What should I know about white American women at the bar? How should a man approach them? What can I ask them? And why do they mostly dress revealing?

[WhiteBoyChill]

So I went to the bar today with a friend. This was my third time going. I turned 21 two months ago.

He wanted to take psychedelic mushrooms before we left so I was designated driver.

But when we were there I really didn’t want to get too far ahead of myself talking to other people so I kept him closeby. I wasn’t sure if he was gonna eventually need my help or something and it was a crowded space.

Anyway I was completely sober unlike the other two previous times I’d been there when I had a couple of beers.

So instead of spacing out I was really thinking about stuff, having a look around and taking it all in.

It was a crowded venue. The entire floor was covered with people. Lots of cute girls. Some were with guys but others were just with other girls. I glanced around but I didn’t stare at people, mostly just kept my eyes on the TV.

I was leaning against the wall but things got to a point where some girls came over with drinks and they were slowly backing into me as the floor got more crowded and their bodies started rubbing against me. Next thing I know I felt some girls butt up against my penis

So I decided to just move out of the way in case there was any trouble but I did accidentally touch some girls ass when I went to move my hand.

No issue though, thankfully.

Either way I’m still surprised they didn’t even seem receptive when they were moving into me.

It didn’t seem intentional, but still, they didn’t seem to care that I was getting sandwhiched behind them.

But next thing I know a few minutes later some new girl walks into the bar, smiles at me, and hands me a glowstick.

Then turns her attention away. I wasn’t sure what that was about. Any ideas?

Either way I just noticed a lot of cute girls that I actually kinda wanted to kiss.

So I was kinda wondering if I should ask them to kiss. Or just try starting a conversation with a “hey how are ya” kinda thing?

I mean I kinda figure asking a girl to kiss would be a pretty normal thing at a bar but IRDK.

[chrissykerdock]

guys work up to it asking for sex or more like a blowjob is the act of choice... yes i wear a short dress and go to a bar... i have done that in 3-4 years... but a guy would approach buy you drinks... and make out with you... not always... but they don't ask but you know it's coming... then he may caress your thighs and drop do you give head or just ask for a blowjob... which is fine for me.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol but I’m very new to this so how should I approach the girls I like?

[chrissykerdock]

just go up to them and say hello take it from there... keep the conversation light and fun... don't touch them or ask for sexual things right away... see how it goes from there... buy them a drink once it seems it's friendly.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Thank you! 😊 I can make that work.

[Gummy_Cluster]

You tell her (them) a joke I'll tell you the joke if you're brave enough to ask.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ok sure tell me lol

[Gummy_Cluster]

This happened to my friend I worked with, and it was totally off the cuff.

Girl: Why do you look so sad?
Joe: I don't want to talk about it.
Girl: I want to help.
Joe: I lost my first patient today.
Girl: What?
Joe: I'm a brain surgeon.
(now Joe has three girls smiling, and glued to him)
Girl: What happened.
Joe: There are strict rules about drinking before surgery.
Girl: You were drinking?
Joe: All of us were drinking in the OR. And we were listening to heavy metal music.
(Now all three girls were laughing)
Girl: Why were you drinking.
Joe: Because it was an easy surgery.
Girl: What was the surgery?
Joe: Sven was from Sweden, and he wanted to be Norwegian.
Girl: There's surgery for that?
Joe: Yes, you just need to remove one third of their brain.
Girl: What happened.
Joe: The girls were dancing, and showing cleavage, so I accidentally cut his brain in half.
(now the girls are about peeing their pants laughing)
Girl: Was he OK?
Joe: Yes, but now he is Canadian. I hope none of you are from...
Girl: Nanaimo Canada?
Joe: Oh, shit...

(all three girls were Canadian, and the prettiest one rocked Joe's world that night)

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s really weird tho. I don't know why that would be considered funny by anyone. Male or female

[Gummy_Cluster]

He got laid, and you're on GAG.

[WhiteBoyChill]

So it was a joke. Nobody’s brain actually got lobbed off?

[IamJUSTaSIMPLEguy]

yes it was a joke. Not a great one when you're sober but not bad when you're drunk or high. Jokes can be good if you know any.

[Exterminatore]

The dress revealingly to attract the attention of men, and because they have little self respect and they typically engage in whoredom, hence the proper uniform.


Find a girl at church, not the bar.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I know this is gonna sound really weird but they actually seem more approachable than the girls at church.

And to be fair one of my friends still has parents that have been married for over 20 years, and they met eachother at a bar.

[Exterminatore]

I’m not saying it can’t work, I think you’d have better luck for a girl for a relationship else where.

When I was your age I was a major league man whore. Bar flies and party girls were good for only one thing as I saw it. That’s not to say all girls who go to bars are sluts, but the ones who dress like hookers and pound shots left and right typically are. That was my experience. And they were easy to get.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m still a Christian man but is it a sin to kiss a girl on the cheek?

[Exterminatore]

I don’t think it is.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah. That’s all I really find myself wanting to do.

[Exterminatore]

Come now, you have no desire for sex? Surly you do, you’d have no interest in girls if there was no desire for that at some point in the future.

I’m not saying you will do that, but I am saying you’ll have no trouble finding it in a bar, why not just have a drink at home?

[Exterminatore]

I only say these things to you because I have nearly 46 years of life lived. I was young once, long ago lol. I’ve made many a mistake, and don’t want you to make the ones I’ve made.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I have very limited desire for sex. And when I’m around people I tend to think with my brain and not my other organ

[WhiteBoyChill]

It won’t really be a problem for me

[Exterminatore]

Ok brother, just be cautious.

[gorydetails]

If your opening line is “hey can we kiss” you’re fucked, lol.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ya but aren’t there plenty of guys that ask for sex at bars?

[gorydetails]

Give it a shot, then.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don't know. It kinda makes me nervous that you seemed to change your mind so quick. Makes me think you haven’t actually been around the block

[gorydetails]

Lmao

[ChefPapiChulo]

“Either way I just noticed a lot of cute girls that I actually kinda wanted to kiss.”

LOL

[ChefPapiChulo]

You are so fucking weird but I’m not surprised at all.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Cool.

[Wise4myage]

Approach them like you would any other type of girl.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh lol. I just didn’t know if maybe they were easier or something

[cutebunnn]

Wait what do you mean by "white American women"?

[WhiteBoyChill]

People vary between cultures. That’s all I’m trying to say