Kind of complex, me and my girlfriend have been dating for years now.
Through the first year she caught a curable STI. The way I found out was she texted me “ I just got back from the clinic, I tested positive for chlamydia go to the clinic and to go get medication for myself. “ and said I’m really sorry. I was upset cause obviously I never wanted one at work 6 hours in and had to leave early to make the clinic so I didn’t respond for like an hour or so and she hits me with “If your gonna leave me just do it now and get it over with” which had me fucked up.
My clinic suggested I get tested for everything and take the pills just in in case I had the STI of concern. It came back clean, which pointed heavily towards the fact that she cheated on me. I had no other proof other than the fact we had slept together somewhere between 50 and 100 times ( unprotected and most came from the first month or so ). I also found out she lied about the time she got tested for some reason ( she kept telling me different dates) She refused she did anything and that I was just crazy, angry, jealous and controlling and also she was pretty persistent in not getting dumped my me so decided to pretty much pretend that she wasn’t lying and go with it. I talked to my family, friends about it too and they like her and believe her and too give her a chance because they like her ( except for my one best friend who moved to another state ).
Anyways I got intoxicated with her recently and when she went to bed I snooped trough her phone and found a picture of her wearing revealing clothing, with a flirtatious smile, while pushing her breasts together and inviting the person over in the saved photo from Snapchat who wasn’t me and it was the same month she told me she had it. Now I regret taking that picture, I deleted it but I don’t know if I wanna be with her anymore. Should I tell her I know about it, should I ask her anything else about it and should I end it. This is cheating right?
