Did she cheat on me?

[Anonymous]

A few months ago I moved in with my ex. It was a really weird situation cause we were living like a couple, doing things that couples do but never really got back together officially, she made a point out of that. I’m very persistent and I really pushed for us moving in together for a while and I think she was confused and scared to end things so she finally accepted. I know it sounds crazy but she had her reasons to be so confused, we had a very bad relationship where I was abusive and lied to her multiple times about other women, after it ended we didn’t see each other for a year and then I courted her for another year without much success, she didn’t trust me and the things I did when the relationship ended weren’t so great either, so it just got worse. She got really tired of my lies and would threaten me saying she would do the same thing to me and mess with another guy, I didn’t really believe her cause she’s not that kind of girl but after another incident when she got really suspicious about something I did, she went out partying with her friends and made out with a random guy. Did she cheat on me? I couldn’t believe that she actually did it and it honestly broke my heart. She says we didn’t get back together so she didn’t cheat on me.

[Gent207-2]

Thank you for your honesty

But Dude you're a prece of shit human for forcing your way into your ex's life. I don't care if she said yes, she probably said it because you've gaslighted her into believing that getting back with you would somehow make-up for all the shifty things that you did, but ultimately she blames herself for your shity behavior.

I hope she runs to the fucking hills and finds a real man that treats her right, and will curb stomp your ass if you ever came near or even talked to her ever again.

If you got any sense of decency left in you, you will move out immediately and never speak to this woman ever again!

No I don't care if she did you wrong nor do I care if she nagged your ass for doing the dishes. You are the piece of shit human that laid hands on her.

Seriously LET HER GO

[Jacobbbb]

Well the way I see it is you sorta forced your way into getting back with her or that's what you were trying to do anyway, and she clearly wasn't with that. I'm not gonna call it cheating either cause she never really got back together with you. Just move on and forget about her

[Avicenna]

Probably- it's so easy for a woman to cheat if she wants to. I don't think this helps you move on, though, and that's what you really need to do after making sure you understand what you need to avoid doing in the future.

[Twalli]

If your relationship was over, she didn't cheat. It doesn't matter if you still wanted her or not.

[Iron_Man]

Ask her face-to-face

[JohnK123]

Dump her publicly