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I am not seeking validation otherwise, I would have posted a selfie and asked if you thought I was attractive. The truth is that I am not butt ugly and some girls will call me "okay" while others will say they have no attraction to me whatsoever. The reason I still can get girls is because I am okay looking, and some will settle for me. The thing is I am not a 6/10 or above. I am at best, a 5/10, on my best hair day.

The truth is that I persisted anyway, and I tried dating, regardless with optimism. I was cheated on, hit physically and ended up comparing myself with guys that I was left for. Yes, the girls I dated would leave me for other guys all the time. I remember the first time it happened, I cried, and I asked her, "is it because he is more attractive than me?" The girl told me, "Oh, stop. I am not answering that question." I still managed to regain confidence every time, but the same thing always happened. One girl told me, "It is like cars. I won't wash or take care of an ugly car." Because she broke up with me and took the new handsome guy camping with her own money. I asked her why she was treating him so much better than me and she responded with that car comparison. I also do not have a boring personality. I am fun, pretty smart and have a successful path laid out.

It has just been really rough, and I am at the point of just giving up. Maybe it is the girls I am dating? I will mention that I have only ever dated above my league so maybe I should date down instead?

Let's see how good the people of GAG are. Here's a list of simple questions any morally decent person can do. How many of them do you pass?

1. Do you try to be a good person daily and help others in any small way you can?

2. Do you usually treat others, especially strangers, with respect (until they give you a reason not to)?

3. Do you try to understand other people's point of view at times, especially when you disagree with them? (Empathy)

4. Are you the type to stand up for essential freedom and speak out against evil, tyranny, and oppression of others, regardless which side of politics it comes from?

5. Do you positively contribute to society in any meaningful way? (Teacher, doctor, lawyer, nurse, assistant, donor to charity, etc.)

6. Are you a person with a clean lifestyle? (No smoking, vaping, drug abuse including marijuana, alcohol, gambling, etc.)

7. Are you a sexually clean person? (No promiscuity, no sleeping around, no STD's, no degeneracy like an al sex, rim jobs, etc)

8. Are you a decent partner or potential partner to others? (No hitting, no abuse, no insulting)

9. Are you monogamous and loyal to your partner or would-be partner? (No cheating, no disrespect)

10. Are you against the death or killing of others? (Whether that be by "Constitutionally-protected" firearms or pre-childbirth; I'm not getting into the political argument crap)

Note: Being religious or heterosexual/non-queer is not required to be a good person, but it may sometimes help, depending on the circumstance.

Let's just arbitrarily say, you need 7 or 8 of these to pass as a good, decent human being.
So... ARE YOU A GOOD PERSON OR NOT? (I'm option B, for what it's worth.)

And yes, I left anonymous opinions on, even though I know that's how all the trolls and jerks on GAG only ever respond. I guess I'm opening it for the good people, even if some cockroaches also slip in through the door.