Every time guys I’m talking to see my friend they immediately hit on her and tell me how attractive she is. What can I do to stand out myself?

[Anonymous]

I have a very beautiful unique looking best friend who is the sweetest, funniest, prettiest, coolest girl I know. I think I’m pretty cool in my own right and I get that just like me she has flaws too and whatever but she’s absolutely lovely. So lovely men who pursue me tend to flock to her after seeing her.

Examples are like when I post of pictures of us together I guy I’m planning a date with or am getting to know (like a talking stage) may dm me asking for her @ and saying how gorgeous she is. Or I’m taking to a guy and when she shows up all his attention goes to her instead. I love her to bits but it really hurts me and I know she can’t do anything about it so clearly I need to make a change.

it’s makes me feel worse knowing if I did find a guy who wasn’t bold enough to say something like that to me after seeing her he’d probably think she’s prettier in his head, wish he’d met her first. What can I do to stand out in my own she’s so much prettier guys think she’s obviously she’s better. I wanted us to stand together, pretty and special in different ways.

[MementoMori777]

You seem like such a good person by the way you weren't completely toxic about it and you value your friendship strongly, I respect it, to be honest if a guy is going by just physical appearance is he really a catch? Come on think about it, when you find the guy that still give you the same time and effort after seeing your friend, that's when you know you didn't catch a clown fish, if anything your friend is a perfect guy filter, I'd say help her get a boyfriend but that would just make these men come back to you after realizing she's taken and that seems low as well

[Anonymous]

I've banged over 500+ and been in the P0RN industry.

The female performers are made to look a certain way to get the most attention from dudes. Send me a DM with your pic and her pic and I'll tell you what you need to do to stand out.

[Asker]

I’m 18 but I’m a still a high schooler. I don’t wanna know how to get pornstar attention, that’s not positive attention. You’re weird man.

[Opinion Owner]

Continue being ignored then, you asked the question.

If you can't handle the heat, stay out the kitchen!

[Asker]

my friend doesn’t have to resemble a porn star to get attention, valued respected fully treated women don’t have to. Let’s say I follow your advice and I make myself into some rip off playmate I’d just be attracting old pervs, what’s the point in that?

[Opinion Owner]

I think you've misjudged the porn industry. Many chics look "normal" but they do certain things with how they dress to get EVERY man's attention, not just old farts. It's actually aimed at younger guys for the most part.

[Opinion Owner]

Your girlfriend may already be doing those 'subtle' things that get the attention of dudes.

[Asker]

thats all fine and dandy but I don’t see why you’d need to see my face to tell me mannerisms or clothing styles that draw people in.

[Opinion Owner]

I am a dude, I know what attracts dudes the most. Hair styles, faces, dressing style, etc.. etc..

A guy is gonna scope out the hottest most attractive females.

[Asker]

Why not just say the attractive hair/makeup styles, and clothes. I’m a tall Latina with curly hair, I’m not super curvy but I have a little shape
to me. What would you recommend for that?

[Opinion Owner]

dye your hair fiery red like this

[Asker]

not opposed to that, I’ll think about trying it out for summer. Looks pretty.

[Boomchakalaca]

Would not even take this porn star’s advice. Telling u to dye ur hair as if smthn was wrong with it?

[Sasha0426]

My guy, what you say is utter bullshit. Nothing but lies.

[Boomchakalaca]

Just let them see you for you. If they r interested in ur friend then they r not the right person. Looking a particular way will attract some attention, but is it good or bad attention, temporarily or permanent? And at what cost

[noohair]

Boys can be shallow, men too, but not as much.

[Anonymous]

For that i have to see how you look...

[Asker]

Not showing my face to strangers online, especially on a post like this. Know im pretty enough to get attention and compliments on my own and not pretty enough to be notice around a model type beauty.

I’m healthy lower end weight not super curvy kinda slim, 5’8”, I’m Latina, with black hair that goes around mid back, I do a medium amount of makeup but I’m not big on nails and such but I dress in a way thats generally flattering to my shape.

[Opinion Owner]

Boobz size?

[Asker]

I have a medium nose that I feel is big which I tend to slim down with makeup and I don’t have the clearest skin but it’s not too bad mostly just small bumps and I already have a consistent skincare routine.

[Asker]

gross fuck off creep

[Opinion Owner]

Dumb it's important to know because guys just can't go for face beauty...
They look for sexy figure too like boobs. Butt.

Such a navie you're

[Asker]

Asking a girl her boob size online is fucking gross that’s shouldn’t be a factor. Neither of us are curvy and I have a little more shape than her. Any half decent guy wouldn’t take that into account if they really give a shit about a girl outside of being some fuck object.

[Asker]

you realize women with small boobs still get dates right? No one would have small tits if only big chested women reproduced. it’s not a guy thing, you’re just weird.

[Opinion Owner]

Now I know why you get dump by guys for your friend. Hm.

[Asker]

If you had said this bullshit to my friend she would not only cussed you out but found where you work and sent it to your boss. You just don’t like hearing when your wrong, you can’t imagine that women’s attractiveness isn’t just a sum of sexual parts. Its not that hard not to be a fucking gross objectifier.

[Opinion Owner]

I m sure you have small little boobies... anyways I'm my boss. Have a great time ahead. ✌️

[Asker]

i love how you just don’t retain any information at all. believe what you want, good thing I’m not trying to attract guys like you, trying to incorrectly judge bra size of high school girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Aww such a cutie you're 🥰🥰
But girl believe me figure matters...

[Asker]

I’ve already told you my friend is near flat chested while I’m about average. Figure matters to you, I have plenty of male friends who are unlike you, good people. They date girls of all different appearances, figures small to large. I’m telling you, not a guy think it’s you being weird.

[Opinion Owner]

Well every guy have difference preference in girls...
For me yeah figure matters..

[Asker]

ok, then why are you acting like i give a shit about your preferences. I’m clearing not after any grown ass men who spend their time arguing with a high schoolers on gag. Not even good advice, waste of time 👎🏼

[Opinion Owner]

Girls with tiny boobs always have larger ego...😂😂😂

Cya boring cunt 😘

[Boomchakalaca]

Dudes toxic af and looks like a fake account 🚩

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I'm toxic n pervert asf...
And I'm fake as much as you're fake...😘🥰

[Sasha0426]

@savagewolf22 Someone with a small dick size talk exactly like you and gets mad very easily when told no. Talk about having a large ego 🤣 Do you feel like a big boy now, shrimp dick?