Why always I always become bestfriend, when I wanna be there boyfriend? So tell me what I did wrong when we were all good?

[God108]

So I have been talking with girls online and through time I found something disturbing that is I always get best friend zone, ya you got me correct. Not friend zone but I become a best friend. So lemme get you a clear picture. since I want you to help me.
1st gir: We start talking as Stanger, texting basically. But since she was good at responding unlike some girls who don't show many initiatives at first, she was lively in talk and we start building nice talk day by day. We used to share lots of gif, jokes, and what most I always hey her Laugh since she likes my sense of humor. Tho there was less flirting, and yea we once had an ERP (it was very at the beginning, coz she might had thought that maybe just for fun and after this, we were done) but after that were still normal and yea she didn't allow me or brought this sexy scenes and talk she refrain from talking about it. Maybe not much okay. So yea. We kept talking for 3 months. While she had a boyfriend wasn't giving him much time so I felt I might have a chance. But at the same time when I started talking there was another who was older than her also talking there was one difference, he always being cute, soft, and sweet with her like yk all commenting, saying and all while I kept this quiet more of friends talk... so once when we were having flirt talk I said "Yea u like me I know" so she said like dude yk as a friend. But you are the best one. And she also told me about that guy. But at times she said we can be besties (I agreed coz we were having a nice talk and we were understanding each other While with thought might things also get close and romantic Later) so yea from then she used to share everything from SS to Chats everything. We had an everyday talk, she texts me every day, every night, and spam me when I wasn't available about "Missing me" 1/10 Times 🙂 yea that's a sarcastic smile. So yeah when she broke with her boyfriend, she starts dating that guy. And told me this guy was so good to her.

[GuiltymeneverLMAO303]

Look rule of thumb always works especially on the younger ones about 19 to 25:they are so full of emotions ups downs hate this one sec love it the next hints the term unstable creature's don't call them that too their face but anyways start out nice as you normally do give complements beautiful this beautiful that sexy this sexy that you deserve the world now right after that for a short period of time and I mean short a day at most then switch it be a cocky dick or ghost them entirely they will be like wtf and try to get you to reply and I mean try blow you up because you were so nice so sweet to the point of being taken advantage of now you blew them off wtf they get all confused why I like him I want him then go back the next day start off being nice while treating them like shit it becomes a artform and it comes naturally after so long you also need to know if she is a hoe or a hurt broken one a I'm better then everyone niggas ain't shit type or the complete innocent one there is a way to treat each one differently and fuck with each ones head to get what you want it all comes with practice buddy one thing I must say nice guys finish last always don't be the dumb one woman need respect no they don't when you become older and the woman become wiser that's when that comes in to play lmao

[God108]

I now this stuff what you just told me

[GuiltymeneverLMAO303]

Well then you just need more practice go around hitting on every chick you see fat ugly pretty whatever work it out practice makes perfect my homie

[hamzaelll]

I think your approach might be wrong. It s good to be kind and well behaved, but u should learn from the older dude and start making ur intentions clear from the beginning. If u talk to her just to talk, then u r basically telling her u just want to be friends. Next time be kind and nice, but make it clear u r pursuing her and ask her out once the ice is broken, dont wait too long cuz she might lose interest. Good luck next time and i hope u find a girl that will choose u over others.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

It is disturbing, but mostly because you find it disturbing that a girl finds you interesting and trustworthy enough to call you her friend and that isn't enough.

I get that you like her, but let's flip it around the other way. There are guys who are going to be interested in her that she won't even give the time of day to. You have that over all of them. I get you want more, but if being friends is disturbing to you then don't pretend to be her friend back in hopes she might pick you one day. That is going to make you very bitter and it is very much a wolf in sheep's clothing approach.

Move on if you aren't ok with just being her friend or just accept that what you are looking for isn't going to happen and be happy that you still have her in your life as a friend.

[Crissy_J]

I think you need to start having real relationships with these girls instead of just texting back and forth. The girl with the boyfriend can text you all she wants behind his back, but is that the kind of girl you want? You never mentioned seeing any of these girls in person or actually calling them and talking. Anyway, start going out more and approaching girls in person. Texting is ok for a bit, but three months with no results is wasting time. Don’t waste time with girls that are taken, but that’s a whole different topic.

[God108]

Yea we have been talking from approximately 8 month and till now had 2-3 voice calls which were quite long since we both are talkitive, but before when she had boyfriend

[humanearth]

Your too nice, try being more forword and making passes at them. The Gentlemen's gentlemen days are over. You have to move fast if you dont want best friend and want to get laid

[btbc92]

I prefer a gentleman than a rabbit in heat. A gentleman doesn't think about the friend zone or any of that nonsense you may want to make up. It's men like yourself that is to sex a stress is why you come after us to begin with. And then we rather just have you as a friend and you're mad because you not hopping in my panties. You don't tell the freaking truth. There's nothing wrong with being friends. It is better to be friends so you can get to know each other. It is very obvious that you know a lot about him enough to make up a conscious decision that she is not interested in that by. And for some women, they need to be immediately sexually attracted to the man the same way a lot of human went to what you got to be sexually attracted to us. She's not looking to hop in jail but you needn't lie you can bet you're just a friend or somebody she wants to talk to you. What happened to physical attraction being very important? I think a lot of you forgotten about that.

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