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My friend @Physics-Man is a good man and I would like to offer him some hope and encouragement with this post. He recently posted a question
How are nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdos supposed to get a girlfriend or even a date in a scene not meant for us?
asking what a nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo is supposed to do about dating because he doesn't fit into the dating scene and he feels that there are no girls out there who would be interested in someone like him.

First, I don't necessarily agree with his assessment of himself but I've learned not to argue with people about such things. I think he is the kind of guy who is the salt of the earth, who will one day be an excellent husband and father, the kind of guy that a girl will be married to for 58 years until the day he or she dies, and they will make beautiful nerd babies together. But he obviously feels like a square peg in a round hole world and that is a heavy burden!

Anyway. . . do you consider yourself to be one of those nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo girls who would be interested in a guy who thinks the same of himself, or do you know of someone else who would date a guy who fits the nerd profile? Even if you are not the quintessential nerd girl, would you date such a guy? Where should my friend look for girls who potentially would be receptive to his romantic interest?

Asian women are so popular and Asian men are so unpopular. What other race creates such a divided reaction? I find it peculiar and interesting. A few months ago I shared my picture and the reactions were harsh: "Unattractive" "Not my type" "I wouldn't give you a chance". Of course some reactions are also kind and some girls even thought I looked good. But why is the reaction so extreme either way? Is there a particular stigma or unspoken taboo against Asian guys? I am simply curious thanks.

My professor at my University is an Asian guy and married a white woman. Even with my liberal classmates born and raised in California they find it weird and didn't know how to process it. They weren't against it but it was like seeing a unicorn teach your classroom. This reaction would not exist with Asian women. Is the dating world unfairly stacked against Asian men?

P. S. I was inspired to write this question because so many white and black people loved writing "Why me?" questions so I thought I should join in on the fun.