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According to an article written by Katya Koval, several men stated that they no longer approach women due to the following:

“Women want to be approached. But if you approach them and they don’t like you or think you’re attractive enough, you will be called a creep.” — Jake.

Roberto, 42 years old and single, was asked why he didn’t dare approach women. He replied, “I have never gotten a clear signal from a woman. My female friends have pointed out positive body language as signals, but they are too ambiguous for me to act on.”

Kane, 35 years old and single, shares, “I don’t approach women anymore because it’s too tedious with little chance of payoff. It’s either they ignore you, reject you, shame you, or, worse, accuse you of molestation. If a woman likes me, she should make an effort to approach me.”

Mel, 29 years old, shares, “Women demanding men to chase them while they never approach men themselves is what you could call ‘entitlement.’ I don’t mean that women should start asking men out, but just approaching us to talk would be nice. For women who want equality: If he doesn’t approach you, approach him.”

Evi, 23 years old, claims “It’s easier to get women and land a date online than cold approaching them. I’m currently in College and our campus consists of 80% women. It’s not necessary to approach women anymore.”

Nathan, 22 years old, admits, “It’s mainly the negative consequences that’s stopping me. It’s scary when you hear stories about guys and fake accusations on campus. I worked hard to get into College. I’m not going to risk getting expelled for something I didn’t do.”

katya-koval.medium.com/why-men-dont-approach-women-anymore-159975861c08

I dont cry ever in front of anyone. i've only done that once since i was like 10 and it was because i couldnt contain myself. I downplay any emotion i have to others and i dont admit it when i'm scared or hurt by something. I also have a problem with affection and stuff like that. like i feel weak and embarrassed at times, wether it's with family or guys. i call my family gay a lot when they are too lovey dovey.

I like you a lot, and he gets annoyed when im unavailable or not calling, giving compliments and all that, i dint care much but i dont like it when people lie- he is on hinge and i found out and screamed at him called him a liar, and that he had me fooled and he tried to explain but i was furious so he ghosted and then later when i said its fine if you dont wanna talk- he said he will when “he is ready to”- why are men so fickle? Just few days before- he was all lovey dovey- whats wrong with men seriously?