What’s going on with my girlfriend?

[1-3-2-4]

I’m going to start off by saying I’m sure what you guys are going to say but I’m going to explain.. so I noticed my girlfriend sending less emojis.. and not really FaceTiming me as much I kinda told her about it and she just kinda brushed it off. So it was times she said I will call you or text you when I get off the train.. next then like an hour or so goes by (her ride is like 40 min) she will FaceTime me but she’s at work already and before she would FaceTime me while walking to work. So now I woke up with her one weekend and she says I kinda need my space back blah blah. I had clothes over her place so she packed everything even my deodorant in my bag which I thought was crazy. Gave her space didn’t really contact her but she called me and she got annoyed when I kept trying to press the issue as it was all of a sudden out of the blue. So I got her some flowers and she told me don’t bring them over just keep them at your mom and just think of them as me (waaat?) So I made a trip into the city anyways sent her a photo and she asked me where was I.. instead of not meeting up she asked me if I wanted to go out to dinner which we did and I asked her why? She’s like I miss you. So long story short she was getting herself a Uber home and she asks me do you want to come home with me? I said it would be nice and while in the Uber she told me don’t get mad but I took your pictures down of us and I asked her why and she’s like I just can’t look at them right now.. (lol)

So we end up having sex she enjoyed it but she didn’t want me to leave any hickys on her neck she pushed me off her and said HEY! At one point. So fast forward to the morning She walked me out and said she had to go get car rental but it was far (sure) but instead of me going with her she sat on the porch and waited for me to leave I should of waited to see but I think she waited for me to turn the corner.. before we left the house she told me to “Just trust me” I told her to put herself in my shoes.

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1 y

Also so The night before she told me no one would be home to let me in however I went back over the house later to use the restroom and I noticed she took my toothbrush out of the holder next to hers and put it under the sink and took my washcloth off the shower rail. I don’t know if she was home at the time (I didn’t tell her I was stopping by) but she’s saying thing to me like I want to go to this restaurant with you and when I questioned her the night before if I was her boyfriend she said ye

Updates

1 y

She’s asking me to stay the night with her and she wants me to have breakfast with her.

[Circlesgames]

Sorry bro, she's found someone else, this is why we say girls can't hide when they founds someone else, so guys having sex isn't as worst as girls having sex, leave bro, before you leave finally, sex her one last time and zoom off. Choke her bite her whatever and leave 😂, just kidding, take ur things and leave maturly, if you did a good job in the relationship, she will miss you both might not come back, she might only have several breakups from trying to compare them with you

[1-3-2-4]

She sent a text last night telling me she was drunk I asked what did you drink I didn't get a reply but she was checking my Instagram stories.

I told her I was going to bring her flowers over I got for her lol she got so mad she's like if you come over here I won't talk to you ever again! lol...

[Circlesgames]

Yh bro, she's with someone else

[Circlesgames]

You know what let's get back at her in our own way, now it doesn't prove anything but just, do this
First I want you to know it's painful OK, even more painful thinking of her being with someone else, your lucky urs isn't the type who can do things and hide them, so you just have to try your best to move on from this ok.

Now what I want you to do is simply stop replying any of her text or calls, I mknow ryt now ur the one on read, but leave the chat no message for days, if she is still alive she will definitely text u, and when she does, be dominant, what ever she says would probably to confirm if your still heads over her, and to tell her your not, be cold to her, no emoji, short text don't explain to her or say ur feelings at all, just be plain.
It's not easy but you can hold back your emotional pains for a while you will be OK,
Tell yourself from time to time to let go, it's OK, it's OK, it's good she expose herself like this, self control is needed here, talk to urself not in mind but out like ur talking to somome in ur room

[1-3-2-4]

This is going to be hard… I didn’t respond to her this morning and she ended up texting back again

[Circlesgames]

Shit, sorry didn't get this notification, you haven't even gone days and she already texting u bro, she wants to keep useikf u as a second choice, she's having sex, just ignore her don't go if she calls, cause she might just use sex to blur ur choices

[1-3-2-4]

Another update she unfollowed me on Instagram and all that.. I did send her a long text explaining what I did was wrong and all that.. she didn’t respond and I didn’t expect, however she called me this morning said she wanted to meet up to kinda talk about what happened. Her tone was definitely much softer this time around.

