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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
Can y’all help me out… has anyone been in a similar situation?
My boyfriend was sleeping and we have each others passwords so I just happened to open his phone and saw he had a girl number he just met at a club saved under a guys name. Then I saw the messages she basically hit him up...
Anonymous
(30-35) What's a good way to pull back and make your life more interesting for him to actually chase you again?
Before I start this let me say this i have a boyfriend and I'm starting to see that he's not what he said he was, and instead of wasting my life on this man it will help me untached myself to him and it won't hurt as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you hate disrespectful cat calling men?
Do you hate disrespectful cat calling men? Today at court I had this guy who just got out of jail and was in court cat calling all the women walking By and try to flirt with them. He also wanted to chat a lot and was...
mattclark242
Xper 6 Age: 28 Should I just walk away?
So I got over a nasty break up last year and decided to date someone again. I net this really sweet considerate guy and we went out for 2 months and I thought things were getting serious. We slept together for the first...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it surprising to you that even an hispanic girl has specific preferences too?
For friendship, I don't care and will accept anyone, any culture, etc. For a relationship, I do have specific preference. There is a group that hit on me often (more than other groups) and I always end up rejecting them...
Anonymous
(25-29) If men and women are equal, why do girls hit guys playfully expecting not to get hit back?
Two men never hit each other. Hoping never to get hit back
chris_987
Yoda Age: 38 Is he working up the courage to ask me out?
hi guys! my coworker and I have gotten closer over time, he dm me everyday once a day at first just a funny meme now we talk all day everyday and he even asks me to visit him on his lunch on my days off and does the same...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guy liking all my instagram stories?
Okay so for some context - I'm a university student and I met this guy at a party last year. We really hit it off - he ended up asking me to come hangout with him and some of his friends after the party. I said no because...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did I make a mistake?
A follow up to a recent question I posted. I recently spent a week in a mental health facility. In there I hit it off with a girl, a fellow patient. We stayed in touch after being discharged. I wouldn't say that I was...
Jmmmfi4
Master Age: 45 Signs a cancer male likes you or he is just being nice?
How can I figure out if this guy from work is into me? I'm so bad on reading signs. Even if one would hit me in the face, I still won't get it. Please share your tips.
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you consider yourself an old soul?
People always called me an old soul. The thing is I just never fit in with people my age group. When I come acroos someone my age it's just that weird awkward silence. But the thing is with people who happen to be 10+...
Alwayreckles93
Yoda Age: 33 Why do I seem happier when I’m chubby than when I was thin?
So growing up, I was slender. I was a slender child, teenage and when puberty hit, I gained about 15 pounds and got curvier but still slim. I know most girls (not all) wish they had a slender figure and this May sounds...
Anonymous
(18-24) GIRLS.. If you try to get your boyfriend jealous about what another guy said to you what's the best response?
A server at a restaurant did a little flirty move when my girl ordered a drink when I wasn't there telling her she's "new to the game" of drinking. Not a big deal, but my girlfriend told me about it to test me. So what's...
hardboiledink
Xper 5 Age: 35 Is having a brother the main reason for my empathy for both genders?
I have a younger brother myself and if nasty witch wronged him badly or took away his hard working money/assets and left him in ruins, I'll be the one coming after her. I imagine going rounds with her, seriously. I don't...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I get out of this?
So, I was having some issues with anxiety and spent about a week in mental health facility. While in there I struck up a conversation with a 25 year old girl and we immediately hit it off. We spent days talking for hours...
Jmmmfi4
Master Age: 45 Girls always make the first move with me... is that a bad thing?
Girls absolutely have no problem approaching or asking me out... even when they're strangers or we had just met... now , obviously that's nice lol... an attractive girl coming onto you and making the first move , doesn't...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I tell her I don't want to spend anymore money?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and I normally I spend a lot of money on her (I didn't mind at first because I loved her very much), but times have changed a bit. Me and my girlfriend are...
Anonymous
(25-29) I got hit on by a guy from Bumble BFF. Has this happened to anyone else?
So for those who use Bumble BFF Have you ever matched with another guy, decided to meet/hang out and then they decided to try and flirt with you and get in your personal space multiple times during the meet up? Had an...
Evan64
Xper 4 Age: 30 Girls, How would you feel if the guy you liked fought someone to protect you?
There's this guy I really like, and we've chatted a few times. He's tall, strong and really confident, his name's Clint. He has like a next level awareness of his surroundings, once when we were out with friends, he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did my crush send me a girl shaking her ass? And what did he mean by glooks?
Hi guys I’m friends with my crush from work we’ve gotten closer and I spend lunches in his car listening to music and hanging out. He also dm me a lot of memes etc today he sent me a video of some random girl shaking her...
Anonymous
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