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If you grew up with your father in the home, and if you had a good relationship with him, then he probably was the most important man in your life. . . for a period of years. But, at some point, his importance assumed a lower position and another man, most likely a man near your age, became the most important guy in your life. When did that happen? When you started getting a crush on boys? When you started dating? First kiss? When you became sexually active? When you agreed to have an exclusive relationship? When you got engaged? How did your father respond to his loss of status in your life?

I imagine a lot of us have seen it when a guy and a girl are best friends so I am curious do you get jealous of there best freind if you date them or have a crush on this one person and if so how do you go about dealing with that?

Do you like when a guy does the "traditional man thing" and pursues whoever catches his interest with fervor?

Do you like someone who leaves his crushes alone, or takes more subtle ways to put himself out there? This is typically more of the shy guy type.

As for me, I don't take risks and don't shoot my shot. Coincidentally, I also don't date a lot, but I've learned to be content without it since I'm not bold enough to make moves on strangers. The few times I did get to date, my exes made the first moves a lot. I'm also not a fan of tradition or hard gender roles, if that explains anything.