[Circlesgames]

Please, please, let her go, she is using you, brother, just man up and let things be, she won't change, there is no reason to understand what she has done, do what I said if u want to take the control back, but if u want to be her toy boy then go meet her today and belive all the fake words she has to say, usually I don't support the method am giving you, but this is just a full proof here that she's so wrong In all ways

[Circlesgames]

U can go and hear stuffs this is ur chance to show her u don't care anymore, just say OK and turn around to leave, it's all a act OK but if u want to go back to her that's fine, mee I can't deal with my girlfriend if she did me this way, she can't even dare to treat me this way cause I would have known what's happening and fixed her up,

[1-3-2-4]

She FaceTime me again talked a little bit more in detail about what we were going to talk about.. she didn’t like how I came at her and how I accused her of talking to some other guy.

[Circlesgames]

Wow, sorry bro, now your talking like u left a part of the story out, the part you started it, did you start this whole thing?

[Circlesgames]

I will say yes, from suspecting her, now some people can't handle the fact about being not trusted and suspected all the time, but that isn't the case tho, with what I have seen now, and if your right by saying she went on to unfollow you, being soo mean and extreme to you... Let me ask one question.
Does she have anger issues?
If no then she indeed was with someone else, there is no amount of immaturity that I have heard of, that will make a person more furious or angry when being accused especially relationship matters when suspected by your partner.
What was supposed to happen was she to make a joke about it, or try to explain to you and clear things up, some will just be straight to you in the face telling u they just found it too much, or so, its normal it happens but for the fact she is angry she cheated or started a lively chat with someone else.
If you didn't go too extreme to suspect her, and investigate then she is really cheating but if u did then she just could not handle the stress anymore and had to offload it somehow... Which means she seems to be the one who has been letting things go in your relationship...
But please give me a clear truth, who started the anger not the texting less, how far did u go to investigate her

[Circlesgames]

Overall, it's strange for her to hide ur things like she is expecting someone else, but am not used to concluding things based on Somthing that looks so sound proo, she could have done that out of irritation of seeing ur stuffs.
But if you say the truth how it all started to head this way, if u did something before she texted u less say it or after she texted u lesss how much did u bug her and blame her, how long have u too been together... I am totally with you in this case and want u to know am only trying to find the truth.

[Circlesgames]

So we can give a final solution to it

[Circlesgames]

Oh, and ask her why she did what she did to ur things in the toilet

[Circlesgames]

I don't need her answer, I need her response (body language, vocals,) pls take Note of those

[Circlesgames]

Don't text her that, call her for. That OK

[1-3-2-4]

To go back she used to FaceTime a lot use a lot of emoji’s with me but it slowly stopped I felt she was hiding stuff.. I was staying with her for a few weeks which was cool but one Saturday morning she kinda said someone found out about me and I had to leave.. that’s when she said I kinda want my space back I need space. It was so out of the blue I was blindsided. Then she took the photos of us off her pin up board which I thought was odd and she took my toothbrush out next to hers and put it under the sink. I felt like she was hiding something maybe I could of been wrong but that’s pretty excessive.

[1-3-2-4]

Also another thing when having sex she couldn’t say I love you back she would just stare at me or when I tried to leave a Nicky on her neck she pulled back and said hey! I know what you are trying to do. She not one for anger issues but she was very annoyed when I told her to put herself in my shoes to see how it feels definitely didn’t want to hear that.

[Circlesgames]

And, did u guys agree to be girlfriend and boyfriend, or something casual, cause a girlfriend won't sound like this, or are u boyfriend and girlfriend but she said u guys should stay private

[1-3-2-4]

We be together 3 months so far now I don’t feel I went too overboard I asked her calmly was she talking to anyone else she said no. But for her to struggle to say I love you which she said so easy before was odd..

