Search Results: approaching girls in a bar

Are most men really invisible to women?

Women look at me all the time. Girls peak at me when they think their boyfriend isn't looking. Teenage girls and even younger kids will sneak glances at me or try to find excuses to interact with me. Constantly. If...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How come this didn’t happen to us?

I went to a couple of bars with my friend last night. While we were dancing at the first one, a guy came over and started dancing with us and told us we were pretty and asked our names. My friend started flirting with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Where do you meet men in NYC besides bars?

the bar scene doesn't work for me. I walk in and nobody talk to me for hours. I try to make eye contact with some dudes and they almost always are just looking for nothing but just hookup. Nobody ever hits on me. Maybe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does a girl at the bar do this to get approached?

Sits next to you when there’s several seats available away from you?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Sits next to you when there’s several seats available away from you?

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Girls, What is the best way to approach a woman?

Now that I'm a full time worker, I'm never really introduced to women my age by chance. I feel like my only option is to approach strangers. I don't know if bars or clubs are a good idea, or the gym, but those are the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I never get approached?

I’m 18. Haven’t gone out a lot and if I do it’s mostly bars and never clubs. I would say I’m attractive but I have confidence and self-esteem issues as well as being shy so that could be a factor, but at the same time I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

To message the one that got away?

I had this good guy friend for years. We met through my job, I was a bar-tender and him and his buddies used to drink in the bar every weekend. We both had the same sense of humour and hit it off immediately - let's call...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Woman asked me a strange question?

To preface I'm a 30-year-old introverted man. I'm at the point in my life where I seriously want to make changes in my life and find a relationship so that I can get married and have children. I wanted to step out of my...

sweetvictory

Xper 3 Age: 33

Guys, how often do girls approach you at a bar?

I know the guy is supposed to approach but the few times I've been to a bar I've usually always had a girl come up and ask me why I'm all by myself. Or usually they'll ask if I remember them from high school or something....

red324

Guru Age: 37

My friend gets all the attention?

Im no hater by any means, but my friend who's average looking and dresses very plain a dress shirt and old faded jeans, gets a lot of attention at bars and nightclubs, I however like to dress fancy like a suit and tie...

Thehandsomeone

Xper 2 Age: 30

How Do I Look?

Why would everyone assume I am a different nationality than I am?

So, the other day French girl thought I was French, yesterday Spanish guy was claiming that I must be Spanish, German thought I must be Spanish or Greek with maybe 1:8 of Asian blood in me. My ex fiance used to think I am...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Why do girls hit on other girls in the bars?

Today I was approached by two girls, both of them were quite touchy feely to me, one of them suddenly grabbed my breast and asked me how I felt and the second one put my hand on her breast. I don’t know why they thought I...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Last night my boyfriend called me stupid and a dumb blonde in an argument?

We were both discussing an experience we had at a club together. I brought him because I know how weird guys are at the bar and one guy approached me from behind and kept touching me so I swatted him away and kissed my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you hit on guys at the bar?

Or at least approach them?

red324

Guru Age: 37

What should I know about white American women at the bar? How should a man approach them? What can I ask them? And why do they mostly dress revealing?

So I went to the bar today with a friend. This was my third time going. I turned 21 two months ago. He wanted to take psychedelic mushrooms before we left so I was designated driver. But when we were there I really didn’t...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Am in university— if I want to meet a girl the “old fashioned way”, what would be an acceptable place to do so?

I’m a university sophomore (19 going on 20 in May, so no bars and I don’t plan to get a fake lmao) who’s just starting to grow more confident in themselves. I absolutely despise dating apps (due to some really bad...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does it usually take liquid courage for a girl to approach a guy?

I usually always get approached at the bar if I go (which isn't often) and if I do get approached it's usually if I'm by myself which probably means they saw me hanging out with someone and catch me on my way to the...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Girls, Why does a girl act quiet towards me, but then eventually approaches me with small talk?

I feel like she hates me, but then she comes up to me and starts small random talk with me. For example, I was at a bar and she comes up next to me and and asks me " what are you drinking?" I thought she didn't like me

andre-48

Xper 7 Age: 32