Break Up & Divorce

HE USED ME FOR SEX?

He mentioned he was looking for an assistant, a role I was interested in. We exchanged contact information and our interactions eventually became personal. I already had his number but had not started texting him on Telegram. We had an unspoken cue that I would accompany him to his house and later on I went with him to his house where we had some fun. We met for coffee and later at his house quite a few times and we both sexted and sent each other pics of ourselves.

However, despite our personal connection, he started displaying a heightened interest in another girl who works in his office.

However, he apparently had his eyes on her since last year when she was a student. She started working in this office since December last year and she's 14 years YOUNGER than him. Since the last month or so, they started talking a lot more and he was openly flirting with her, even in the presence of office colleagues, and let her accompany him to meetings with students. His interactions with her included frequent online messaging, sharing photos of himself and his cats, and complimenting her appearance, calling her glowing, radiant, pretty etc. However, he constantly nudges her on her arm, playfully touches her feet with his and is very flirty with her. Even his office colleagues can see this.

Meanwhile, he began to avoid me, going as far as leaving the office early to prevent encounters because I had been texting him and he was not replying to me. Finally I went to his office looking for him but that day he wasn't there as if he already knew that I would come looking for him. I did air out that I have been texting him but he is not replying to his colleague who was in the office. I sent him one last message saying that I went to his office and he finally responded to my messages. Surprisingly, he claimed that he's not looking for an assistant and cited a toxic office environment as a reason for not assisting me.

WHY DID HE DO THIS TO ME?

he's 46. I am 36.

HE USED ME FOR SEX?
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