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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Are women turned off by guys weaker than them?
I'm a 20 year old male at 5'8" weighing 140 lbs. Currently, I am able to barbell bicep curl 70 lbs for 1 rep max, tricep rope pulldown roughly 65 - 72.5 lbs, max bench press at 155 lbs for 1 rep max, and squat at about...
hustlerbro123
Xper 2 Age: 26 Why do a lot of guys/people nowadays ask for your Instagram handle?
Am I the only one, who finds this a turn-off? Makes me think they're just looking for followers. Secondly, it's a bit intrusive, as there's a lot of personal information attached to it (full name, profession, social...
Anonymous
(18-24) When it comes to online dating and real life dating, what are the biggest red flags?
Is online dating? I get mixed relsaut. They seem to only get guys that are asking for snaps. That are is one red flags if shapchat and I did had looked on reddit and said is was red flags and is full of cheaters. I can...
SeaStorm1
Xper 5 Age: 27 How to get out of this situation?
I got myself in to a situation. A guy hit on me at the gym. At first I was excited. Someone different that I normally go for. He has been texting me and yesterday called in the middle of the day. I said I am working and...
Lilphil123
Xper 5 Age: 40 Girls, does it sound like it would be ok to bring up the idea of exclusivity or should I not?
so i was set up with a girl on a blind date about a month ago. we really hit it off with one another. and im kind of at the point on my end where i went to ask her what she thinks about being exclusive but im not sure if...
zes0511
Xper 3 Age: 36 Are some minor sh scars on a guys thighs an immediate turn off?
looking more for responses from women without any scars but still interested in all opinions
Anonymous
(25-29) 
What can I do to avoid the dating bullshit that I have met on online dating sites and in real life dating with some men?
Women with a learning disability Dating is bullshit no matter what type of dating is from online dating to real life. Online dating can also have bullshit and have more bad habits from what I noctied from online dating...
SeaStorm1
Xper 5 Age: 27 Have you ever had a friend tell you that you could do better?
My best friend thinks my boyfriend is ugly. He’s a big guy and he ‘s taller than me and he’s nice. My best friend always tells me that he is unattractive. He isn’t to me! I ask her what about him does she think is so bad...
TallSlim90
Xper 4 Age: 35 What does she mean by “there’s potential?”?
Long story short, I met this girl for the first time on Hinge, texting was great for 5 days, then our first date was actually a flight to Denver where we spent 4 days together (I spontaneously said “what if I went with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, do you like or dislike men who glorify male promiscuity?
I often see comments from men on social media praising man sluts. "This man is a lucky guy". "He won a lottery". " he is in Heaven". This is such a turn off to me. I lose my respect for men who degrade themselves like...
marish01
Yoda Age: 36 Guys, are inner thigh stretch marks a major turn off?
Would you dump a girl you are dating or have strong feelings for, if she has inner thigh stretch marks or anywhere else on the body? I want honest answers. Please!!
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would some random boy I’ve never talked to in my life hate me for no reason?
So I made out with this guy I had a crush on in my youth, let’s call him Josh. We made out like twice that day & he also kissed me twice ( like normal not french kiss). It was in the shower but we were wearing our bathing...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why can’t I just find someone who’s pretty and sweet enough for me?
I’m a good looking guy, but I have yet to meet a girl who’s hot, and isn’t problematic. Like I meet girls who go on their phone texting other guys in front of me. Act different when they’re drunk, and are mean to me. Just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, are nerdy guys serious turn off?
I am a grad student (physics) whose hobbies are nerdy. I like pottery and arts, writing, am very good at cooking, and volunteer at animal shelters. So far never had a single girlfriend. Girls only show interest when they...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girlfriend lied to get into a relationship with me?
I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. I just found out that she lied and manipulated her way into a relationship with me. I don't know how to feel because I love her but feel betrayed at the same time. When we first...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is the ballsiest pickup you've ever witnessed?
From a friend, a stranger, or you, or to you. I saw a guy ordering at Wendy's ask the cashier for her number (successfully). I was driving once and the guy in front of me was yelling to the girl in the next lane. He...
zagor
Master Age: 39 Girls, If a guy can cook and clean , can he get along with conservative girls?
Saying from personal experiences conservative girls generally see men doing such as less manly. It's a huge turn off for them as they want to take those work and want men to earn more.
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you guys think I should do? Or what would you do in this situation?
I took a liking to a guy I was working with. I can only assume he took a liking to me too. You know when you just know when someone likes you back. Even if either of you haven’t verbally said it, it just shows? You know,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, would you date a girl who looks way younger?
I am 24 but pretty insecure about the fact that I basically look 14. Even my voice sounds like I am way younger. I am short, skinny, and have a baby face which all contribute to it. I just don't think I can compare to...
osmalik
Xper 2 Age: 27 
AlainD
Xper 1 Age: 34 