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Following the outcry to my last question so I thought I'd provide an example🤣A couple of months ago I was taking a few minute look and gaze at the hills in the distance while out for a walk on a weekend away on a lovely woodland trail, it was lovely until i was clouded with a wall of smoke from behind🥴I turned a few moments later after hearing a couple of LGBT remakrs and slurs in the conversation they were having. So I walked over and I confronted a man and woman about early to mid 20s and told the couple who were smoking like chimneys which smelt horrible and supposedly having a "picnic" when I confronted them I simply said "I don't want to inherit any damage from your smoke, and also its 2022 so maybe grow up with your slurs" 👌 The womans response was to laugh in my face and say "Mind your own buisness Mr, you sound like Kurt off Glee" her boyfriend laughed his ass off and told me to "Go away" with a few expletives, so I then pulled them on their ignorance and floored logic and why because they see someone like me they feel it okay to act in this manner? and they ended up tying me to a tree and carrying on anyway with their smoking and "Picnic" before driving off a short time later. 🙈 I think this is a great example of people not being able to handle losing an argument and accepting their own ignorance. Although people find this amusing even my friends, it highlights it to the tee. Do you agree?

I only say this because some of them seem cryptic or worded in a confusing manner. And by that point, the asker has probably forgotten about it.

Honestly, I feel bad for how I treated the employees. Though I don't think I was in the wrong when I pointed out their manners. I used a racial slur but didn't use it with a racial definition; as a matter of fact I wasn't even thinking about race at the moment. However I did go on a political tirade based on their manners.

I am autistic. My therapist is focused on behavior analysis. I have said actually racist things in the past. I am afraid that he will track down this one if I told him what happened. I really would not want to tell him what happened until Del Taco provides me with another email about what they will do with the situation.

My therapist is friends with my mom and I don't want him to tell my mom that I f*cked up because my mom will get pissed at me if she finds out about this. My stepdad really loves Del Taco.

First and foremost let me just say, yes I am aware that the N-word is a slur, racially against African-Americans to be specific. But in much of the same way that cookie, monkey, ape, or the abbreviated version of raccoon is, and even Uncle Tom (fun fact: my half-Asian, half-Caucasian therapist's uncle is named Tom).

Today I went to a restaurant, and I will not mention which one because of privacy reasons, but this guy looked at me disturbed while I was greeting him with a simple "hi." I thought that he and a female coworker were being very rude for not greeting me back. I yelled, convincing him to say "hi" back. He was basically tone-policing me and I did not like that the two workers had poor manners.

Mind you I was raised in a semi-strict, bordering on conservative Christian household where manners were very much a big deal. The hi/hello/hey, please, thank you, and occasionally the sir/ma'am (my parents didn't require me to refer to them or their relatives as such).

Anyway, back on topic, I questioned their poor manners and went full on political (like I usually do in my emotional outbursts). This time instead of being anti-Trump I went full pro-Trump and even pro-DeSantis, but in my heart I was really mocking the fundamentalist part of the Trump and DeSantis fanbases for their lack of manners and for wanting to get rid of critical race theory.

I feel like these workers were very racist towards me. So I wanted to give a full shot by testing to see if they really were. I am not fully White, only about two-thirds (though I mark myself as such in applications). My paternal grandfather is mixed with Middle Eastern and Black. My Blackness veils in me, but I don't let it be the main factor of me. I never even considered myself Black before finding out my ancestors.

The way that I used the N-word, however, was not racist even with the hard 'r'. It was meant to be synonymous with "ignorant". The employee chased after me with a pocket knife and I ran away very quick.