Search Results: ex boyfriend is hanging out with his ex

Am I right for wanting to end my engagement/relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She told me about it and I told her I could forgive her for it if she stopped talking to him and let him go. Our relationship was great after that and we were both very happy, we got then got engaged after dating for about 2.5 years Anyways about 5 months ago I saw a notification pop up on her phone and it was from him. Turns out that they had been talking daily for who knows how long. We got into a big fight at the time and I told her that I did not want him hanging out in the background of our relationship and she agreed. Then a couple months later I heard his voice on a Snapchat message she was listening to and that turned into another fight, insisted to me that their relationship is just platonic and she’s not trying to get with them. She said she can’t go without talking to him and didn’t see what the problem was as long as they weren’t hanging out. I was not happy about it but agreed that as long as they weren’t hanging out I was ok with it. These last two months have been increasingly hard for us and I feel that there is always tension between us. Intimacy between us has pretty much become non existent. Multiple times the subject of her ex boyfriend has been brought up and caused us to fight. I don’t know that I can marry her knowing that he is still in the picture. Anytime I try to talk with her about working on our relationship she completo shuts down and gives me very little input. I’ve tried so hard to be ok with it but the reality of the situation is that I’m not because I feel that she is still emotionally invested in him and holding out giving emotion to me in our relationship. I just can’t rationally understand why she would want to maintain 24/7 contact with him texting and snap chatting every day when we are supposed to be getting married.

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Guy's Behavior

Is it wrong to see two guys at once?

I’m talking to two guys both at once. My ex and this new guy I met. Both of the guys found out that I’m talking to both of them and can’t stand it. My ex does not want to be together anymore. We were together for a year...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Am I being paranoid or insecure if im jealous that my boyfriend has been hanging out with his ex-crush?

Backstory: I work with both my boyfriend and his ex-crush (she works in a different area) and before me and my boyfriend got together he had mentioned that he likes her, he liked her for a while. After a while we started...

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Xper 2 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

Did I do or say something wrong to him?

My ex boyfriend from a couple of years ago texted me. He said he was wondering how I was and that he was single. He wanted to meet up. I agreed to see him. We went out, spent a couple of weeks talking and hanging out....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can't stop thinking about a guy I don't even know?

This summer me and this guy I really liked before starting talking again. We never got the chance to date before cos of college, but he hit me back up again this summer. But he is younger than me and still in college, so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex was sexually abusive?

Just FYI I’m a virgin, but had phone sex with my ex. He was very pushy, coercive, manipulative, controlling etc and truth be told, I was depressed when we began dating, insecure and had weak boundaries. My ex was into all...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did my ex boyfriend kiss me?

I known this guy since freshman year and I was/still friends with him till this day over the last few years of knowing him I always knew he had a crush on me since freshman year (he made it obvious) and during quarantine...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

I’m too scared and have no confidence to date again - how can I get over this fear?

I might sound crazy but here we go… I haven’t had the best of luck with relationships in the past and since my ex boyfriend I’ve remained single for the last 5 years. I just turned 30 and the thought of dating someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guy asked me to be his girlfriend after 2 weeks but doesn't plan dates?

I told a guy he was cute and asked if he wanted to be friends first. He said I was cute as well and said yes. We became friends and we talked about relationships. He got out of a 2 year relationship 7 months ago...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I have crazy stalker ex and it cause my last relationship to end?

So I broke up with my ex and he keep showing up to my place of work and where he know I was staying at, I’ve told him many times that I don’t want to be with him and I don’t want him in my life. So months past and I’m...

Redhead-_-

Xper 3 Age: 25

Other

After being clean and sober for some time, what made you want to go back to smoking and drinking?

Awhile back (months ago) when I met my long distance boyfriend. I decided to become clean from smoking, cause of his culture and family beliefs. That I wanted to change myself for him and become healthy, so we could have...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Girl's Behavior

Will a guys long time friend who is a girl get jealous over a new girlfriend?

My boyfriend and his friend have been friends for 25 years roughly. She is a big girl with a burly bitchy attitude. I am not overly fond of her but have never expressed so. In the beginning when we were beginning to date...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I have to hangout with my bfs friends who are mutual friends with his ex wife?

My new boyfriend of six months has close friends who he met through his now ex wife of four years. Seeing how they were all really close and the ex wife is best friends with them I feel weird hanging around them. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How do I deal with an introvert boyfriend who likes a lot of alone time?

My boyfriend likes a lot of alone time, doesn’t show much affection to me (just a bit) and doesn’t often like to hang out, or hang out for long periods of time. He’ll cut it short. He’s a nice, respectful guy. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Can anyone explain this I am so confused?

I had a 9 month relationship with my ex.. and after we broke up the communication was totally off altho we used to be friends before dating.. i moved on an within 3 months exactly i met this new guy we started hanging out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My boyfriend will not stop being friends with his ex?

I mean he hadn’t talked to her in 2 years and she came out of the blue texting him saying she was sorry. I mean I told him I was uncomfortable with the fact he was friends with her and he said there wasn’t anything he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Help me understand his feelings?

I have this shy guy friend. Nowadays we live far away due to studies. We text occationally and he has said that he misses me, that we should hang out more and once he sent a . Those are very rare things coming from him....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think my Ex and I can go back to being just friends?

We childhood friends and our families are very good friends. We always had this connection and flirted but we were just friends. When we got together he had just broken up with his girlfriend of 4 years (he was trying to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he hate me when he broke up with me?

My ex is acting crazy. He (38) dumped me (29) over a week ago. Since then I haven’t begged or pleaded. I stopped doing things for him. We unfortunately still live together. He has been getting me coffee every morning and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I feel bad that my boyfriend had to cut off a hot colleague he made out with in the past? They don’t work together in the same department?

We had been dating for 2 years and we live together. We haven’t discussed about what we were comfortable with and what not until now. We were talking about something and this came up. This all happened before we met....

Anonymous

(36-45)

We had been dating for 2 years and we live together. We haven’t discussed about what we were comfortable with and what not until now. We were talking about something and this came up.

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