I went on a date with a guy and we really vibed. He asked me on two more dates after. There was constant communication in between. We kissed on the second date and he asked me to come back to his place on the third and I said maybe next time. He kept talking to me for the next few days normally. He said he would make me dinner for our next date. He spent a good amount of money on these dates too. Over 400. All the dates were his idea and I always offered to pay. Was he just using me for sex?
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That is a crazy amount to spend on dates. There is absolutely no need to spend that sort of money. Sometimes the best dates are the ones that don't cost a lot. Sounds like he is really trying to impress you. I hope he can actually afford to do that and not digging himself in a hole. As to whether this means he is trying to get in your pants? Hard to say but I lean towards yes. The reason I say that is there is zero need to spend that sorta money on a date. Again this goes back to the trying to impress you and then expecting something in return for these spectacular dates. The other reason is he tried to get you to his place. This isn't 100% certainty but I would be leary. By the way what does a $400 date look like?
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If I’m being honest all guys think about is sex when they’re talking to a girl. Lol guys like what they see so they try to pursue it so the chances that any guy you ever talk to has thought about having sex with you. Now there’s the respect part is he very pushy on you? Does he try to move too fast? Those are things you have to look at. If he wants you and you feel he’s giving me vibes like he just wants to sleep with me step back and ask “hey I enjoy talking to you, what are your intentions?” And see if his words match his actions. I will say going over to someone’s house doesn’t necessarily mean sex but you both have to have self control. I personally wouldn’t recommend going over until you feel comfortable enough to where sex could happen cause the chances of you guys having sex in a room where you both are alone is pretty high. His actions will speak for him
How can a guy have used you for sex if you haven't had sex with him yet? 400 on each date? Jesus Christ. What kind of Hollywood bullshit dates are you going on?
How is he using you for sex when you haven't had sex yet?
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I’m not sure that’s the only conclusion you could reach. Was he always initiating for all three dates and always sending messages first between?
Just wait and see if he's willing to go at your pace, and get to know you better
Just based on this u can't really say that honey
He stopped talking to you?
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