Would you consider your boyfriend getting a lapdance cheating if you were present, and you were offered a lapdance too, from the same dancer?

[Anonymous]

A friend hired a dancer for his birthday party. Everyone were offered a dance. You turned the offer down, your boyfriend accepted it.

[DestinyElizabeth04]

No, absolutely not. However, I can't say that I wouldn't be hurt depending on the nature of it. Were you touching the woman? I know I would be hurt in a scenario like this if my fiance was touching the person giving the lap dance. If you weren't touching the woman, no. Absolutely not would I be upset. The dancer was hired by a buddy AND the dancer asked the girl first before making her way to the guy. Which I think is pretty respectable. Sure, he could have turned down a lap dance but why would he? I feel like at some level this woman should have known if she was comfortable with it or not but still put herself in that position with expectations that she did not vocalize. If she wanted the man to say no, she should have said that. A simple nudge and a "please don't" would have worked wonders.

And before any woman comes at me, the whole "testing them" mentality needs to stop. Stop testing men, stop testing women. Communicate and grow.

[Anonymous]

I never understood the whole strip club or lap dance thing... I dont like starting my car up if I'm not going to drive it anywhere, if you get my meaning... Never saw the point lmao

[Guy13]

I don’t want the flying cockroaches and worms falling out your vagina and ass crack so No Thank You…. You can keep the Infested Lap to yourself 🤢 🪱 🍰 🪳 🤮

[Asker]

I'm neither female or the dancer. I accepted the dance and now I have a grumpy girlfriend.

[AviatorTom]

A lapdance is not cheating.

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[Jayjay1234567890]

Yes.