Do you think I’ll ever find someone?

[Anonymous]

I’m a shy guy, but quite a good looking guy. And I guess I am picky when it comes to women. I have to at least be attracted to them first, and most of the girls that approach me are not my type. Anyways, I’m tired of being single. I’ve been single for a long time, and I just want to meet my other half. I hate that I’m like always the one by myself when my friends have girlfriends. And I don’t want to use dating apps, but maybe I should because it’s impossible to meet women that I have in common with. I meet girls at bars too, but they aren’t worth dating. They all have problems (or at least all the ones I met so far). And I’m not gonna date a girl at the bar who sleeps with every guy there. I want a girl with good morals at least. I feel like there’s no good women anymore or anywhere.

[Oliverlogan263]

Don't sweat it too much bro, you'll find someone for sure. You're still young, so no need to feel like time's running out or anything.

It definitely sounds like using apps might help your case though. Bars can be hit or miss and it's a lot harder to get a sense of someone there vs having actual convos online.

Just be picky about who you swipe too man. With enough matches, you'll find someone with the looks and morals and interests you want. And don't be afraid to message first if you see a gal who really catches your eye. What've you got to lose?

Also try joining some clubs or rec sports teams. Good way to meet new folks outside your regular circles. Don't go in expecting to find a girl, just focus on having fun and letting connections happen naturally.

Keep holding out for that spark too, no sense forcing anything that ain't there. The right one will come along for you bro, stay positive! In the meantime maybe work on putting yourself out there a bit more socially. You never know who you'll run into. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Focus on overcoming your shyness.