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Due to the stigma and full on assault of transpeople lately, a number of people just can't seem to help themselves but harass, or bully them. people just feel more and more emboldened now to treat them as less than human beings.

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/clinicians/transforming-health/health-care-providers/affirmative-care.html

Here's some stats for you. Trans people are often mistreated, harassed, even physically assaulted. And not to mention a number of them end up committing suicide thanks to all these issues piling up on them mainly. I'm not asking you to agree with who they want to be but can you at the very least agree that they should never be harassed for what they are going through?

As a man I don’t see what value we bring to a woman.

All women I meet are all independent. Quite feminist.

I don’t really see what value is added being a man nowadays

I’ve had zero success with women anyway. I think I have to die alone.

Women have so much value, their beauty, they can give life, be nurturing, earn a living for themselves. Being a man is shit, women can do more. Women can even make easier money from selling pics of their feet.

Are you the type to like to people please?

Here are some signs that you might be a people pleaser if you aren't sure:

Agreeing with whoever is in front of you. Many of us learn how to politely listen to others as part of our social skills. That can veer into people-pleasing behavior if you constantly agree with people because you want to earn their admiration and not because you believe what you’re saying.

Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. People pleasers often make themselves responsible for the emotional responses of others. If someone feels bad, you may blame yourself or fear that person thinks you’re the problem. It’s good to say you’re sorry if you’ve hurt someone, but there may be a deeper issue if you’re frequently apologizing for things you have no control over.

Not being able to say no. If you find it difficult to tell others no when they ask you for something, you may be a people pleaser. Many people pleasers prefer making up excuses later to get out of a commitment instead of saying no from the start. If you do follow through, you can regret not having the strength to stand up for yourself.

Changing your personality depending on who’s around you. People pleasers tend to shift their behavior and attitude to match that of the person or group. That can lead to you acting in ways that are out of character or participating in actions you disagree with just to fit in socially. People pleasers tend to do anything possible to avoid conflict, even if it means turning into an entirely different person.

Your worth depends on how others see you. People pleasers need validation from others to feel good about themselves. They can go to extremes to earn words of praise from others. The confidence of a people pleaser rises and falls based on how others perceive them.

Does any of this resonate with you? feels like things you do?

I really like all four of these as potential first female presidents.
Kamala Harris: she has a more strategic approach at the border. Instead of going to war with the cartels and making things worse, we help them stabilize themselves so they don’t have to even migrate in the first place.
AOC: I like her approach on education and environmental issues. She wants to address why crime happens instead of just throwing people into jails all the time.
Elizabeth Warren: “When government works only for the wealthy and the well-connected, that is corruption, plain and simple, and we need to call it out.” -Elizabeth Warren
Sarah Huckabee: I love how she is standing up for racism that is not talked about enough. She banned critical race theory because it was racially divisive and being used to target white student children. She also banned LatinX because that term is being used to bully Hispanic Americans.

I love all these.