So I’ll try to keep it brief. So 3 years ago me and my ex girlfriend hooked up and had a child. At the time my ex lives with her parents while working as a cashier. I did what I thought was the best thing which was moved her into my apartment to help her with the pregnancy. I never made her pay anything more than groceries. During this time I made a lot of mistakes as far as cheating that I’m not proud of. There’s no excuse but I wasn’t in a relationship for the right reasons. Fast forward to present day. I’ve purchased a home that we all live in. The relationship has improved a lot. I’ve made strides to do the best I could to give us a fighting chance but it still isn’t the best. We have arguments and I feel that if I hadn’t had a child I wouldn't be with my girlfriend. The simple answer is to call it quits but I love being a dad. I also don’t feel my girlfriend can provide as good as I can. I’m afraid If we broke up my kid would be living with my girlfriend and her parents which sucks because I have a house for our kid. I’m in a bind because I’m at the point where I either want to commit long term (marriage) or end this. She wants to get married and have another child. I’m still debating if I want this long term. My girlfriend isn’t a bad person were just 2 different people at this point and as I grow older it become more apparent. Any suggestions or opinions would be great. Thanks
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