I’m 18. Haven’t gone out a lot and if I do it’s mostly bars and never clubs. I would say I’m attractive but I have confidence and self-esteem issues as well as being shy so that could be a factor, but at the same time I feel like all girls gets approached and flirted with expect for me. Yesterday for example, me and my friend were out at the bar when three guys asked if they could sit by us (there were not many other places to sit), they started talking to us a little and we talked back but I didn’t feel any flirty vibe. We did a little drinking game but it was so weird because they just explained the rules as they went and then they just left😂 Because of this I feel so ugly and unattractive that no man ever wants to pursue me in any way, I know I can be shy and maybe awkward sometimes but I still feel like if I were worthy I would be seen by men. Am I just that ugly and unworthy?
Why do I never get approached?
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You are overthinking your situation, first, women getting confronted isn't as common as movies make it seem but you are 18, you are young, you aren't even giving it a chance, you already had a confrontation with guys, there's women older than me that are very beautiful that haven't even had this type of experience yet, you already bashing yourself for it, yes being shy isn't necessarily seen as a beneficial trait but it doesn't matter as much as you think, you'll be alright just don't get ahead of yourself and don't give up so easily, I doubt you'll be forever alone lol