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So lovers... though they say "opposites attract", I've taken psychology in school before, and it's actually false... people are usually attracted to those who are quite similar to themselves. Not in every single way possible, but just generally similar to them. Though it's still not unheard of for completely different people to fall in love.

But either ways, where do you lie? Are you and your lover very similar? Are you moderately different? Or are you complete polar opposites?


As for me and my lover... we have a lot of similarities, but also a lot of differences.

The first difference is that I'm a guy and she's a girl... jk, that basically applies to any hetero couple, lmao.

Now for the actual differences... I'm rather shy, quiet, rarely have any topics to talk about, don't have much friends, don't do much with my life, am rather insecure, get depressed often, etc. Now she's very outgoing, she's always loaded with topics, she has a lot of friends, she's really confident, she does a lot with her life, and she's usually always so bubbly and cheerful.

But we're also quite similar... whatever we do together, we enjoy it. Most of the stuff we do together is due to her, because she goes out more often and does more stuff, but we still really enjoy it. And we also love to talk together... though I don't have many topics, it's still really nice to talk to her. And we both enjoy being kind and polite... both to each other, and other people. And lastly, we're really touchy feely with each other and love hugs, except for when one of us has a stomach ache or feels nausea... then we keep our distance... but when the stomache ache or nausea goes away, then we hug again! And lastly, we both worked really hard when in school and got good grades, and have rather successful jobs... I don't know if this is as important, but it's a similarity alright. Our ambition.

Overall, these differences and similarities only make us love each other even more!

- She texts me almost every other day (day and night). She’s showed me her messages before & she gets a lot from many guys.
- She’s always near me especially if I’m not talking to her. In a group she’ll get my attention by saying something to me or about me.
- She notices things I do even if I don’t talk to her and talk to others in large groups.
- She’s always happy when with me or when I’m going to something she’s going to.
- we’ve known each other 2 years but only got to know her well last few months.
- if I get too close to her while making eye contact, she’ll stay put and make eye contact then after a bit move away.
- She looks at me a lot in a group but looks away when I look back.
- She keeps hinting she wants to go on holiday with me.
- She doesn’t tell people we see each other a lot alone. We turned up to a friends birthday party late once as we were in a cafe and museum. She kept texting her best friend she’ll be later.
- She behaves in a similar way to another guy which makes us want to compete.
- She tells people she’s not interested in dating.