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Search Results: was i too nice
Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?
At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?
I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Does my long distance guy friend secretly like me back?
I’m not sure if he likes me back, recently me and my friend came up with this theory that he likes me because he’s always calling and wanting to play with me and he’s a bit nicer to me than he is my friend (we’re in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should I wear on this hopeful first date in cool Aussie weather?
I was meeting all losers on dating apps, so I closed them all. Then I tried a Christian dating app. As I am an Anglican Christian, but not very strict. I got hit on by a Catholic Christian. He seems like me, not too...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Do people actually chase you more when you stop being so nice?
I have this sensitive and sweet side of mine and I do attract people easily but I feel like things don’t deepen much when I am showing that side. On the other hand, I have kind of feisty and blunt and detached and...
Did he see it as a date or just hanging out, and why the sudden rejection?
Im F/27 and he’s M/31 We knew each other casually about the 12 years ago and have run into each other maybe 1-3 times over the years through social gatherings of mutual friends. He moved to another state. We never talked...
KatieMarie072019
Xper 1 Age: 27 Pregnant and feeling iced out by my sisters’ pregnancy news—how do I handle this?
I don't know if this is starting to get really petty now but basically im 6 months pregnant and I've been having the feeling my oldest stister whose been trying for a year to get pregnant is actually pregnant. I've...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Have other pregnant women had vivid dreams that came true like this?
So yesterday my mum accidently let it drop but big sister is 10 weeks pregnant. Im 27 weeks pregnant myself and had a dream but my stister was pregnant over a month ago. I was visiting her in hospital and her and her...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 How can I reject a man politely while making my no feel final?
I’m trying to understand how to handle this better. I’ve posted of this situation last week, where I told a guy I don’t see a connection to proceed with the 2nd date but he still persists. I went on a date with a guy — he...
What is the thing that broke dating for women?
I made a my take on here a while ago about "Men Go Their Own Way". Long story short im not with them. I love ladies. I want it work. Not just for me but like love and romance in general makes the world so much...
Lost_in_the_Woods
Xper 7 Age: 29 What should I wear to a church group in autumn to look nice?
I’m going to attend it in 2 months’ time, in Autumn, as the weather gets cold. I want to look nice when I meet people my own age there and knowing there might be some men there, too.
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why did I feel so heartbroken when this trip now makes me so happy?
My trip has just started, ai haven’t checked in my hotel yet, check in starts in 5 minutes. Have been sitting here by this lake for over an hour and have been loving it. Feeling present, meditative, lucky, grateful and...
If humans evolved so much, why can’t we get rid of discrimination?
I have come to terms with that we have so much discrimination in our society that a lot of it has been normalised. But things are changing at a crazy rate, the rich do still discriminate against the poor but not...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why can men impose beauty standards on women but not vice versa?
I kinda see this all the time. I know the reverse can happen too, but personally I met so many men both in real life and online that listed off things what makes a woman a woman, and if she does not tick the box, she is a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you noticed how most people take things at face value too much?
For example, if someone is genuinely nice to your face, most people believe that person that they don't know outside of work, etc. is a nice person as a whole. Just because someone is genuinely nice to you doesn't mean...
Steven80000
Xper 5 Age: 34 How can I stand up for myself at an autistic social group with my ex there?
I’m attending an Autistic social group in a few nights’ time. There will be lots of people who matter to me attending. One who is a man who tried to use me for attention and freebies, with whom I cut contact last month,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Is my mother being protective or controlling about this guy’s number?
My mother is gate keeping the number of a guy we met at a restaurant… he was very nice and attentive. I thought he was cute but thought nothing about it.. me and him did hold conversation and my mom asked him for his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I text the waiter who gave me his number, or is that too awkward?
Should I reach out to him or do you feel it’s awkward and not appropriate? Yesterday my mom was in town and we went out to a nice restaurant and our waiter was a nice guy who looks like he’s a tad younger than me but we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do teenagers always have to be so insufferable?
I see it over and over again. Just a basic social interaction turns into a gossip session with the girls, and hostile disrespect with the boys. I wonder to myself, " was I really THAT much of a disrespectful shithead when...
Kingofkings1992
Guru Age: 34 Why do my friends insist there’s a romantic spark with my longtime guy friend?
My friends know that my guy friend (let’s call him Eddie) and I have been very close since we were seven. After the childhood/middle and high school stories, some are surprised that we never hooked up or dated. My best...
Anonymous
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