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She always feels like she's being judged. She feels fat when she's not at all, but at the same time, she feels like she has a pretty face, good job, and a good singing voice although she has stage fright. She also can't admit when she's wrong and ragingly gaslights to "win" the argument and then dismisses anything anyone else has to say unless... someone like me who has experience with her can listen to her side and calmly express my viewpoints. This doesn't always work either, and I really don't want to deal with it sometimes.

By the way, I love my sister, and she is far from the worst person in the world. I do think she usually is a good person, but she has these moments that just annoy me because they just don't make any sense. I'm wondering how unique this is or if it is not at all. Personally I don't think her behavior is rare, but please feel free to chime in.

Please share if you have any solutions.

In a attempt to have a healthier outlook on humanity, and to silence my own personal biases about the opposite gender, I would like to get some opinions on how men and women can learn to be allies instead of enemies, I feel society tends to make us think negatively of each other, I’d like to be able to discuss the unique struggles of both genders, show compassion and empathy for each other’s hardships, think how we can make each other stronger if we stop assuming the worst about each other, and learn to value and appreciate each other’s strengths and weaknesses, I’d love to see society start leaning more towards these topics… so I guess these are my questions…
1.) how can we be less biased about the opposite gender?
2.) do you think it’s possible for the majority of men and women to be allies instead of enemies?
3.) what are steps to have a deeper understanding and appreciation for each other?
4.) how can we improve dating / casual sex?
5.) do our preferences in who we date / hookup with reinforce bad habits in society?
6.) as men and women should we oppose double standards?