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Some people have “ribbing” yet teasing attitudes towards other people particularly of opposite gender and/or people they are interested in. It’s like teasing your crush to show confidence and/or get them to open up their more “real” side. It can also be about testing people by playing hard to get to see if they can “handle you”.

Women often do this to men to as quasi shit test to see if they are smart ass enough to deal with their sassiness. Men do this to women as a sign of confidence and/or to give off a slight asshole vibe because they know many girls like that.

But I noticed this is more common in some parts of the country (and world) than others. Los Ángeles and New York City are notorious for this.

Personally I never liked it. Unless the girl hits the absolute right teasing chemistry and I’m in the mood to banter it’s doesn’t get me turned on. Different if I’ve already known her for a bit and we are already well acquainted. But if I’m interested I am not looking to play faux asshole just to create a jibe to be more interesting. Rather have a real conversation with maybe some practical joking about other things besides each other.

But I think some men and women always start out with joking and slightly hard to get attitude when they like someone. It also their way of avoiding being boring at all costs.

So did men do this in response to what women want or vice versa?

Traditional Marriage: In this relationship there is of course both a man and a woman. The guy you with personally believes chivalry isn't dead and that men should be the leader in the household in order to protect his wife and children. He doesn't believe that women should be out working because it is his duty as the man to fetch the money for the family. Now if you are looking for a woman, don't expect your girl to agree with going out and making her own money or earning money for the family. Because with the traditional women she wants to be taking cared of and being the prime homemaker, while you be out and having a long day, your girl might dress really beautiful and present you with a fresh cook dinner and a clean house once you get off of work.

Modern Marriage: Usually in this one there really no strict gender conforming because either the man or woman can take up the role as the breadwinner or homemaker. Or instead of one sticking with the other the two of you can compromise and each switch turns you know do everything 50/50.

Gay Marriage: If you are a man who aren't interested in women than you definitely be more suitable in being married to another man and discussing how you and your partner do responsibilities. The same applies to women who isn't interested in being with a man, you and your future wife can both discuss about how the two of you will take on responsibilities.

Single Life: You are the gentleman or lady who ain't really looking for romance because you prefer to be by yourself and enjoyed the solitude and being able to control literally everything about your house and precious time.