My best friend has recently been coming out with comments on why guys like me. She's in a relationship and I'm single, but if a guy hits on me, she always has to justify it to me. She's always like:
"Well, it was earlier in the night so he probably didn't see any other girls he liked."
"I mean, I'd have guys all over me too if I was dressed like that... no offense, I'm just saying that the way you were dressed attracts guys that just want to fuck."
"Oh, he likes mixed race girls? (because I'm mixed race.) That explains it. You know guys with a fetish gass anything of that race. It doesn't even mean anything."
"You know, he broke up with his ex recently. She's really pretty. He's probably just trying to use you to make her jealous."
And recently, I liked one of her boyfriend's friends and he was flirting with me back. My best friend told me that he's already talking to another girl (who she's never met) and kept emphasising that this other girl is "so beautiful" while putting me down and trying to warn me off this guy.
What's up with my bestie? Should I address these comments with her? Or am I being oversensitive?
