He used me for sex?

[Face667]

he knew he didn't wanted me and yet he used me for sex. And then he turned around and played me and said i never wabted u anyways. Blabla. I got attached to him and fell in love with him. He completely discarded me why?

[RearEntryGuy]

In business, when two persons agree to work together for material gain, they sign a legal binding contract.

For example, how much $$$ each invest, how much share of the profit, what is the job scope, etc.

After the job is done, the gentleman way is to share the profit as agreed, then shake hands.

If all or most in the agreement is fulfilled, then no one is being "used", because the agreement was for material profits.

Same with friends with benefits or short-term sex relationship.

Both agreed to sex. If both had it and are satisfied, then let's not say who used who.

Yes, I'm a guy. I can also claim being used by my SO should she marries another. But no. We both drew the agreement. And we're satisfied with it.

To conclude, do you want the sex in the beginning? If no, then it's rape and you can report to the police. But if yes, it's an agreement that has been fulfilled.

Move on. Let time include "commitment" and "long-term" or "marriage" as part of the agreement. See if he "signs" it.

[Shamalien]

Did he lead you on? Why do girls always think they are worth more than a fuck? A girl who is capable of being used for sex is a girl who will be used for sex. If you want something serious, step one is to set boundaries and develop willpower. Fail to do that and you’ll just get passed around until you are no longer desirable.

[SeanshterMonster]

Some people are evil like that. I know I've been treated like that and it's heart breaking. He used you and didn't care, you have to watch out for people like that.

[Face667]

It really is, i think he wanted to hurt u

[Jamie05rhs]

Why? Because he could. That's the way the game is set up. To make it easier for men to have sex. If you don't like it, change the rules. You have the power, if you choose to use it.

[CallmeTheKnight]

People are cruel like that but you have to understand, they can only use you if you give them to power to. It's not limited to just sex

[FunkyMonkee]

She used me to make another guy jealous!! Stole my cherry, in the process!!

[awkward_author]

He found you attractive, knew you liked him, felt horny and wanted to get laid.

[Pterodon]

You answered your own question. All he wanted was your pussy

[Face667]

Yeah bit i feel worthless

[Pterodon]

Learn from it

[boobliker]

just remember him he will do it to some else and inform them what he is like

[Anonymous]

Because you let yourself be used.

[Face667]

No he persuaded me

[Opinion Owner]

You're a grown up. Stop acting like a victim. You made a choice. Live with the result.

[Face667]

I know i did but i feel traumatized

[Opinion Owner]

Then don't let yourself be used.

[BarryLiverstone]

You didn’t have boundaries

[OddBeMe]

Some guys get off on that. Learn from this.

[Gb-Fan]

Happens all the time.

[scott04sa22]

Sounds like it