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"We don't have money". I first heard that when I was 9 years old. I couldn't have candy or pepsi cola or juice or something to eat at school.

This grew into a bigger problem over time. I had less clothes to wear by the age of 12. I walked with holes in shoes and one time the shoes were even openly exposing my feet and I walked like that to school in Germany. Got bullied and mobbed.

I brought this up several times to my parents and I felt either ignored, dismissed or attacked (they were toxic and abusive). I picked up on that pattern of outcome and that it's pointless to ask for new clothes, shoes and food for lunch. So I stopped asking and could do nothing but let life proceed and focus on fast forwarding my life until I could make my own money while feeling like I was set on fire from poverty. I was 15 years old when I stopped asking. I considered getting money and essentials is on me and no one else (duh!).

It also got me thinking on a secondary question. If i were to go on a date with a girl and she asks about my childhood and I say it like it is, would that send her running away from me?

I have been dating a girl for 2 months, and she asked these questions I thought they were weird, but I thought I would get a second opinion. First thing a little history I am a physician, and obviously in a mountain of debt. I have not really dated since I started medical school, and do not know if these are appropriate questions as you got older.

First, She asked how much money I made, and how much debt I was in by the 3-5th date.

Second, She asked if we had a mentally challenged child (Trisomy 21/Downs Syndrome) would I be okay with giving it up for adoption.

Thirds, she said a main concern for her is the amount of debt I was in. I didn't tell her exact amounts, but did give ballpark estimates (north of 200k).

Are these normal questions? They seem like a person who isn't a nice person. Am I right?