But I found American White women to be completely different from this just from many casual encounter with them. Now I’m familiar with the stereotype that American women are just more difficult.
There this American White girl that acted like she was interested on first encounter and we talked a bit and she been always staring at me like she likes me or something whenever she saw me. I think she been really into me Because I kinda gave up on her Because it felt like too much hassle to be into her Because it been hard for us to talk. And she reacted by acting sad and all.
Then she tried to show me she was really interested by going out of her way to chat with me. So I was like, “OK, I’ll keep this interest going.” But the lame thing was I arranged to talk privately with her when I need her help on certain things Because it was her job. But she never chit-chatted with me, nothing, just plain conversation like she’s not interested. (This is different from European girls, Because I been with ones that liked me and they knew how to push all the right buttons.) If she had been like, “hey how ya doing, how was your weekend……” If it were things like that, it would’ve been easier for me to ask her out for coffee or something. This kind of chit-chats that European girl been doing with me worked great for them.
I gave her several opportunities to show me some signs she was interested in private, but nothing. Then she still been acting like she wanted me by staring at me whenever she saw me. I don’t know what up with this girl, whether she’s dense or nervous or something? I been considering just giving up on her completely Because this had just been a hassle.
I just have a bad vibe about this. What the hell’s wrong with this girl? Do American girls just expect the guys to do everything even when they are interested? This feels like she could be more demanding than what I’m comfortable with. I mean I been good with European girls, why the hell should I downgrade to something more troublesome? It doesn’t really make sense. Sorry if this sound politically incorrect, but is this a sign of how difficult American women are?
When girls act genuine and friendly and be feminine , guy can’t help but like you? Why the hell do you think European girl are so damn popular with a good rep? Mind games and fakeness and unreasonable attitude would only make the guy hate you, not want you more. I have some small amount of experiences with girls who played mind games and I didn’t like them one bit. But American girls seemed like they haven’t been getting it. What’s up with this?
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First you're judging by one weird/shy girl with obvious social anxiety problems with a bunch of social butterflies who happen to be Europeans. That's not entirely fair.
Second, I don't think American women are entitled (I'm not American) but I /do/ think Europe in general has a much more lax view of sexuality, and especially the role of women in sexuality.
The age of consent there is 16 in most places, down to 14 in some. I know French girls who had their boyfriends sleep over at their house when they were 15, bringing him to breakfast the next day to meet their parents over scrambled eggs.
They have a French Awareness AIDs commercials of a cartoon gay boy exploring the gay world trying to find the love of his life, while riding penis-shaped roller coasters (NSFW) link
You try airing that in the States. (Btw its the cutest cartoon ever, I get teary-eyed every time.)
Nudity is openly accepted for all body types (especially those who are 50+), the topic of sex is never taboo, hell just watch their films - everything from incest to male rape is expressed freely without thought of pedophilia, 'rottening the minds of the youth' or screams by conservative freaks who are more interested in what you do with your body than what is happening with theirs. And if they are screaming it is not loud enough to actually affect things.
They are just much more frank and open about it so they are capable of taking it astride. There is no shame there, not like in the States and in some other countries where a woman is still called a slut for sleeping with more than 4 men, or a whore for expressing her sexuality in any open way.
To further prove my point, here is the same ad by the same guy doing it from a women's perspective. Showing how a woman tries to find love and sexual fulfillment while trying to do it via safe sex.
There research that saids Ameircan women have been difficult and called for change. If you don't trust me, at least look at research. It saids American women rejects biological instincts and behavior. Europe also has been known to have better social connectedness, why do you think there a sharp spike in the rise of loneliness in America?
America got some serious social health problem! I'm not gonna get caught up in this wave of destruction, I tell you that!
Where's this research?