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When I was 16, with the help of a guy and his cousin I've framed my older sister's then fiance for cheating and something else. I did everything to make my sister be single again and spend time with her like old times.

Now I'm 24 and after having 3 miscarriages in a row, I get told I'm infertile as a result of an incident years ago, with very slim chance of carrying a baby full term. This goes back to when I had the horseback riding accident shortly after my 18th b-day. I was normal before. Basically I'll probably never be able to experience giving birth, all my years will be wasted till all my eggs died. This indeed is the worst news ever.

Even though I've already admitted in all in early 2020, before knowing my condition (trying to make things right) this is my karma/punishment isn't it?

And by the way...

It's not okay to fault him for having and expressing feelings, or being vulnerable, or deeply caring about something, or being disappointed, or being afraid. He's human, just like you. And shunning him for it is a shitty thing to do. It hurts him just as much as you hurt, when you're not supported, and treated like shit. There is no difference in the pain.

So why do some of you not like it, why do some of you lose attraction to him?
I'll answer what you will never say. Because you think he must be stronger than you. Why? Because you feel weak, yourself, and because if he's not strong, all the time, then you can't be weak and vulnerable. That's the real truth. It's not about his masculinity.

"I have been mocked and have had my emotions used against me by both men and women. Vulnerability is only good when exercised properly depending on who you are with. Do it the wrong way, you get punished."

So next time, instead of telling him, or implying 'man up', maybe you should 'woman up.' Get stronger, so you're not reliant on him to always be the only emotionally strong one.

If you don't, and you teach guys that being vulnerable to you is only going to backfire and cause problems, they're going to stay closed off, not trust you (or any of us), and feel that the greatest gift that women used to offer guys - compassion, support, tenderness... doesn't exist anymore. And that will be on you. On those of you who reject men for showing any sign of vulnerability. You want this?

And this?

He's also these...

I'm giving y'all anon on this one. Speak your mind. But be constructive. I'm getting fed up with all the rage and toxicity.