1. Yes, Men Cry Too
Did you know that all of those vulnerable, sad, and hurt feelings that you have as a woman are felt by men in the same and equal measure? Did you know that men can be just as scared and lost as you are about things? Dare I say...men cry. Some men actually cry a lot. When you cut us we bleed. When women break our hearts we hurt. We as men are not robots. We have just as emotion as you do. We are just cultured in many societies to suppress these emotions. We deal with this alone.
2. We Can't Read Your Mind
Many of us guys simply have no clue about the woman they care about. I think there is this idea that women think their man over the course of a relationship will finally understand them. No. We don't think like women. Unless you explain to us that something is wrong we simply won't know until it is too late.
3. Your Love Puts Him on the Market
Never take your man for granted. Women are vultures. A lot of guys are ignored by women until they see them in a relationship with another woman. Then women who never gave them a thought become obsessed. A woman must always accept that relationship status makes him a magnet to other women. Not only that, but even his failed relationship with you makes him wiser and a better lover for the next relationship.
4. His Love Is More Genuine Than You Think
When he first sees you he doesn't care about your education, career, wealth, or the car you drive. He cares about boobs and booty. Don't be offended by this. This is a man's biological impulse. It actually means he is attracted to YOU. Thinking that your body is sexually attractive is NOT superficial. There is nothing more real than who you are in the flesh. He also is attracted to YOUR personality. He cares little about anything more than those two things.
5. We Fear Hypergamy
We fear if we lose our job you will leave us. We fear you are always seeking to trade up.
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