What do you guys think I should do? Or what would you do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

I took a liking to a guy I was working with. I can only assume he took a liking to me too. You know when you just know when someone likes you back. Even if either of you haven’t verbally said it, it just shows? You know, they don’t act like you don’t exist, they speak, smile. You guys basically mirror each other as far as showing attraction and flirting. The thing is he has quit the job. He also had suddenly stopped talking to me and being sort of offish prior to him quitting. Things were going good and he just pushed away and I didn’t push back or build up the courage to ask him why he pushed away and now it’s too late for me to because he’s no longer at the job. I do know his Facebook and part of me is saying add him. Keep going with the communication and friendship we’re building. Don’t lose out on something that can possibly turn out good but then another part is saying that maybe it just wasn’t meant to be anything more than a temporary crush and to just let it go. To not come off so stalker-ish and weird and move on because more than likely I’ll start liking someone else. You know the”plenty of fish in the sea.” Thinking.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you had a connection with this guy, and it seems like there was mutual interest. It's not uncommon for people to hesitate in such situations. If you feel like there might be potential for something more, adding him on Facebook and initiating a friendly conversation could be a way to reconnect. However, it's essential to approach this with the intention of rekindling a friendship and not as a romantic pursuit to avoid coming off as "stalker-ish." Keep it light, and if the conversation flows naturally, you can explore your feelings and see where it goes. Just remember that if it doesn't work out, there are indeed "plenty of fish in the sea," and life goes on.

[djbxtkbxdy]

I think if making your feelings known weren’t important enough for either of you before, assuming those feelings are mutual and not just all in your head, then I don’t think they are now. We live in a world that, due to the plague of technology and social media we’ve all been infected by, it has become increasingly harder to communicate with one another. I think 50 years ago this sort of passive behaviour would be less common and people would just approach one another and make their intentions clear fairly soon. Nowadays this has fallen out of fashion and it’s all Tinder and playing telepathic mind games. As a result I believe we’ve sort of “devolved” into not being able to communicate with the opposite sex very well when really it should be very natural and normal. We really are a dumb species.

[Nikki1989]

I would never want any relationship with anyone I work with. That is just asking for trouble.

[Asker]

Well he quit sooo lol

[Tharithi]

It’s not worth it if u are fine with missing out on them

[Asker]

It’s not that I’m “fine with missing out.” It’s just crossing over that embarrassing”This is gonna make me blush and feel awkward.” Phase of a crush is hard. So naturally, I’m telling and forcing myself to move on to avoid that feeling. Also, part of that avoidance is natural because I am not in a rush to be in a relationship just because I like someone. It’s really what we were building through our communication and showing of attraction that’s making me want to rekindle that connection. But as I said, he more than likely won’t be the last guy I feel that kind of connection of with so, is it worth it even if it is sort of worth it?

[Tim2nice]

Add him, what you’re waiting for? The worst thing that could happen is he rejects you. And the best could be marriage and kids and eternal happiness

[Asker]

Well he did accept it but I’m not thinking that far into the future like what you said lol but I am happy I took a step out on courage and it actually worked out.