So I was pursued by a guy that only wanted sex from me for 5 years. Part of me thought that he liked me because he kept talking to me or he just wasn’t ready for a relationship.. I’m not sure why this guy targeted me. Did he just have an intense attraction to me? Did someone just tell him I was easy? I kept refusing him sex. Was he telling people I was sleeping with him? Considering we had sex twice in 5 years. Did he just want to seem like a man or something? I’m so confused by this to be completely honest. He kept telling me about the type of person that he wanted. A girl with lost of friends that parties and goes out. Then why honestly keep me around? To constantly bring me down? Was it because I wasn’t giving into this guy and that’s all he wanted was to mess around? Why keep talking to me then? Why not find someone that’s willing to have lots of sex? Did this guy just have a perception of me that was bogus? Was I a victim of locker room stories that I did not know about? Did he just not try to get anyone else? All these questions keep swirling in my mind. I’m still dumbfounded as he still views my Linkedin profile, the only social media profile I don’t have him blocked on. The words “I could never date a girl like you.” Still make me wonder if I’m even worth pursuing a relationship with. A friend of his actually tried to talk to me and wanted to take me out on a date. He changed his mind when he told him “I was no virgin”. Which makes me think that this guy was just bashing me any chance he got. Did I not matter as a person? Was I completely worthless? It was not until I told my councilor this that she told me “This is what abuse looks like.” He is an abuser. He abuses women.
I was pursed by a guy that just wanted to have sex with me for 5 years?
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