Last night my boyfriend called me stupid and a dumb blonde in an argument?

[Anonymous]

We were both discussing an experience we had at a club together. I brought him because I know how weird guys are at the bar and one guy approached me from behind and kept touching me so I swatted him away and kissed my boyfriend in front of him. The next thing happened when I was on the way to the bathroom and I was waiting and a guy and a girl were in front of me beginning to start up a chat and the guy moved in closer to repeat what he has said and not a second later went by where my boyfriend zoomed in to kiss me which I thought was nice. But now he is accusing me that if he hadn't shown up when he did I would have let him take it further. I know I was drinking that night and he told me that I told him that the guy touched my hand and I swatted it away but he's still bothered by that whole interaction. This happened 2 weeks ago and just now he brings it up. I initially was confused by him talking about one guy when there was two and I also got confused when he asked what would have happened if he "sat this one out" because initially I thought it was stay at home/ not go dancing/ not intervene with the guy. Am I dumb?

[SueShe]

Even if he was also intoxicated, it is a clear indication what he thinks of you because when one is intoxicated, one has none or much less inhibitions to speak the truth.

Knowing that fact, I wonder if you should really be with that guy because, let's be honest, he does not really have a big consideration for you. To him, you are indeed a dumb blonde and you are probably just good for one thing.

I would never let this sit on me and I would have reacted the second this comment crossed his lips.

It is an insult yet you don't seem to want to acknowledge it, regardless whether you or him were intoxicated.

[Guy13]

Yeah, sometimes when we fight and lose our head we say thing we regret and this may be one. I would expect it sound more like this though... You F'in dumb blonde C... Maybe you rephrased to rated G.

[OlderAndWiser]

In the heat of the moment, people forget to filter their speech and what they say os a good indication of what they truly think.

[strlb]

Well.. you know the saying when truth syrup is consumed. Perhaps he truly meant it. If you're OK with accepting that behavior be prepared for more and likely worse to be said

[Anonymous]

Tell him
Yes I'm dumb. Now you know why I'm your girlfriend?

[In_Trance]

dump him