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This woman and I hit it off really well. She then asked me out to get coffee with her. The day before she said let’s do dinner instead. The day we were supposed to get dinner she didn’t text me at all. The next day she texted me and said she was really sorry and said let’s take a spontaneous trip to the next city over. We drove up and the whole ride she held my hand and caressed me. She booked us an air bnb for the night and we cuddled all night. On the drive back home the next day she did the same thing in the car. When I dropped her off I went in for a kiss and she said no so I said ok. She didn’t text me at all the day but then drunk called me that night. I went made sure she ate and drank water. The next day she went to the E. R. I picked her up and took her home. The next day she asked me to come over so we could make pancakes but when I pulled up she didn’t respond to my text turned out she fell asleep. She invited me over again this time she apologized for being all over and said she’s moving to New York. I told her I really liked her she said she really liked me and we slept together. That night she text me again asking me to come over and we sleep together again. A few days later it’s her last day and she asks me to spend the night with her. we have sex again, shower together and cuddle all night. She tells me she’s gonna call and text all the time, that she’s gonna miss us hanging out, and that she doesn’t wanna go. We wake up the next morning have sex one last time and she leaves. She texted me all day while she was traveling and when she got there she trailed off. Now she texts me “hey, how’re you” I respond then don’t hear from her until she asks me again a few days later. She occasionally likes my post on social media and even commented hearts on one picture. I really don’t know what’s up with her though. Anything you guys have to share will help.

I don’t understand why a girl would do that because this happened recently. The girl was white and married a Mexican guy that is from Mexico. Her family disowned her. Why would she pick a guy she hardly knows over her own family? How does that make sense?
The reason they didn’t want her with him is because she is a redhead naturally. That is actually pretty rare. Everyone was really upset with her because now the red head genes are ruined. That’s what they were saying. They also were trying to put things into her head as if he would hit her or leave her as soon as she got pregnant. They have children together now…