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OK, so my sister has a girlfriend who goes to christian church every week who admitted to her mother this weekend that she is having sex with some guys for money.

My sister knew she was having sex with more than one guy, but not that she was getting paid for it.

Since her friend hangs around boys from upper income families who's kids have money provided to them, she told my sister now that she's been caught, that she does it for the money that she gets from the guys.

Why would she do this if she goes to church?

Can you do this sort of thing and still be a christian?

What if she keeps doing it?

Is it because her parents make her go to church when she doesn't really want to, or is it because she doesn't really believe that the bible says what she is doing is wrong?

Her mother was able to open her daughters phone somehow and discovered some texts from more than one guy asking her how much she would charge to preform certain sexual acts for them, which they named, and she told them how much.

It made her mother's jaw drop and first become suspicious, and then after doing more checking, found a large number of condoms in her daughters purse.

Is this none of her mothers business since her daughter is 17 now?

Should her mother be checking her daughter's phone and purse at that age?

Shouldn't her daughter have some privacy now that she is an older teenager?

What is your opinion on something like this? Don't be afraid to be honest!

So we met a very interesting way to say the least. He says he hired a matchmaker to find me. She called my work phone one day and after review she is very reputable. It’s kind of like a millionaire matchmaker type thing. I was very hesitant for a few reasons. The age gap is more than I would normally be comfortable with (17 years) and he is extremely successful. That is great I just don’t like the feeling when people can “buy” anything they want. So we start going on lavish dates and decently early he pushed sex. We went on about 8-9 dates and were seeing each other 2-3x per week when it finally happened. Since he expects to every time which is fine, but he had seemed a little less interested in me. He is always commenting on my appearance which is nice to hear, but at the end of the day I want to know I am the one he is interested in being around not just looking at. He got sick and for 2 weeks acted extremely distant. I took him gifts etc. Yesterday kind of out of nowhere he started asking all the things I liked as he wants to know so we can do them together and was very chatty, but then he said he had a work dinner. That’s fine, but I sent him a few texts and nothing. To give an idea I usually get 2-5 texts from him a day and the more I am around him the more his phone is around. Now he does work a lot as he owns a few businesses, but I’m not sure I’m the only one in his life. I just feel like I’m getting mixed signals. We have now been on about 20 dates over 2 months and are now on a schedule of 1-2 dates per week. How much am I overthinking this? I just keep coming back to the fact he hired someone, date 2 he said he put his matchmaker membership on hold, date 3 he told me he told his mom about me, he deleted his Instagram right after we started dating, but kept his facebook (we aren’t connect on). He has never said much of anything about his friends or me meeting them. He has never asked about meeting my friends. Thoughts?