One thing is she doesn’t like me to overtalk her when she talks as she calls it by doing that she said it makes it about me which makes her irritated I told her that I would be mindful with that.. she also said that I was showing signs like her ex which I assume she means accusing her of stuff.. as her ex used to beat her and talk down to her which I don’t do that.

[Circlesgames]

We're almost there, just answer this last question I have and we will have a definite answer and a solution

[1-3-2-4]

Yes we agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend

[Circlesgames]

Do you know of anyone she has mentioned that she is afraid of, knowing about u guys

[1-3-2-4]

I won’t see her until this weekend most likely she’s not sure but I’m sure it will be this weekend. I can almost hear what she’s going to say.. the toothbrush reminded me of you.

[Circlesgames]

OK it has been concluded

[Circlesgames]

She indeed was cheating on you,

[1-3-2-4]

Not really her cousin I met in person it kinda wasn’t supposed to happen but I was shocked she showed me off to her.. I’ve seen her cousins back in her country.. the only people I haven’t seen yet is her grandmother and her mom and stepdad..

[Circlesgames]

To fix this, don't text her frequently or call her or argue just like I said pls be cool, if u want your respect back from this girl

[1-3-2-4]

She told me that she didn’t and the guy was a homie and that she would not cheat on me like that.. it like I overheard her talking to her roommate saying if things don’t work out and they have different partners it’s ok.. and I heard the roommate said it’s ok you are exploring.

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah she knew I was pissed she’s like I don’t know we’re all that came from.. I told her my heart rate while standing still was 120.. when I was moving around it was 150.. so it goes to show how I was feeling.

[Circlesgames]

Trust me, showing family dorms matter, she could easily say things didn't work out, she's lost now, that's what am saying maybe she planned to be serious with u but fell into a guys arms, she's in confusion ryt now and to get her to think is to make her think ur leaving, this will give her space to remember what you were to her, if u were nothing then let her go, but trust me it's either she has mental issue or I don't know, but trust me all her actions now points to that cheating, the only kast thing u cna do for me is to ask her face to face about your things in the toilet, OK take note of any behaviours OK, u should not have asked by text before but its OK ask again in public

[1-3-2-4]

That’s what happened this morning or I should say last night.. she called me early at work this morning which was odd but she told me she wanted to call me last night but she thought I was sleep we both had a hard time sleeping but she said she saw my long text as soon as I sent it. This morning she pretty much said she was thinking about me. And she was looking at your photos together in Miami that meant something to her.

[Circlesgames]

Nahhh, still give her time that's not enough, she need more time to be alone to rrsly think and miss u

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah I know that’s why I knew she would be the one contacting me

[Circlesgames]

Good, alryt, don't expect tho just think of other things in ur life to do, expectation always adds fuel to the fire

[1-3-2-4]

One little thing that bothers me is she used to say good morning or I would say it and she would respond back.. now it’s just me saying it.. ok I FaceTime her this morning she was dressed but she did say good morning finally. It’s just the whole like texts in the morning is a nice thing unless she got tired of them every day.

[Circlesgames]

Bro, i will not help u any more, as it seems u are not even listening to anything I told u to do, I can see u went back to texting and loving her, so that is your responsibility, a man who has ear to hear but doesn't listen leave him for he is only wasting your time. I hope u read everything we talked again and follow them, but use your brain love should not crowd ur mind, do what must be done to fix the relationship, going back to her line a kid will not fix things beikve me, anyways I also have my things to do, so I can't be available now sorry bro, we concluded already that she needs to be thought that it's OK if she wants to leave or cheat but ur not going to be a come back to or part of that game

[1-3-2-4]

I ended up getting a hotel since her roommate is still a little upset with me she went out with them and she kept in contact with me. She ended up texting me around 3:30 in the morning asking where I was and she came over what she wanted to talk about she didn’t even bring up.. Her body language was just about normal, her roommate did want her to talk to me because I kinda of came over last min unannounced so she’s still pretty upset my girl was trying to tell them last night she was still talking to me but she didn’t feel the timing was right and that I wanted to say sorry about what happen but she said it’s going to take time.

