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There’s this guy who I know has a criminal record and he’s pretty big and his personality is very very strong. He does not care at all. Someone tried to threaten him and he didn’t even get scared like literally. Just ignored it. If someone insults him he doesn’t care at all

Anyway - when he walks around - this girl I know she’s my friend she says oh God he's hot and starts going mmmf but he doesn’t see it. Why do they do it? What’s with them?
I am so kind and caring and I listen to girls problems but they don’t date me and this jerk comes along and they’re all oh he’s hot why

Being sex-zoned means that someone only sees you from a sexual perspective. That for some reason, they think you are only good for sex, not for a friendship or anything else.

There is this thing that I hate about the men and women I come across, around 50% of the women I come across sex-zone me, and the other 50% of the women friend-zone me. As for men, straight men do not really like me, too much competition comes between us and it ruins the friendship. With bisexual and gay men, the only thing they want from me is sex.

This is very annoying to me, because I am not interested in friendships without sex, and I am not interested in sex without friendships. I need a strong emotional and physical bond with a friend, only after that do I feel like I am close enough to them. If I do not feel that level of closeness with them, then I am not able to trust them, and feel attached to them, which would lead to me moving on from the friendship sooner or later.

And I need some sort of an emotional bond with a person to be able to enjoy anything sexual with them, otherwise I cannot do it. Without an emotional bond, or mutual admiration of one or more personality traits at least, having sex with a person will feel like I am being raped, and/or that I am raping someone.

MEN... I want to know what you guys think is the most effective in attracting (or keeping) women. Don't choose what you think "the correct" answer is; choose what YOU feel is most effective. I don't have any of these, by the way. I've also mostly stopped chasing after women; it's utterly futile considering. I'm just focusing on myself, now.

This post is for Men, but I'm not going to genderlock it, so expect some potential bullsh*t "personality is all that matters" comments to possibly come flying by. But you're free to say what you want, as long as it's civil.

Based off of @Amber24 's question, here.
Would you marry a stranger for 10k?

Would you agree to an arranged marriage to someone you've never met before, but got to see a video profile of, which revealed them to be:

- Your physical type of partner (a personal 9 out of 10, in your opinion)
- Someone you have a lot in common with, and
- Someone who has seen you and thinks you're really hot (looks and personality)

You can divorce them after six months time if it doesn't work out, but if you say no, you'll never get to meet them or see them again.

Some examples, although this person could be anyone you find cute: