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For the most part I care to do right by people including women. That’s not to say I haven’t ever done and said things I regretted. That doesn’t I might have a few personality quirks that women don’t appreciate. But I do know I’ve overall try to do right.

But I also know there are some true POS guys out there. Abusive and violent men. Sociopaths. Psychopaths. I know damn well not every guy would react to a situation as thoughtfully as I would.

However find myself often initially give the other guy the benefit of doubt when I hear an abuse or sexual assault story from a woman. I will however convict the guy mentally if there is actual hard evidence to prove he really did something.

But while just hearing some woman’s verbal testimony I often find myself thinking “what if tha was me” she was accusing? I know I would never in my life do anything like the abuse stories we hear about men harming women. However if I don’t know the accused guy well I often keep asking questions about the incident to gather more info. I want to see if the woman is changing her story or leaving out crucial details (e. g. a woman claims a man hit her. But did she hit him first?).

But again it’s very naive to assume another guy would react and behave the same way I would in a situation. I never rule out he might be a truly violent abusive POS.

But do women second guess other women while hearing abuse claims? When they hear stories is there ever any doubt in their minds about the other woman is saying?

I bet some think twice about it. But from my observations women often immediately imagine themselves being the in the place of the victim in the verbal abuse story. Not all but they seem persuaded very quickly and take the other woman’s story at face value. Sometimes is the complete truth but not always. But are women able to imagine the possibility that the other woman might be malicious and a liar?

Obviously it's common courtesy to put the toilet seat down when you are in the dwelling of or share a dwelling with a woman, as the female to male ratio increases even more so. Trust me I have gotten bonked before for not doing so.

The often cited reason I hear to do this is to prevent women from falling into the toilet, the seat being the thin white circle saving them from a catastrophe.

However, this explanation never made sense to me because it's such an obvious thing to avoid. Unless drunk there really is no excuse to diving your behind onto a toilet without looking first. On that, even at night your eyes have adjusted and a toilet outline is quite visible whether it's up or down, and I say this as someone who has Lasik surgery and thus suffers with night vision. Lastly in my experience it's easy to just touch whether the seat is up or down based on the cover because with a seat up it will have a noise from the seat and cover tapping against each other.

So really other than laziness, the actual issue in my view is that it isn't courteous to the women. This should suffice on my own in my opinion because unless it's a real issue the toilet dunks sound more like a scary story to warn inattentive men of their inactions.
I have to lift the seat up to only pee and obviously check for that so I don't piss on the seat, so I fail to see how this logic can't be applied in reverse.

As an experiment this year I've been leaving the toilet cover down as well as the seat to see if I got complaints and so far none have sufficed.

So girls how often does this toilet bowl bottom exchange with a lifted seat actually happen? In occurrences that it did was it from assuming and committing to the squat or a genuine mistake?