Will I ever meet somebody?

[brownsugar36]

I have tried dating sites and I don't go out much but I want to be in a relationship

[Truthbewithyou]

You will.
But who you are now is who will attract. Meaning, if you're down on yourself, you will attract someone who is also down on themselves. The key is to become happy while your by yourself so someone else is just an addition to your happiness. Any one who looks for love will always find it in the wrong places. But becomes happy and you will attract more happiness like love.

[Anonymous]

That depends on you. The more accepting you are and the more visible you make yourself the higher that likelihood it'll happen.
Also I get tradition is for men to approach guys. But the more you buck that trend and go on the offense the more your odds will increase. Yes that means you might get rejected sometimes. But if you're unwilling to risk that then you're not really serious about meeting anyone.

[Berethor]

Are you good looking?

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreStrongWomenArePretty

[Anonymous]

Dating sites are garbage, but I have an alternative if you're interested.

[brownsugar36]

Yes I am

[Opinion Owner]

meetup. com

You join for free. You then look through the groups and choose the groups you might like. Once in the group, they will post the activities they will be doing. If you want to participate in that activity, you let them know.

It could be:
hiking
walking
art exhibits
wine tasting
antiques
dancing
dinners
and the list goes on.

My advice is to ONLY join groups with a lot of members. Don't join a sewing group with three members in it.
Join a group with 500 members in it.

The most popular groups are groups that involve dancing, parties, & dinners.

But at some point you're going to have to leave your keyboard, and I know how tough that can be.
I've done it many times and had fun.

Sure, this all starts online, but you will be out in the real world the next day if you want to be. And guys and girls will talk to you and mingle.

And I have a great tip for you...

Once you commit to an event, you can message anyone in your group. Just do it. Tell them you are knew and looking for pointers. Tell them you are excited to go to your first event.

I did this, and a guy asked me to be his date for the event, and we went together. It was awesome.

Good luck.

[brownsugar36]

Thank you for telling me

[Opinion Owner]

Make us all proud, sister. I know how hard it is to get out there, and the last two years have really sucked. But things are back to normal and spring has sprung. Even if you're nervous about this, just signup and look at the groups. Joining a group doesn't obligate you to do anything. But members will see that you joined, and some might welcome you to the group. That's where it all starts.
Even if you want to wait a few months to go to an event, you can still make friends with in your various groups. And ask for advice. People love to give advice. lol

[TheBootyChest]

I don't go out much either but I do want to be in a relationship too.

[Mahmoud_Madyan]

The dating sites are sucks... try to date one of your single mates in work, your single neighbours, go to club and look for a single man looking for relationship like you, or even if you going to gym try to date someone there

[dudeinohio]

Dating sites do work. You just have to be patient and persistent.

[Iron_Man]

You will