I was pursed by a guy that just wanted to have sex with me for 5 years?

[emilym12345]

So I was pursued by a guy that only wanted sex from me for 5 years. Part of me thought that he liked me because he kept talking to me or he just wasn’t ready for a relationship.. I’m not sure why this guy targeted me. Did he just have an intense attraction to me? Did someone just tell him I was easy? I kept refusing him sex. Was he telling people I was sleeping with him? Considering we had sex twice in 5 years. Did he just want to seem like a man or something? I’m so confused by this to be completely honest. He kept telling me about the type of person that he wanted. A girl with lost of friends that parties and goes out. Then why honestly keep me around? To constantly bring me down? Was it because I wasn’t giving into this guy and that’s all he wanted was to mess around? Why keep talking to me then? Why not find someone that’s willing to have lots of sex? Did this guy just have a perception of me that was bogus? Was I a victim of locker room stories that I did not know about? Did he just not try to get anyone else? All these questions keep swirling in my mind. I’m still dumbfounded as he still views my Linkedin profile, the only social media profile I don’t have him blocked on. The words “I could never date a girl like you.” Still make me wonder if I’m even worth pursuing a relationship with. A friend of his actually tried to talk to me and wanted to take me out on a date. He changed his mind when he told him “I was no virgin”. Which makes me think that this guy was just bashing me any chance he got. Did I not matter as a person? Was I completely worthless? It was not until I told my councilor this that she told me “This is what abuse looks like.” He is an abuser. He abuses women.

[loveslongnails]

Apparently this bothered you, but the answer is indeed rather simple - he's a (manipulative) narcissist. He's just a gamer who gets off on all of this crap he fed you, and anyone else. The more play he got back, the more it fueled him.

You're a smart and attractive girl, and all the questions you ask might be worth you time and thought IF you were dealing with a real man, but you're not. Like your counselor told you, this is abuse. Don't waste another moment of your time trying to figure him out, and especially don't question your own self worth. You're fine, he's ill.

[Nik1hil]

Why do girls always let the bad boy in!.

Good boy's *Like his friend who wanted to take you out on real date.* always get left out in cold or in friendzone..

[yofuknutz]

The old expression of you only say no so many times before you give in but that doesn't help the guy that's friend zone

[AmeerX]

For virgins are virgins and for non virgins are non virgins

[Robert_]

I'd almost consider him to be a stalker.

[EaterPeter]

Intense attraction. Feel like a man.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[chriscdi]

Smart chick if you caught that mf after 5 years

[OddBeMe]

Why’d you sleep with him at all?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Cool?