[1-3-2-4]

Ended up getting rid of this girl.. she still wanted to play games it was a pattern.. got excited when she got something then it smoothed out.. the last thing that had me blow up was I sent a text early morning like 7:10 AM and by 6 PM still no response not until I turned my location off. She facetimed me and I ignored it she called back within 3 min and I spoke to her and I asked her why didn't she respond to my text message? She's like I just didn't want to talk to you.. then that's when I said I saw you can like posts on IG within mins of it being posted.. I went off pretty hard and all she could do was just laugh.. I hung up and next thing I noticed was she blocked me on IG and removed me from bereal..

The funny thing was the day before she asked me to have a sandwich with her and we did nothing went on she gave kisses but it was just awkward. And that led to the chain of events above...

[Circlesgames]

Nah, bro she ended things with you, this would have been a good end story if u did as I said before now, now she gave u a traumatic exit... Laughing at your complains or rants, that's sad, but stay strong tho, there are plenty of partners to match each and everyone OK, you will find a good partner for your kinda pace in life soon, no rush

[1-3-2-4]

It was stupid to tell me to come over then next day ignore the messages all day it's just really stupid and baffling the sucky part is trying to move on and trying to forget.. it's funny the one's who cheat behind your back get so bent out of shape if they hear your phone going off.

[Circlesgames]

Lol yh

[faithgrace4u]

She could be cheating on you or hiding the realtionship from someone im sorry bro but if its true you deserve better😥

[1-3-2-4]

You don’t know how much it hurts.. we went to Miami Beach together just me and her and had so much fun… it’s crazy she showed me off to her cousins.. this is why I’m confused.

She sent me a text about an hour ago saying she’s so drunk. I asked what did she drink and no response.

[1-3-2-4]

OMG she just told me to come over...

[faithgrace4u]

your right I don't know but be careful

[1-3-2-4]

Wants me to stay overnight..

[faithgrace4u]

well i still think she wants you for sex and she's seeing another guy

[1-3-2-4]

Yep you got it I just overheard it while in the room she was saying this guy was saying oh if things don’t work out and we end up with other partners they can still be friends. So when I went over her house today she’s like I wanted to see you and spend time with you… huh? But didn’t want to be as intimate but she did a little and got defensive when I told her about my pictures taken down and my toothbrush and washcloth

[faithgrace4u]

im so sorry

[1-3-2-4]

I heard her talking low to her roommate outside the door I heard the roommate said your still exploring.. like wtf.. and she wanted me to come over because she wanted to spend time with me. But yet I felt like we were just their.. she held my hand and wanted sex and all but definitely got annoyed when I told her I know you have someone else. Then she was not wanting me to touch her at all because she was annoyed.

[faithgrace4u]

Yeah im so sorry but you deserve someone better

[1-3-2-4]

I know I just feel so betrayed all the stuff we did together and I helped her get rid of an ex that was abusing her and texting her phone non stop he even destroyed everything in her storage.

I thought that was enough to show that I cared for her..

[faithgrace4u]

Some girls think they rule the world and some try and thats proably one of the reasons why

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah that’s pretty messed up

[spartan55]

Dude, get out of there. She is with another dude.

[1-3-2-4]

She’s still got some of my stuff over the house.. why would she agree and meet up with me last night and end up getting sexual? And still agree to check out another place together?

[spartan55]

Because she wants to keep you on the string, and knows you will put up with her shit. She is playing you.

[1-3-2-4]

Last time I called her out on stuff she is very insecure she ended up crying because she felt bad always thinking I had a girl sending messages.. not sure if this is a trigger for that but it seems to be in the works for a bit to see how much it progressed.

[spartan55]

She is manipulating you. Damn, she sounds so much like a girlfriend I had at your age.

[1-3-2-4]

Crazy as this girl had a ex that was abusing her like physically she moved from the west coast to the east. She had me meet her friends here.. however I kinda blame her roommate she kinda does this like she has one main guy and a crap loads of others.. I remember at one point a new guy each night.