) have a place to go on Friday nights to meet like minded individuals and they can invite dates and friends from school or work to come with them. This keeps people out of the bars and nights and potentially grows the church.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m in college rn so I don't know for sure man. I kinda like keeping things simple with the guys

[BeMuse]

Well then maybe there is a Christian student group where you can meet some people.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man. I’ve been in the student group but it does happen to be very limited pickings

[BeMuse]

How about walking around a Christian university campus and just talking to girls? It might not be where you go to school, but there is probably a handful of them around where you live.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I attend school in Maine so its a bit more sparse of an area

[BeMuse]

Saint Joseph's is like 20 minutes away from University of Southern Maine, 35 minutes from University of New England, but like 2 hours from University of Maine. It's not a big college, but there should be several hundred women there. I'd guess many of them are Christians.

[TheSpaceGnome]

This was a valuable post until you started getting racist.

Women of every race pull that bullshit. I've seen Asian women do it too, The oddly confused sounding girl in the first vid you posted, is Asian. I'm Asian, and I can tell you we are not some magical race of morally superior people. That does not exist.

[WhiteBoyChill]

She’s a westernized American wh*re though. She isn’t really Asian anymore

[TheSpaceGnome]

Genetics don't get erased because of where you are or how you act or think.

She's Asian, and was called out by a european woman, your own video is contrary to your claim.
You are grasping at straws to try to defend a pointless lie, regardless of whether you mean being Asian or living in asia, my point is still valid.

There are idiots in all races and countries.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I mean I’m not denying that Thailand has prostitutes but generally speaking Asian countries are far less influenced by feminism

[TheSpaceGnome]

Feminism is really only a US thing, pretty much all other countries are not promoting it.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Except the UK, Canada and probably NZ. They are all pretty bad as well

[Alwayreckles93]

I really do not understand why 30 year old men chase after trash like this. I have seen woman in their 40's looking way better then a woman in her 20's. I am laughing this girl and yes I say girl because I can't called someone woman with that mindset.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh believe me. I am so happy and I feel totally blessed to be free of these women.

[Jamie05rhs]

I liked the video you posted in the update. Good for him for call-out their hypocrisy.

[KrakenAttackin]

There are a million other videos showing women expressing their true thoughts and confirming men's worst fears.

[Jamie05rhs]

@KrakenAttackin Yeah. I've seen a few of them. Lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin Just out of curiousity, what do you tend to watch?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man, that video was a great touch. Can you actually believe that?

[Jamie05rhs]

Yep. I can EASILY believe that!

[KrakenAttackin]

@WhiteBoyChill. Man, I am so ADHD, I watch everything from fighter combat, to men/women videos like you have, to historical battle animations, documentaries, muscle cars, gun reviews and shooting... fuck, you name it. I am hell bent do a Glock 19 with an RMR so lately I have been binging on G19 videos.

[peedy]

We should have never given them equal rights just the typical woman to twist and manipulate them into superior rights

[Exterminatore]

Not shocking at all.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m telling you man. This is why I’m so happy just not interacting with women