Are these concerning signs?

[Anonymous]

I have been going on date with a women since late September. I am an Emergency medicine physician, and the girl I am dating has asked questions that I find somewhat strange, or I have never heard someone ask these before. She asked how much debt I am in after medical school. A colleague said it was none of her business. She also asked how much money I make. She said she wants a 10,000$ ring if we did decide to get married.

However, another concerning statement was she wanted to know if we had a child with downs syndrome if we would keep the child, or place it for adoption. She wanted to know which house I wanted when we went for a walk by her house, too.

Are these normal questions? Should I be alarmed?

[petitedollbabee]

I would be very cautious if I were you. Her asking questions about your debt, asking how much money you make, saying that she’d want a 10K ring if you two got married, and asking what house you’d want when you walked near her house, that sort of behaviour yells ‘gold digger’. But in regards to the down syndrome child question, that’s very strange - does down syndrome run in her family? Why else would she bring that up? Down syndrome is still a rare occurrence in pregnancy unless it runs through yours or her family.

[Worrying]

I will dump her already as soon as she mentions the $10000 ring. And I hate people who asks how much I make. If I want to tell, I will tell herself.

And why does she suddenly ask about down syndrome? Is her age not ideal for child bearing?

So many red flags.

[Worrying]

will tell her myself*

[Tim2nice]

She’s a gold digger. Stay away from her.